When you're vulnerable and authentic, you attract people who get you and repel those who don't. Stop chasing approval. Open your heart, show who you really are, and the right people show up.
you being vulnerable and being the most authentic version of you is going to attract to you people that really resonate with that deeper aspect of you. It will also repel away from you people that don't resonate with that aspect of you. But that's okay. You don't need the approval and validation of these people. What you wanna go for is vulnerability, finding people that resonate with the deeper aspects of you. But the only way you find that is by embodying it first off within yourself. If love and connection was not felt growing up, Approval and validation is the second thing people will settle for. So instead of going for approval and validation, focus instead on connection and love. And the only way people can really love you is if you are really being you, if you are showing and expressing your real emotions. Vulnerability is a way of opening your heart.
