Self-awareness and self-acceptance are magnetic qualities that attract like-minded people while repelling those unwilling to do their own work. When someone triggers you, that's self-awareness too. The energy you embody determines who you attract, so cultivate these qualities first.
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One of the most attractive qualities someone can have is the quality of being self-aware. Being aware of who someone is, like who they are, being aware of their patterns, becoming aware of the level of growth or the level of self-acceptance that they want to tap into. And this is both a magnet and a repellent depending on the energy. Someone that is very self-aware many times may actually repel people that have things maybe they don't want to look at, and people that are very self-accepting of certain qualities themselves may then also trigger other people who don't accept certain things in themselves. And it also works vice versa. So sometimes it's good to be aware if someone else is triggering you, what about them is triggering you? That's also part of that self-awareness. But you do get in life that which the energy you embody is, that which you value. So if you wanna attract someone who is aware, you must first become self-aware of yourself and also self-accepting of yourself.