Aaron Doughty says trying to change yourself for approval creates fake energy that pushes people away. Instead, stay present in the moment rather than dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. That simple shift makes you naturally magnetic.
the more you want people to like you, the more you try to change yourself so that you get people's approval, the more messed up your energy will feel and the more inauthentic it is and the less people will actually like you because you're not just being yourself. You aren't broken. There's nothing wrong with you. There's nothing you need to do. There's nothing you need to even become. This is about just making the choice to be in this moment, to be present, because when we start trying to control the outcome of shit, We are focused on outcome. We're focused on, we're focused on the future. We're out of the present moment and we're trying to control what we can get over here. If we're dwelling on the past, then we're in the past and we're not here. But you'll find that the more we let go of the need to control things, the need to understand things, and the more we are being in the present moment, the more transformation we create.
If you can see this, you're about to become so magnetic you are unrecognizable
