How To Design Your Dream Life! (STEP BY STEP)

In this video, I'm gonna show you step by step how to create your dream life. I'm gonna share with you in condensed 12 years of research of me studying this and applying it. I myself have created my dream life from working a 9-to-5 job selling women's shoes over the last 4 or 5 years. And I'm gonna share with you exactly how I did it, exactly how you can do it, and the path of least resistance to you living your dream reality. Now, the first thing I want to do is say that some of this content comes from that of Joe Dispenza. Some of it comes from Bashar, which is like kind of like an Abraham Hicks type thing. Um, some of it comes from what we've been learning about quantum physics and some of it comes from just my own personal life. In fact, a lot of it comes from what has worked for me. I can look back now and see that, wow, I was doing this and I didn't even know I was doing it. but it's what made all the difference because for a long time I felt stuck with the law of attraction. I had been listening to people like Abraham Hicks, I was thinking better thoughts, I was focused on visualization, and there was, for me, there was something missing in the way that I interpreted some of that information. I was working that 9-to-5 job, saw a woman, she was waiting for something to happen. And the longer I waited, the more frustrated I became and the more I didn't understand why things weren't actually happening. But it's because there was a missing key there that changed absolutely everything that I'm gonna be sharing with you. So first off, I'm gonna go into a little bit of teaching of explaining what made all the difference for me and understanding how reality works in a deeper sense, okay? So some of this, like I said, Bashar, Joe Dispenza, different teachers like that. We get in life a reflection of not what we want. What we want, we say, I want more money, I want abundance, I want the loving relationship. But when we say I want, we actually are lacking because if we had it, we wouldn't want it, we would naturally have it. Now we experience in reality a reflection of who we are being. Who we are being is projecting out of our energy field and we are receiving a reality that is equal to that energy field, to that energy we are putting out. So instead of focusing how most people focus, which is what I did for years, I would focus on what I wanted. I'd focus on more money, I'd focus on more abundance, I'd focus on the side effects of who you are being, but not actually who you are being. One of the first times I actually learned this, now that I look back, it's easy for me to see, but when I was working at women's shoes, I would go into work every day saying, I wanna sell $5,000 worth of shoes today because we got paid 10% commission, $5,000, like $500 a commission. I wanna sell $5,000 today. I'd focus on the $5,000. I'd focus on the $5,000, which is the side effect. There was a time I went into work that I started to be a top salesperson version of myself. I would behave I would literally be that version of me. I would greet every customer. I would have, I looked at that version of me and saw how do I greet customers? How do I help people? What kind of terminology do I use? How do I wrap up the shoes when I, after they buy it? Like I would look at all this and I focus on being that version of me. And that is when everything changed, when I focused on being. Now here's an interesting thing too. I was focused on growing on YouTube, hundreds of thousands of subscribers, thousands of views. I focused on all of these things and what I wanted, and I was making one video a month for months. And then eventually I looked at who am I being? And I realized I was being a 9-to-5 job going version of myself that was occasionally making videos. I'd make videos like once a month. So when I was living at my dad's house and I was making videos in his backyard, I actually wasn't making videos in his backyard. I made the choice that even though I have this 9-to-5 job, and women's shoes and I'm working 35 to 40 hours a week, I'm gonna make a video every single day no matter what on YouTube because I'm going to be, I'm going to be the full-time version YouTuber Aaron. And I had a feeling that if I made videos every single day for a year that my life would utterly transform over the course of a year. So I chose to be a full-time YouTuber. And from being a full-time YouTuber at first, there was this interesting thing that happened where I felt kind of self-sabotaged. I felt like, who am I to be sharing law of attraction content or personal help stuff on YouTube? I live at my dad's house. I was feeling like there was a, like I cared what people thought of me. There was all these old programs that were coming up to try to keep me safe. Now let's understand how this works. We all have a past self. Most of us are living in the past. We're thinking the same thoughts, feeling the same emotions, taking the same actions every single day. It feels safe for us, it feels familiar for us to do that, even if we don't like it. I remember going to my 9-to-5 job, bitching about how slow it was every day, how there wasn't that many customers, but there was something about it that I kept going back to, and we complained about it, and we get almost like emotionally, like we'd feel a lot of energy by talking about it and sharing why Everything is so slow. There was a part, and even upper management was like very, and very much controlling, and it was corporate politics, and I had to suck up to get my schedule, hated it, but there was just something about it that felt safe and familiar for me. So we think, feel, and act equal to that of our environment. So many times the path of like, we get in life a complete reflection of what we believe we deserve and who we are being. So me working my 9 to 5 job self, I was thinking, feeling, and acting equal to that 9 to 5 job. That felt safe, comfortable. I was used to that. I've been doing it for 10 years, like 8 years at the time, I think. And what happened is this reality, this box around this version of ourselves is kind of like the identity. It's how we view ourselves. Now we have that of this self-concept. We call this like an identity, a self-image, and we are doing everything we can to be consistent to that version of ourselves. And most of us are living in the past because at a certain point we decided this is who I am, and then that's been on autopilot ever since. So when I was working that 9-to-5 job, I was thinking about all these other cool things I wanted to create. I was visualizing what I wanted, but I wasn't actually being that version of me. Now, here is the key. Here is the secret. Here is the thing that will change everything for you once you apply it and once you begin to use it. There's two things to this. Now, first off, What you wanna do is you want to embody the feelings, the emotions, the actions, everything as that future version of you, the one you can imagine, the one that you can connect to in meditation. This is why meditation is the bridge. Meditation is the key to your transformation because meditation allows you to disconnect with the current reality energy signature that you're embodying It allows you to disconnect from it to then embody a new frequency, to literally tune to a reality that maybe currently isn't here where you can see, feel through your 5 senses. You can literally energetically tune to that reality using visualization, gratitude, feeling inside of your heart. And this was the game changer because before I learned meditation, I felt stuck. Meditation, and this is what Joe Dispenza talks about, he says meditation means to become familiar with. Right now, you may be familiar with your old identity, your old self-image, how you're reacting. Most of the things you feel, think, and act with are just based on habitual patterns. So awareness and meditation is the first step because then you can become aware of what you're thinking, become aware of what you're feeling. Awareness is the key to creating space so that you can then become familiar with a new version of you. So I became aware for myself that I was working a 9-to-5 job, my thoughts, my actions, everything was equal to that. I also believed for a long time I had ADHD and therefore I would take Adderall, which had very harsh side effects. That's actually a good thing though, because it led me to learning meditation because I didn't wanna take Adderall anymore. But nonetheless, I became aware of these identities, I became aware of these belief systems, and I then realized that everything in my life was a complete reflection to who I was being. But the game changer for me is when I learned meditation, I started to become aware of who I was being. I started to become aware of these patterns. I started to become aware that I believed I had to work a 9-to-5 job, and I believed I had to sell women's shoes. And there was a part of me that got a payoff of being almost addicted to that because it felt familiar. So you become familiar with a new version of you, and here's the thing, When you're acting in alignment with your heart and you're feeling gratitude in meditation for just 5 or 10 minutes a day, begins to change the electromagnetic energy of your body. The heart is thousands of times more powerful than that of your head and it's electromagnetic energy, it's magnetic, electromagnetic energy is thousands of times more powerful than the head. So feeling, if you feel lack, if you feel scarcity, if you feel like I'm not where I wanna be, if you feel resistance, that's keeping you trapped. The thing is, is we believe we cannot— we do not feel the emotions until the outer reality changes. The truth is, you will see changes in your reality when your inner reality begins to change and you begin to embody on the outside, begin to act, begin to be this new version of you. So meditation is the first bridge, it's the first doorway. And what you want to do is you want to think, feel, and act and visualize every single night before you go into bed what it would feel like to be this version of you, to be it, not just to think it, not just to feel it, but to be it. What is the actions you could be taking? Massive action for me was a major missing key in my life. When I started making videos every single day, I started to be a full-time YouTuber version of myself, and then my reality began to change. Now, when you are assuming the feeling, assuming the wish fulfilled, as Neville Goddard would say, like I said, a lot of what I'm sharing is rooted and teachers that have been around hundreds of years, or at least 100 years, talking about this kind of stuff and what we've been learning about quantum physics and stuff like that. So you want to embody the energy of the wish fulfilled. As you go to bed at night, you wanna think and feel as if it's already happened, as if you are that version of you. Now, the way it works too is when we're kids, we're in more of a theta state of brainwave activity. Now, when we wake up and go to bed at night, here's the window of time to really create your reality and to really download a new version of you. When you go to bed every night, you are shifting from beta, which is the like really alert kind of like conscious state of being, into alpha, a little bit more relaxed, and then into that of theta and then delta. So you got beta, alpha, theta, delta. When you go to bed at night, you're drifting from beta to alpha to theta. Theta's your subconscious mind. As this window of when you're falling asleep, if you wire in the emotions and the feeling and the belief that this is who I am now, who I am being is this version of me, how do I act, how do I feel, who do I choose to be in this moment, you'll begin to influence your subconscious mind. There's a window of when you wake up in the morning, when you go to bed at night. So every night as I go to bed, I literally feel as this new version of myself. I imagine me with a lot of energy. I imagine me traveling the world, doing what I love, sharing my concepts with a lot of people, having the courage to really put myself out there. I imagine myself in different scenarios and I feel it. I feel gratitude as if it's happening now, as I'm falling asleep at night. And then as I wake up in the morning, that's the most powerful window to reprogram your subconscious mind or in meditation, because in meditation you also can get to theta states. Now here's the thing, when you're a kid, you're primarily in theta state. You're absorbing beliefs of your environment. This is why they say a lot of people are just replaying similar childhood trauma is because when you're a kid and you're in theta, you are just literally absorbing these beliefs of your parents, the identities of your parents and of your environment. And then you're starting to live equal to whatever that environment is. And then you keep recreating that later on. When you're about 8, 9 years old, you start to get more into alpha beta state. You've got these programmed beliefs through theta, through growing up. And then at a certain age, you just, This becomes a part of your identity. So the key to transforming your subconscious mind is going into a theta state through either when you wake up in the morning, when you go to bed at night, there's a little window as you're drifting asleep, feeling the emotions of it as the wish is fulfilled, or go into meditation, get into deep levels of meditation. I think I might start making more meditations and I feel more called to focus more on this stuff because I'm starting to reapply it in my life 'cause I kind of forgot. A lot of this and now I'm using it in my life and it's only been a week and I feel so different. So I'm gonna be applying this. Now here's the thing, you experience a reality is equal to who you are being. When you start embodying this energy with taking action, here's the second part, action. So you have bridge of meditation and choice. So then what you wanna do is as you are feeling in this energy and you are being this new version of you, you are going to notice different probabilities, different synchronicities come into your life. It's gonna feel, it's gonna be kind of freaky because prior you were priming your body for just the same shit every single day, day in and day out. Now that you're feeling emotions beyond, you wanna go beyond that of your current state of identity. As you're feeling emotions in meditation beyond and imagining that version of you and feeling that gratitude, feeling the emotions right now, you are then energetically tuning to a future probability and bringing it into your reality right now. There's an infinite number of probable realities that exist around you, but because we are tuning to how we feel, think, and act, and we are tuning to the familiar emotions that we've been always kind of caught within, we continue to create the same things over and over again. When you start to go beyond, you feel beyond, you do meditation or feel, you start to meditate and you start to feel emotions beyond your current reality, the gratitude, the love, the joy, the peace, all of that, you will then start to perceive new synchronicities on the outside as long as you start making the choice, the new choices, and you start taking action. This is the missing key for a lot of people. Before, a lot of times I was just meditating back in the day. I wasn't taking action, didn't work. Sometimes I take a lot of action, not meditating, not going beyond the own emotions, not becoming familiar with the new state of being, wouldn't work. It's these two things combined. Now, when you talk about identity as well, you wanna think of like the val— you wanna think of this version of you and the values that you have. My old version of me, I valued people's validation, people's approval, people telling me what to do. That's why I had a 9-to-5 job. I valued those things. Values are what you consider to be important. Now, most of the shit you think is important, by the way, is stuff that was wired in when you were kids. You may have not received validation, approval growing up, therefore you seek it in your outer reality now. But the thing is, is you must embody these things now in order to then experience it. It's not that once everyone validates you, then you'll feel worthy. It's once you feel worthy, everyone may validate you, but you won't even need it. So you wanna look at how you're behaving. What are your values? What is your identity? How do you view yourself? What are your daily habits like? And how are you feeling gratitude? When I started making videos every single day, I started behaving as that full-timer version of me. I started making videos every single day no matter what, which meant part of it was saying no to things I didn't, I couldn't, didn't have time to do anymore. Hanging out, just smoking weed, stuff like that. I couldn't do it anymore. I had to focus on this new version of me. I had to take on the values of the new version of me, which valued putting good content out there into the world, even if I didn't feel perfect or if I didn't have it all figured out. It meant me valuing my purpose more than anything else, not my 9 to 5 job so much, even though I did both for a long time. For like 6 months, I did both. I had a full-time job and I made videos every single day on YouTube. Everything changes when you begin to embody these emotions now, the energy now through meditation, and you take action as that new version of you, which means you have to take action beyond what the current identity would do. That's why at my events that I run, one of the things a lot of times we do is we do something that I call an identity shift experience where we go out into the world and we literally get in teams and we go and do things that the old version of ourselves would've never done because the old version of ourselves only wants to be safe in what you think you know. When you start taking action, you start being a new version of you, you then create a shift to where you then view yourself differently. You change your self-image. When I was making videos every single day on YouTube, it changed my self-image. I saw myself as somebody that wasn't just, I saw myself as not only a YouTuber, but somebody that could make shit happen. I saw myself as somebody that could figure anything out. Okay, I figured out YouTube, now let me figure out internet marketing. Let me figure out how to have courses, how to run challenges, these 21-day challenges, how to do these things. And as I did, more abundance came. You don't know what you don't know. So when you start learning, And you realize you can do it in one area of your life, you can apply in other areas of your life. But to summarize, the bridge to this new version of you is realizing that every moment you're a new you, every moment you're a new you, every moment you're a newer you. This is what quantum physics shows us. We've become familiar with the old self and we're trying everything we can to remain consistent to the old self. And what we must do is become aware of this and then in meditation, in a theta state, begin to wire in this new version of ourselves. What are our values like? How do we see ourselves? What is our identity? How do that version of us behave? What are our habits? Feel gratitude as if it's happened now, right when you go to bed every night, right when you wake up in the morning in meditation. And then what you wanna do is realize that then you're gonna begin perceiving of different probabilities and secrets in your life as long as you take action. You don't know the exact action to take, that's okay. Begin to take action as this new you. In meditation, you may get ideas as well because you start being this new version of you. Meditation and awareness plus action/choice will create for you a completely new reality more than you can even ever imagine. Now, if you want to, by the way, learn more about this, get meditations that help you while you're in this new you, if you want to like interact with other people, a community of people all focused on creating their dream life, other people that can see you as this version of you in that of like breakout groups and like having an online community, one of the most powerful things you could do is join that of the Magnetic Mastery membership. This is a weekly calls that we do, wiring all this stuff in, meditations that we do to really wire this stuff in, hundreds of meditations you can listen to whenever you want. All the tools you need to create this new you, you can do in the Magnetic Mastery membership. It is a month-to-month container, cancel anytime. You can check it out by going to the link below or going to www.magneticmastery.com. Go ahead and join there. And then also, if you want a video that's gonna show you how to really change your identity, how to really wire this in in a very powerful way, here's the next most powerful video to watch right here. This episode, I'm gonna show you the 6 steps that you can use to completely transform your life in 2022. I'm sure you've noticed 2021 has been a massive year of shadow work, a massive year of letting go. And the challenge is that