How to LET GO and get what you want (step by step)

If you can see this video, then surrender is the thing that is about to change everything for you. It is letting go of the outcome. It is detachment. It is surrendering and getting into the unknown that is going to change your life the most. Now, when you learn how to let go, it will completely transform your life. When you learn that the ego's perspective that thinks it needs to create things, that thinks it needs to be a certain way to get a certain result in reality, that creates resistance. Now, when you can learn how to get from the vibration of trying to control and manipulate reality and getting more into the present moment and to being who you came here to be, that's when your life is gonna change in a very powerful way. Now, this video you're about to see is from a live that I did on Instagram where it was a Q&A. I got into a flow state. I answered many questions and many different angles We talk about the power of surrender, the power of letting go, how it is just as easy for you to pick up this battery right here as it is for you to attract a loving relationship, for you to even attract a large sum of money. But the stories you have to why that's not the case is what's actually blocking you. I show you how to make it more natural for your identity, how to let go of outcome, how to surrender to the divine, how the things I have learned that I share in this live have completely transformed my life and the people that I have also worked with. So what I'm gonna do is show you step by step how to transform, how to surrender, how to allow things to be better than you can even imagine. And that's why I recommend that you listen to this whole entire live all the way through. Watch how much your life begins to change as a result from it. So without further ado, let's get into the live right here. For many people, surrender is the missing key to finally allowing in whatever the intention is. And think about it too, if we in this ego construct believe we know best about how things should happen, we're in this limiting perspective and insisting that we get out of reality that which we think is best for ourselves instead of allowing the space and room for things to come to us, and many times in even more magical way than we can imagine. So in a way, I think that when it comes to surrender, what you're really surrendering to is the outcome. Sometimes people think that it's passive to surrender. It's like, okay, well, that means I don't intend. That means I don't have something I'm— I have a goal for. No, surrender is when you are focused on the present moment and you are focused on the person you are being and you're in a flow state versus being attached to outcome and trying to force things to happen. Now here's this idea that I've been playing around with. I've shared it on a few podcasts that I've been on recently, and that is that many people that are into the law of attraction, or manifesting their dream reality are people that also don't trust the unknown because the unknown in childhood was scary because many people that are into manifestation type content have been through a spiritual awakening. Well, think about it. If you've been through a spiritual awakening and you've had a lot of pressure earlier on in life that caused the, a lot of things that happened that caused that pressure, then what can happen is you can create a belief that says the unknown is scary, and I am then only attached to the familiar. Now here's the thing, here's the kicker here. If I can visualize what I want and I can see it in my mind, and then I can experience it in my external reality, well, that brings me a lot of safety. That brings me a lot of familiarity because then I know that what I think and what I see is going to be what I experience. So what happens is instead of allowing the divine to bring you through energetic resonance of you being the identity that you choose to be, you take on the incredible burden. It's so much burden to say, I must make this happen, I must force this to happen, it needs to happen in this way. And what you end up doing is creating a lot of resistance. And that resistance literally blocks you from experiencing that which you want. How many of you have had the experience of something you intended for? You were thinking about it, you were doing all the things that the law of attraction and The Secret tell you to do. You were thinking about it, you were working on your belief systems and all these things, and then one day you said, screw it. You just let it go. You focused on your own life. You focused on enjoying the present moment. And then lo and behold, it comes synchronistically. Things happen, opportunities come into your life to where that thing happens. When did it happen? Did it happen at the energy of forcing it to happen or did it happen once you let go? Because interestingly enough, when you let go, you're not attached. When you let go, you're in a free, attractive magnetic energy. When you're insistent on how things should happen, you're in resistance, you're forcing. And very often it's when people are not focused on outcome that magic happens. This is why I say do not focus on what you want. Focus on who you are being. Do you notice that I said focus on who you are being and I did not say focus on who you want to become? There's a big difference there. If you focus on who you need to become, who I am right now is not good enough, who do I need to become? Focus on who you are being, present moment. Magic happens in the present moment. Does magic happen in the future? Does anything happen in the future? What is the future other than a mental construct? What the future is, it's another moment of this right now. So if you want to create more love, if you want to create more magic, if you want to create more passion in your life in the future, it has to happen now. Has to happen now. Because the future is an ideology. It's this thought that we have. You embody the energy now in your energy field now, and that's how you begin to create a future new reality by being it now. Now remember I said focus on who you are being, not who you wanna become, not focusing on what you want. Just focus on what you want and don't focus on the how. Focus on enjoying the present moment now, being the version of you you choose to be. Back in 2017, I decided to be a YouTuber. I was being a YouTuber because I was thinking, feeling, acting as a YouTuber. I was, I had it as a part of this is who I choose to be, even though it was unfamiliar at first. And then eventually my reality began to shift. But see, the thing with some people is they're like, okay, Aaron, I'm gonna focus on who I'm being and who I wanna become, and then my external reality will shift. Well, remember, the true degree of change is not whether the external reality even shifts. The true degree of change is whether you have shifted despite reality not shifting. If somebody believes in their heart and knows that they're gonna be in the right place at the right time and they're following their purpose in the present moment and they're focused on being a certain version of themselves. They're not focused on what needs to happen in the future because they're enjoying the process now. So I'd say focus on who you want and who you are being. Now this is why, by the way, also chasing is resistance, waiting is acceptance. Is resistance when you could be being. Trying is resistance. Like if I said to you right now, hey, could you go and pick up this battery? Go pick up the battery. And can you do that? And you'd be like, yeah, I could pick up the battery. And then you pick up the battery. It's easy. You don't have to say, I can pick up the battery. I can pick up the battery. I know I can pick up the battery. Am I worthy of the battery? Am I worthy of picking up the battery? I think I can pick up the battery. Let me do a whole bunch of positive affirmations. Let me change my energetic field and then I can finally pick up the battery. No, that includes what is called pure intention. You just pick it up. It's a neutral thing. This is the funny thing about your goals and the things you wanna create in your life. They're all neutral things. It is just as much a neutral thing for you to attract a certain level of success that you feel is unbelievable as picking up a battery, but you have all these negative beliefs and pressure that you put on the, on not the battery, but the thing that you want. You say, oh, the ideal relationship for me, that there's a lot of blocks there. There might be a block of, well, what's familiar is in childhood, this was the energy. Oh, but am I worthy of that? But I'm gonna sabotage it somehow. But anytime this has happened in the past, this happened. It's actually a neutral thing. People that, where it's natural to their nervous system to be in a healthy relationship, it's very easy for them to be in relationship to other people and to, maybe there's challenges of course, but it naturally happens because it's equal to their identity. Just like it's equal to your identity to know I can pick up a battery. It's a neutral thing. Well, in the same way, it can be a neutral thing for you to go full-time with your purpose. It could be a neutral thing for you to attract love. It can be a neutral thing for that new opportunity that you wanna bring into your life. It's a neutral thing that has no built-in meaning. It just has resistance because of the importance you give it. So pure intention is when it's just a neutral thing. It's just as neutral. It's like in your mind, you're like, no, Aaron, picking up a battery and manifesting a million dollars is a completely different thing. Well, that's why it's easier for you to pick up a battery. It's equal to your identity knowing you can pick up a battery. It is not equal to your identity to know that you can make $1 million or that you can be in a loving relationship. Now, there are people, by the way, on the planet where making $1 million is easy. It is natural for their identity. That is a reality for people. There is a reality for people where being in a loving relationship or attracting love potentials even is easy. But you see, any resistance you have to me saying this is where the attachment is. 'Cause you say, "No, Aaron, you don't understand. For some people it's easier than others. Well, some people had a better childhood. Some people had this, some people look this way." Some people's parents taught them that money was good and blah, blah, blah. That is an excuse to be right about reality at the expense of growth and happiness. Now I'm not saying that these things are gonna make you happy, by the way. I'm not saying that you're going to get in the loving relationship and it's gonna be your eternal happiness, or I'm not saying you're gonna attract $1 million and you're gonna be internally happy. But the person you become in the process is someone that's not even focused on those things. Like when you love life and you're focused on who you are being, you love your life. And what happens is as a result of that, more money and abundance comes. You're in the right place at the right time. You get inspired ideas to get in a flow state. When you're in a flow state, you are more magnetic, you are more attractive. And you say, okay, well, I'm gonna do those things because then they're gonna get me what I want. No, no, no, no, no. If you do those things to get you what you want, you are then attached to outcome. Remember, it's like picking up a battery, but then we can have negative beliefs around the battery, right? Oh my God, this is a conspi— there's a reason this battery is, it's got this stuff, it's acidic, it's got this in it. Oh my gosh. I was told when I was a kid that if I picked up batteries, it would have an electric charge and then it would be bad for me. Beliefs create reality. An attachment to those beliefs for being right about reality will block you from just naturally picking up the battery, which is symbolic of you just naturally attracting love, which is symbolic of you just naturally attracting a million dollars. A million dollars comes when you're not focused on a million dollars. It comes when you're focused on being and enjoying life, getting into a flow state, adding value to other people, Very rarely is it focused on the money, and the people that focus on the money aren't generally happy. There are people I've even seen that create, that are like entrepreneurs in the entrepreneur space, and it's like their passion is being an entrepreneur and stuff like that, which may be true, but one thing I question sometimes is whether they're truly happy if their focus is on the money, because the money is a symbol. Sometimes I think the money is this subconscious thing, this subconscious way for people to say, I have more of it, now I'm more safe, now I'm more good enough. Money doesn't equal the end-all be-all happiness. It's who you become in the process and who you are being. And when you're also adding value and you're in a flow state, those are the things that are enjoyable. This is why a lot of times people that sell their company for a billion dollars, they become a billionaire and they never have to work again, get depressed. Because they've given up their purpose or the things that actually made them happy. Yeah, I'm not saying money doesn't, money is an amplifier. That's what money is. When someone says money helps though, yeah, money's an amplifier. If you're a good person, it'll amplify that being a good person. If you're a crappy person, it'll amplify being a crappy person. If you're seeking power, you'll use it to get your needs met. But if it's a resource that helps you to build a bigger vision, you see, see the difference there? So when we're talking about surrendering and letting go, it has to do with understanding that anything, any magic you've probably created in your life came from stepping into the unknown and the things that you thought about that you wanted to happen a certain way, eventually you probably let go. And once you let go, what happened? It happened because you're not attached to outcome. I'm not attached to the outcome to whether I can pick up a battery or not, and because of that, it's easy. In the same way, you can let things— like, what I'm saying is, people say, you know, be a magnet. You want to be a magnet to your desires, become magnetic. Let me ask you a question. Why do you even wanna be a magnet? Why do you wanna be magnetic? Is it true that you really even wanna be magnetic? Do you want everyone to like you? Do you wanna attract everyone? Because if I said, okay, you're gonna be a magnet to everyone, by the way, this includes psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists, you're gonna be a magnet to everyone, you're gonna attract them all. You say, well, ha ha ha, I have trouble setting boundaries. I don't know if that's a good thing, Aaron. Actually, I don't wanna be a magnet to everybody. No, you don't even wanna be a magnet. And like the way that I viewed this is what if a better question to ask instead of how do I become a magnet is how can you get to a place to where you don't care whether you're magnetic or not? That's freedom. Think about that. If you don't care about being magnetic because you're not motivated by some external form of validation or things coming to you because if things came to you, whether it's opportunities or people, then I could feel good enough. That's freedom. Now, funny enough, when you let go of that, these things will naturally come to you because you're not attached. Isn't that funny? To be a magnet or not to be a magnet, that is the question. No, that's not the question. The question is, how do you let go of some need for some external validation or external thing that says, look, I'm good enough, I'm worthy, whole and complete, And instead you say, I don't need to be a magnet at all because I accept myself. I draw validation and support from within. Funny enough, once you do that, you will be a magnet and you will be magnetic, but you won't care because the external is not what is adding and supplying the need of the internal. So a lot of times people that also wanna be magnetic, it's people that a lot of times are empaths that can feel other people's energies that want, maybe some want that validation or approval. Not always, but many times. So what I'm saying is instead of wanting to be magnetic, let go of wanting to be magnetic. Maybe that's not the actual, maybe the goal is to accept yourself, to validate yourself from within, and by validating yourself from within, in, guess what? You will be more magnetic and you won't care. And when you don't care and you're not attached to outcome, you'll naturally have that reflection, but you won't need it. Funny paradox in reality, isn't it? When you don't need something, it comes. So what we're talking about here is really different realities based on control and surrender. On being and doing to get. And being magnetic, many times question that. Why do I wanna be magnetic? If you can be magnetic, why do you wanna be magnetic? What if it was more free for you to not even desire to be magnetic at all because you draw source from within? You validate yourself from within because a lot of times being magnetic comes with these things like, oh, "People are gonna be a magnet to me. They're gonna come to me. They're gonna give me opportunities. They're gonna give me, they're gonna give me, they're gonna give me." But when you realize it's more so about being in the moment, enjoying the process, you won't need the external to meet the internal. But funny enough, you will then be a magnet to everything and you won't care. You won't care. So if you have questions about this, go ahead and put it in the Q&A section. I probably have some questions. If you're not in High Vibe Tribe, by the way, I just posted that in High Vibe Tribe I'd be going live. High Vibe Tribe's 57,000 people in there. If you haven't joined yet, I'll go ahead and link in my bio, or you can respond VIBE101 if you're on Instagram, VIBE101, V-I-B-E-1-0-1, and I'll send you the link to the group. So that you know when we're going live, 'cause that's where I send. So let's see. Someone says, I just got laid off and feel so torn about what to do next, as the job market is insanely competitive, but I don't know what I should do for my own business. How can I move forward with this situation practically since I need money, yet am also moving towards what I love? So remember, you're taking action and you're being this new version of you because it's who you choose to be, not because it's going to get you out of the job and it's going to, it's going to like escape the current situation. At the fundamental core, what I would also look at though is I would look at the beliefs around the job market being insanely competitive. Now, ultimately you have the answer inside of yourself. I could tell you, hey, don't worry about it, just do this and, That's not what I'm gonna say though. What I'm gonna say is follow your own intuition here and take your power back. Take your power back from also the belief that the market is insanely competitive. I was on a friend's podcast recently and she was telling me, she kept asking me this question. You'll see it come out soon. She kept asking me this question, where are all the spiritual men at? She kept asking me that. And that was like the core of the thing. And what we were looking at was the beliefs around spiritual grounded men being so scarce because she's like, there's not that many of them. Well, guess what? If there's not that many of them, that belief system, you go out into the world, it's very unlikely that you're gonna attract them if that belief is there. Now you might say, well, it's true. It's true that jobs are scarce. It's true that there's a lot of competition. Now, one thing that I wish I would've said on my friend's podcast that also is coming to me right now is there's this idea from a book called "The Science of Getting Rich" that is about this idea of moving from the competitive plane of existence to the creative plane of existence. In competition, it's all scarcity-based. There's only a certain amount of this. You have to be in survival mode, and someone else's success takes away from your success. In the creative plane, there's an abundance. You focus more on your state of being. You focus more on being who you choose to be in that energy, and then eventually reality begins to shape, begins to shift as a reflection. Competitive versus creative. They're different levels of consciousness, they're different energies. So what I would say for you is to focus more on mind and heart coherence and you being the version of you you choose to be, but also investigate those negative beliefs. Investigate the belief that the job market is insanely competitive. It's not just competitive, it is insanely competitive. That terminology there means A lot of scarcity, but there is no one that is you. Now that could sound like some grandiose thing. It's like, oh, we're all special. But when you come at it from a frame, not that you're better than other people, but like, is there a potential in the quantum field for you to be in the passion of opening your heart, of being in your passion and not being attached to outcome? Well, guess what? You will be more magnetic. So investigate your belief systems, let go of your belief systems, but focus on the feeling of what you wanna feel inside of your heart. Heart and inside of your body and inside your energy field, because that's going to have an effect on reality. And then take action as that version of you. What is the next logical step you could take? And also the thing you feel intuitively you could do to bridge into that new reality. And one step at a time. You're being that you because it's who you choose to be. So, Now something as well that I'm gonna be doing is I'm doing on November 8th with my friend Victor, we're doing a brand new 11-day challenge for coaches and aspiring coaches to basically help people understand a process that you can bring clients through or future clients if you're an aspiring coach to get them transformational lasting results. When I first got on YouTube and I started coaching clients, I didn't know exactly like what do I bring people through? How do I help people transform? "I didn't know that. It took me a long time to figure out my processes, the different elements that go into it." So Victor and I are gonna be doing a free 11-day challenge for it. It is an application process if you wanna join it. You can reply, reply CCC, or check the link. And I'll put the link in my bio soon. CCC below, comment it, and I'll send you the information. CCC stands for Conscious Coaches Challenge. Challenge starts on November 11th. CCC, all one word. Let's see, let's see, there's another question here. Someone says, I have two job offers but I do not want to accept them as I know I won't enjoy them. Do I accept them because of scarcity? I think you've answered your own question. I mean, if you have two job offers but you don't want to accept them, because you won't enjoy them, then why do you have those job offers to begin with? Did you apply to work somewhere that you don't wanna work? What do you really want? I guess the question, you're very aware of what you don't want. What do you want? And what can you expand your field to include? How can you be in that energy? How can you take action towards that direction? Sometimes it's good contrast though. Oh, I don't want this. Okay, that's good information. But what do you want? Become aware of that. If there's one thing that I think will change people's lives the most, it's creating mind and heart coherence. Every single day, connecting to your heart, expanding the energy around your heart, it will begin to shift the reality you're in, but you're not doing it to shift the reality you're in. This is why, by the way, the way I think about manifestation content is so different. It's to me manifestation, how do I manifest my dream reality? It's so surface level and it's all on ego. And what I intend to be doing is focusing more on who you are being, who we are being, and surrendering, letting go, get into the unknown, let magic happen, focus on who you are being. Another question, how do I attract the man I deserve and get over my problems with infertility? So I've talked about this before, this phenomenon that happens that also is related to surrender and letting go. First off, I think the identity of being of infertility could be an identity that could also limit you. There are many people that there's been like, there's been many people that couldn't have kids. They believed they were infertile and for years they tried And then a lot of times there's this phenomenon where what they do is they then adopt, they let go, they adopt, they're in the vibration of having a kid, they're in a vibration of no resistance, and then they get pregnant. It happens a lot. Like it's a phenomenon. Like how come for 5 years couldn't have a kid and then we get a kid, we adopt a kid and then we get a kid. Well, you let go of resistance. Maybe you let go of believing you're infertile, like banging the beat of that drum, then you have a kid. Now, another thing is a lot of times people saying, how can I attract the man? How can I attract the person? I wanna attract the person. I wanna attract the person. I wanna attract them from over there to into here. I wanna attract them from over there to into here. Now remember, instead of focusing on attracting them to get here, focus on who you are being. Focus on, a lot of times when you let go of the outcome altogether and you just focus on enjoying your life, you're more magnetic. It's like saying, I want to attract this battery, I want to attract the battery. It's a neutral thing. And then I say, you say, it's not neutral, Aaron. I want this, this person is gonna, is gonna make me happy. But the thing is, is that person is not gonna make you happy. You're going to have that person in your life and then give yourself permission to be happy. It is no one's job to make you happy. Now, of course, in relational dynamics, that's where we find the most and fulfillment and joy. So that is a part of it as well. However, what I would say you focus on is focus on your field. Focus on what do you actually want? There is a version of you in the quantum field that has let go of outcome and is not trying to force attracting a partner and is not trying to force having a kid. So what you wanna try, so you haven't, well, maybe the reason you're infertile is because you haven't met the right, so you said you wanna attract the man you deserve and then get over problems with your infertility. Maybe when you meet the right person that soothes your, that you have a great relationship with and you let go of the outcome, maybe then, maybe that's what you're waiting for. Maybe that's what your nervous system's waiting for. I don't know. I'm just saying that when you let go and you enjoy your life more, your energy's much more loose and you allow more opportunities and synchronicities in your life. So often people are like, they're trying to attract something into their life, the job, the person, whatever. They let go and then it happens. 'Cause they let go of resistance. Happens a lot. Is it often that people are like, okay, how did you, imagine you met, imagine you meet somebody that's been in a relationship for 15 years. How'd you guys meet? They're like, well, I was desperately looking for a relationship and I was just doing the affirmations and thinking about it nonstop. And then I met this other person. The other person's like, yeah, I was so desperate for a relationship. I was thinking about it. I was desiring it and I was doing that, you know, and then we finally met. It's normally like people weren't looking. They were in the energy of their passion or they were, that's one thing I've realized. You always attract people that are a reflection of the energy you're in. So for example, when I used to work 9 to 5 jobs I did not enjoy, the women I would date were normally women that worked 9 to 5 jobs they didn't enjoy. Nothing wrong with them, but we were a one-on-one reflection. Now that I do what I love, I attract women that do what they love. It's a, it's a reflection. So I'd say focus more on letting go, enjoying life. Let go of the outcome. Be aware of what you want, but prime your energetic field for what you quote-unquote want now in the present moment. Let go of the limiting beliefs and let go of the pressure that you put on yourself, because ultimately When you're enjoying your life, you're more magnetic, you're more loose, your face, your facial muscles literally are more relaxed and you're more magnetic. Does that make sense? Someone says, how do I stop thinking about someone? Well, understand this, when it comes to when people say there's a specific person, you ever hear that in the law of attraction community? I remember when I got on YouTube about 4, you know, like 7 years ago really, but people would say, what about, how do I get the SP? How do I get the SP? How do I get the SP? And I'm like, what the hell is an SP? So I Googled it. What is SP? Stands for a specific person in the law of attraction community. People are like, how do I get the specific person back? And I'm like, why would you wanna do that? Like the specific person is actually a specific pattern. That's what it is. It's a pattern. And that person is, is literally a symbol of a pattern. So whatever your question is, is how do I stop thinking about someone? That someone represents certain pattern to you, and the question is, why are you attracted to that pattern? And what and how does that pattern serve you? Is it in alignment? Maybe you believe that that pattern brings you safety somehow. Maybe you're trying to prove yourself to someone else. Maybe you're afraid of some type of rejection by letting them go. And what I'm saying is realize the person is not the thing you're attached to. It's not the thing that you're even thinking about. It's what that person represents, which is a pattern. Yeah, a familiar pattern normally too. And how do you let go of patterns? Well, you first off, you become aware that you're in the pattern. You become aware that you have an attachment to that pattern. And who would you be without that pattern? Who would you be without it? Would you be free? Sit with those emotions. Then you can just let it go. And letting go is like, how do I let something go? You let go by making a choice. It's a choice you make. It's just that this person is a symbol that is allowing you to feel familiar childhood, familiar energy from childhood. So if as a kid, maybe it was familiar, it was normalized to feel not good enough, this person is a symbol that is allowing you to still feel those emotions now. And why are you attracting that person? Because maybe there's unprocessed emotion that wants, is coming up to be felt, and if you allowed yourself to feel it, and you let it go, you would then process it and complete the past. Does that make sense? Does that make sense? Let's see. Someone says, why do I get attached so easily? Well, attachment is comes as a reflection of the need to control. And control has become a survival mechanism when you were a kid. So you'd attach to someone else, you'd attach to a situation, a circumstance, and then try to control it because the unknown was scary. Normally also there's some form of codependency. Where you're willing to abandon yourself to make other people happy. So what would it be like for you to detach easily? What would it be like for it to be really hard to be attached to anything? Because ultimately you realize that everything is here and now in the present moment. You don't need anything from the external to meet your needs and to demand it to do so. What would life be like then? That question comes as a result. Literally, if you get attached easily, you believe that attachment is necessary to get your needs met. But here's the thing: it doesn't actually work. It creates resistance, doesn't it? It's just that the mind thinks, I need to do this to get my needs met, but actually It doesn't. It creates resistance. It's just a belief. It's like, oh, if I attach to this, I'll get what I want. No, you got to let go. You'll be free in the present moment. And then when you— once you're free, you won't need that thing to meet your needs or to, to do what it does, but it will. Makes sense? Imagine the version of you in the quantum field that let go, is able to let go easily. It exists in the field. It's just that there's a part of you that feels more safe and familiar from the attachment because the attachment allows you to feel the familiar emotions of being not good enough, of not being chosen, of needing to control. Someone says, how do I let go of something I really want to attract? Well, the thing that you really, really want to attract is the thing that you believe is going to meet your needs and it's going to solve your problems. Remember, it's just like the person thing. It's a pattern. Focus instead of the outcome. Think about that. How do I let go? I really, really want to attract something. I really, really wanna wait. I really, really am trying. I'm really, really chasing. I'm really, really, it's not really, really here now. It's not here now. It's not here now. Instead of, but the belief is if I get that thing, then I'll feel this way. No, you can feel this way now and you can focus on who you are being right now. And then you're gonna be in more energetic alignment to that thing, but you won't care either way because you're enjoying the present now. So what is the thing, that thing that you want to attract? Why do you want it? Why do you want it? What is that thing you want to attract and why do you want it? You say, okay, it's money. I want money because once I attract the money, then I can feel secure. I can feel freedom. Okay, anything you want is because of an emotion it will bring you. Anything you want is because of the emotion. Any person you want is because of an emotion. What you really want is you want the emotion. You want to feel connected. You want to feel love. You want to feel freedom. You want to feel security. And what I'm saying is if you really, really want it, it's really, really believing that the external reality really, really has it. The external reality is a symbol of an internal reality. So instead, focus on the internal energy. Focus on what is the emotion you want to bring into your life because of the symbol. Oh yes, let's get the symbol. The symbol is, you really, really want to attract this. Yes, that's gonna help you feel this way. You could feel it right now. What if I did a prank on you and I got the lottery tickets and I made a fake lottery ticket and I gave it to you and I said, here's your lottery ticket. And then they read it off on television and they're like, oh my God, Aaron, I just won. I feel so free. You don't even have the money yet, but you feel free. I just know it's coming. I'm gonna be so free. I'm gonna be able to do whatever I want. I'm gonna be able to travel. I don't have to do work, this stupid job I don't like. I'm gonna, everyone's gonna respect me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And you're gonna feel such a dopamine rush. And then I'm gonna say, hey, just kidding. I just made a prank on you. Hahaha. And you'd be like really mad at me. And you went from being on heaven to being in the opposite very quickly. Well, what's the joke of the whole thing? It's all in here. It's all in your body. It's all in your energy field. You simply believed it. Well, guess what? What if you had realized you've already won the lottery? Do you realize that you've already won the lottery? You have. You're alive right now. You're alive on the planet when it is a time on the planet when there's more transformation happening now than has ever happened before. Literally, in Dolores Cannon's material, which are basically hundreds and hundreds of transcripts of people that are in the deepest levels of gnosis, what it said is that there is such a desire to be on Earth right now because never before has there been this much transformation that's happened on one planet at one time, that we are eternal spiritual beings. We come here, we forget who we are to remember who we are. We forgot how much we wanted to be here. We've already won the lottery, but we don't believe we have. So we're like, no, in order— the lottery to me is having this much money in the bank, having this type of relationship, having this, having this. And they don't feel good enough. You've already, you just haven't realized you've already won the lottery. And when you start to act like you've already won the lottery, because it's not some external thing that you need to change, it's your freedom you have to feel the emotions you want, to prime your energetic field from what you want, to do what you're passionate about, to surrender, to let go, to connect to the divine, you will feel more free. You will feel more free. So 41 minutes, man, time goes by fast when we're in a flow state. So if you didn't hear, couple quick things. One is if you wanna join the Conscious Coaches Challenge, reply CCC. This is for either coaches or aspiring coaches that want to learn a process to help people get transformative results. You want to feel more confident in your coaching practice, you want to learn how to be a coach because you want to have clients, you want to quit your 9-to-5 job, this is for you. It starts on November 8th. It is an application process that takes a few minutes to fill out, and you can apply. I'll send you the link if you respond or comment, see, see, see, all one word. And then other than that, I think that's it for now. This was fun. You want me to do more of these? Let me know. I'll probably go live once a week here, and as always, I'll see you on the next one. Peace, much love, and namaste. Talk to you soon. And also, if you want to see another live that I did on Instagram that has a similar flow state that goes deeper on surrender, I'll go ahead and link this video right here. Would you rather be right or would you rather be free? Sometimes we can be right about reality.