How to SHIFT From "begging" to "hoping" to "Commanding" (this changes everything)

Aaron Doughty explains how phrasing desires as commands instead of pleas or hopes shifts your vibrational frequency to manifest what you want. Begging is low-frequency, hoping is higher, and commanding aligns with the universe. He offers Neville Goddard's "assume the wish fulfilled" technique and a 21-day Ho'oponopono meditation to raise your vibration.
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This video, I'm going to show you how to go from begging to hoping to commanding. I'm going to show you how to make that shift and why it makes all the difference. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be sharing with you that of how to go from different states of certainty around what you want to create in your life. Because the way that this works with the law of attraction or what us creating what we want in our life is a lot of it has to do with the energy that we have underneath why we want what we want or whether we believe it's something that could even come to fruition. And there's a huge difference between that of begging to hoping to commanding. And it's not— you may say the exact same things, you may say the same affirmations in the hoping state. As you would the begging state or the commanding state, but they all three would be totally separate energies. So I want to share with you how to go from each of these different levels and why doing this is really the key to you experiencing what you want and being that version of you you prefer. Now, in order to understand this, what I thought I would do is first off, ask you to imagine the best version of you. The best version of you that would be living the kind of lifestyle you want, creating the kind of things you want in your life. And when you look at that version of you, imagine how that version of you would move. Imagine how that version of you would carry yourself, your body language, the tonality you would use, the kind of tonality in your voice that you would use. As you imagine that version of you, do you see that version of you begging? Do you see that version of you hoping? Most likely the best version of you that you can imagine is somebody that is certain and commands things to go in a certain direction. There's a certain level of confidence underneath that. You see, the reason so many people around the world— you may say, well, the law of attraction, does it work for everybody when you have billions of people around the world that may be praying They may be praying from a sense in a state of consciousness of begging, which means that they don't actually trust the divine to bring things into fruition because part of the trust itself is being in the vibration of knowing it's going to come to fruition and the trust of the universe to bring it through in the way that it's meant to come. And when people are begging, what they're actually saying as well is they aren't powerful. Because they are waiting for something on the outside to happen before they give themselves permission on the inside to feel that way. But when you trust in the divine, when you trust in a higher sense of, or a higher state of consciousness, you know that you can give yourself permission to feel that way on the inside before the outer reflection changes the way that you want. So you see, this makes all the change because then we're in a different energy state. Now what I thought I would do real quick is show you on this notebook, or this big thing right here, I'm gonna show you the difference between different, different states. Say this is us. Now if we are in begging, hoping, or commanding, the way in the energy state that we're in, the frequency we're in, is going to be a different frequency in each one of these. So for begging, it may be very long waves. Everything is vibration. That's what we've learned with quantum physics. Everything is a different rate of vibration. The only thing that separates things from everything else is the different rate of vibration it's at. Begging would have a slower wave. You can think of it as the brainwave activity would be much slower. It's a lower vibrational energy for us to be begging. Hoping may be a little bit quicker, but it's still a very slow wave because the energy state we're in once again is still that of a lower vibrational state of consciousness where we're not trusting, we're hoping, we're still— a lot of times when we're hoping for things, we're not happy with where we are in the present moment, but commanding, which would be the best version of us, the version of us that knows they can accomplish what they want, that's in the energy state of feeling it on the inside before it's on the outside. That one would be much higher in vibration. And now this is the thing. Because it's much higher in vibration, what is being emitted out is more likely to catch to certain opportunities in life. What is being put out is more likely to catch to physical reality, to, uh, it actually changing. So you see, the slower one isn't very powerful because of the state of being that we're in between all three. Now the key to this is understanding that in the begging and the hoping, Most of the time on the inside, we are waiting for something on the outside to change and then we give permission on the inside to change. With commanding, there's just a level of certainty there that you say this right here, it is done. It is done. Now when we look at reality itself as well, understand that when we are perceiving of reality. There are billions of bits of information around us, but we can only pick up and perceive of less than 2 million bits of information at a time. That's it. Less than 2%. That's an 0.02% of what we can actually perceive of. We perceive of, and we perceive of this depending on our energy state. And our beliefs. That's what's going to be equal to the reality that we experience. So everything is here and now. What you want to experience is all around you, but you can only perceive of the 2 million bits of information that are in alignment with your energy state and your beliefs. So manifestation is not about making the— in manifestation in general is not about bringing something outside of you in. To your life. It's about making what is currently invisible visible due to your energy resonance. So this changes the game because then you realize, can you give yourself permission? Can you give yourself permission to feel on the inside that the weight, which the way you want to feel before the outside actually shows there? Just the same way I could go in front of a mirror right now and wait for my reflection to change, and I may wait forever because the way reality really works is first I must smile and then my reflection smiles. We're hoping and begging is a powerless position. So the way that you go from hoping to begging to commanding, the way you do that is by getting to your core and understanding just the way reality works, becoming aware that you're in those states. If I were to show you the chart of consciousness right here, you'll see on the chart of consciousness, you'll see at the bottom shame, fear, guilt. At about 125, you'll see desire. And normally we think desire, that should be a higher state of consciousness. It's not because when you desire something, you are also saying you don't currently have it. Now the thing is, under the old way of going about things, when you desire something you don't have, sometimes that can propel you to take action. That can propel you to visualize more than you currently have, but it still is a vibration of lack. Then you'll see that of acceptance, willingness, reasoning, and then you'll see that of love. Now what we can learn to do— commanding is between 400 and 500 level of consciousness. It's reasoning, it's understanding that Your words have power and it's also just awareness of what are you saying. If you say, I hope something happens, that's— you could be aware that that's coming from a level of lack and it's coming from a level of uncertainty, untrust in the universe to do what it does. You can give up things to the divine, allow the universe to manifest for you, and things will happen even easier for you. So even with commanding, there's a level that goes in, in conjunction with that to where you command it, but on the other side of that, you trust the universe at the same time. So it's a little bit of both, a little bit of both. Those what I found to be the most powerful is allowing it to happen. And the way that you allow it to happen is by paying attention to your energy state. And are you in the state of receiving or are you in the state of of frustration or lower vibrational energy. The way that you get up the scale of consciousness is you let go of the lower vibrational states of consciousness. You let go of what doesn't serve you. You realize why you want what you want. A lot of times why you want what you want is just to feel better, and you think the only way you can feel better is by going after some symbol of money or some symbol of something, not knowing that you could feel those emotions inside of you right now. And the paradox is that by then you feeling those emotions right now, things will, things will begin to change. I find one of the best ways to also raise your vibration is to have just more fun with this process. Have more fun. I was listening to this, this interview the other day on Lewis Howes. He's got this podcast and he was interviewing this guy named Rich Froning who's considered one of the most fit, strongest men in the world. He, uh, they do this CrossFit tournaments and stuff, and he won years and years in a row. And he was interviewing him, and he said that one time he was having this challenge where he was at this one tournament, and he, he had already won once or twice, and it was like the third year or something like that. And what happened was, is he was with his, uh, he was there and he won like the first— there's like 12 different tournaments. There's like 12 different things you'll compete with. Like, like an example might be some like mile and a half swim, and then they'll do something like a whole bunch of these— they do like air bike and then a whole bunch of these deadlifts and then power cleans. Like all these different things that you do, and you have to do a whole bunch of reps and all of this stuff. It's very hard to do. And he was in like 7th place for one event, and then another place he was in like 2nd place, and another place he was like 20th. 20th place out of hundreds of people. He was doing well, but he was getting too serious about it. And what happened was then his wife saw him and his wife said, are you having fun? And he was like, no, I'm not having fun. I was 2nd in this, I was 7th in this, I was 20th place in this. She said, okay, if you're not gonna have fun, then we're gonna go get in the car right now, we're going home. And he was like, what? You know, he was like confused, but he realized that he wasn't having fun. And because he wasn't having fun, he he wasn't doing that well because everything was so serious. So the moment he went back and he started to have fun with it and he started to remember, why am I doing what I do? He started to have fun and then he went on to win that whole entire competition. So having fun is the key to really raising your vibration and getting out of lower vibrational states of consciousness. When you're having fun, you're not so much in the hoping and the begging. You start to increase your state. And when you increase your state, then you could be like, I just command this. I want this. This is, this is the way it is. It is done. And another thing I'll say as well is something I've learned from Neville Goddard. It's called assume the wish fulfilled. There's an energy state around assume the wish fulfilled. Assume that what you want is already here. Just assume it and act as if that, like act as if but just be that. And by being that, you are then in the energy state. So more so than going from begging to hoping to commanding, it's more about your state of being under each of those different things. I realized that as well when I was, I used to work in a sales commission job. The more I would focus on my state of being, the better results I would get. Instead of going in hoping I sold a certain amount, begging customers to buy, If I went in once again just having fun, first off, that would, that would a lot of times do it, but there was a different energy of certainty there that today's going to turn out really well. Even if it's not just customer right now or whatever it is, a certain energy state behind it. Just trust the process. Part of this commanding is trusting in the divine. You are a piece and a part of the divine, and the more that you embody that, the the quicker your vibration will raise and the more you can allow amazing things into your life. The ego isn't meant to do everything. The ego can focus, the ego could be aware of the energy state, but on the other side of that, you can allow all of these things to happen in a very powerful way. So something else that you will see below is a meditation that will help you to release a lot of these energy blocks, it's by a process called Ho'oponopono, and it's one that will help you to raise your vibrational frequency and get out and let go of those lower vibrational states. Also by healing within yourself, because everything on the outside is a reflection of the inside. So when you start to go through this process, you will heal parts of yourself that maybe haven't been healed or parts of yourself you've been holding onto. And if you repeat that for 21 days, I think it'll absolutely change your life. You'll change your energy field in its totality. So listen to it for 21 days. It'll be top of the description box below. Other than that, I hope you enjoyed this video. Feel free to like this video if you liked it. Subscribe if you haven't already. Hit the little notification here so you can see the daily vids that I do. And other than that, as always, peace, much love, and namaste.










