When you stop chasing someone and focus on your own life instead, your energy shifts in a way that can draw them back to you. Detaching from expectations stops the repelling force of neediness, while filling your own cup changes the energetic field enough that others respond.
So you separate, good things start to happen for you.
Yeah.
And then he comes back.
Uninvited.
Uninvited. And I can't say no. Do you find that also a lot of times it's when you're like completely detached?
Yeah.
A lot of times if there's a relationship that you're in or a dynamic with a friend, et cetera, and when you want something from them or there's a certain expectation there, remember it's like we repel with the expectation or the energy being projected at him or at the person. But then you get in your own frame of reality. You get into what you're passionate about. You start filling up your own cup. And then as a response to that, people energetically feel that and either come back to you or tune into you. And what I notice is a lot of times when I'm in certain states of energy, there are certain people that I run into when I'm in high states of energy. And there's some people I run into only when I'm in low states of energy, even synchronistically. Like, how did this happen? It's like almost a sign because you know that you only really resonate with certain people when you're in certain states of consciousness or you're in certain energies.
