Aaron DoughtyAwareness Mastery, Awareness Mastery, Awareness Mastery, Awareness Mastery, Awareness Mastery, LLC · Spiritual Teacher and Educator

If They Don't Choose You WATCH THIS...

12 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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In this brief monologue, Aaron Doughty explains that when you cling to the outcome of someone choosing you, you generate energetic resistance that pushes the other person away. He likens this to a salesperson whose obvious agenda repels a buyer. The core insight is that by releasing the expectation—being "good either way"—you stop creating a manipulative vibe and allow the other person to freely choose you. The message encourages a mindset shift from demanding validation to embracing detachment, thereby removing the subconscious block that prevents genuine choice.

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If you want someone to choose you and you are attached to whether they choose you or not, what you're doing is you're wanting them and there's resistance around them giving you something. And we feel energetically anytime someone wants something from us, we repel and resist giving it because you can feel the desire, you can feel in a way the manipulation. So in an interesting way, you're not even allowing people to choose you because you're trying to make them choose you and they want to do the opposite of whatever you try to get them to do. Just like if you go to a sales store and someone really wants to help you and they want you to buy something, you can feel the agenda there. It repels you. So a huge epiphany happens when you realize you are actually blocking people from choosing you because you're demanding or expecting them to, which creates resistance. And if you're good either way, you then allow them to choose you.