If things are Falling Apart, Here's Great News (How to TRUST 100%)

Aaron Doughty argues that life falling apart is actually clearing space for something better. He says 95% of behavior is subconscious, and teaches how to set intentions without attachment to how they manifest, letting go of outdated relationships and jobs to trust the process.
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All right, this video will show you exactly what to do if things are falling apart. I'm going to share with you the good news that can really change your perspective and allow yourself to be the way you prefer to be. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be sharing with you all about understanding the power of letting go what it means when things happen that you don't necessarily prefer and how to navigate through it so that you get the best result possible. Now, first off, I'm feeling really good today. I— the last two days I've gotten up, I've gone straight into the cold shower. Like, I wake up, try— I try to wake up like 10 or 15 minutes earlier than I normally would, than it's normally comfortable. And then what I do is I go straight in the cold shower. And I've done that, uh, today's the second day in a row. And it's like I have this like big jolt of energy. And I normally have good energy, but now it's like I just really feel focused on what I'm doing. So, uh, it has nothing to do with the topic today. I just kind of wanted to share that. Uh, so when it comes to letting go and this whole process, understand that when things fall apart, things are falling apart for you. Many times when things fall apart, it's happening so that you can make some type of change in your life. Now, things falling apart, even the words things falling apart may have a negative connotation But understand that the ego always likes that comfort. It always likes the blueprint in the mind that says that this will happen, then this will happen, then this will happen. The ego likes the expectations and everything to go according to plan. But the thing is, is what the ego thinks it wants and what's really best for the overarching growth of our life isn't always the exact same. Now let me share with you the good news. If things are falling apart, Things are falling apart because something greater is coming into your life. Now I know that's a big statement, but really think about it. What we define to be true ends up becoming our reality. If we think we have a problem, if we think that things aren't happening, then the idea is that will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Now what if we could just start to associate whatever is happening in our life with something that could be positive? What if instead of thinking that things were going wrong, we realized that things are going right? We are given an opportunity to let go of things that no longer serve. We're given an opportunity to cut the ties to old energies that may not serve us. In order for us to let something in, we have to by nature let something go, and this may work in many different ways in your life. Maybe you realize that the relationship you're in isn't that passionate and it's not really the person you want to be with. Well, you can't have someone else come into your life before you let go of that person. Now imagine it's even groups of friends. Maybe it's like you, we want to resonate with people that are really in alignment with what you're thinking. Then sometimes what you have to do is you have to facilitate your time better. You have to understand that as you start to buy into yourself more, the people will naturally start to resonate with you. Imagine you're doing activities every day that you don't enjoy. Imagine you're doing a job that you hate. Well, this is the thing. You have to let that go before you can find something else, and maybe you could find something else, but once you find that, whatever that is, then you do have to make that transition. So the good thing is that if things are not happening according to plan, it means that something extraordinary is going to happen. It means that when you let go of the autopilot mind and the consistency to what we think, how things should happen, we are stepping into the unknown. Now understand this, this is something I share a lot. I think it's just so powerful. On average, every day we think about 60,000 to 70,000 thoughts or more a day. Of those, over 95% of them are the same thoughts that we had the day before. Now we will always get the same result of what we are thinking. But the moment things start to happen in a chaotic type way, if we define it that way, and things that we don't expect to happen, we step into the unknown. In the unknown is where we can create amazing things because there's no repetitive cycle. There's no ways of thinking that are going to, you know, be the self-fulfilling prophecy based on the past. We continuously are creating past experiences in the present moment with our memory. With our focus and with our expectation. But when we step out into the unknown, we are opening ourselves up to infinite possibilities. We must step into the unknown to have a new type of experience. We must branch outside of our own comfort zone. So this is a part of the process. And if you aren't going out and diligently, intently stepping out of your own comfort zone, what may happen is things may quote unquote fall apart. And they may seem chaotic, but really it's happening for you. It's happening to get you out of the old patterns and you must let go of certain things in order for other things to happen. You must let go of old patterns for other patterns to come in. You must let go of maybe old relationships that aren't serving you to create new ones. This is just a cycle. This is a part of the natural process of you letting in something else into your environment. Now, Let's also talk about expectation. Now I talk a lot about on this channel about the power of intention, and I think intention is just so powerful, but the key with intention is to have an intention, have an outcome of something you want to experience, but to let go of how it happens. Now why do I say that? Well, when you let go of how things will happen, you allow something greater to come into your life experience. You see, our ego's mind, what we think of as the ceiling for the best case scenario of what we could experience, is actually a limitation. Actually, what if I told you that the absolute ceiling of what we think we can experience is only the floor to our higher mind? Think about that for a minute. It very well could be, but we don't know that if we are attached to the outcome and if we are attached to how things will happen. Well, this is the key to this whole process as well, is let go of the expectation of how things will happen. If something comes into your life that looks like a negation of that, that looks like a block, be very, be very reluctant to call that a block. Be very reluctant to call that, you know, a problem because that becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. What if everything in your life is a part of the process? What if everything in your life is part of this infinite flow of amazing things happening? And if you simply trusted the process, guess what? Amazing things can happen. Amazing things. I really mean that. And all you have to do is trust the course of your life. So realize that with this whole process, what we experience in our life is a direct reflection of what we believe to be true. If we learn how to trust the process, that's when amazing things begin to happen. And that's one of the reasons why I created an MP3 subconscious mind meditation that you can listen to, because I think that that helps us reprogram those consistent thoughts that we have to start to associate and to trust the process more. So that's something that you can grab in the description box right now. It's a link that you click onto and you download that meditation. You can listen to it before you go to bed every night. You can listen to it. And allow yourself to increase the emotion of what you want to feel, knowing you're already whole and complete, to transform your self-image. You know, I created a self-image meditation that had— has had amazing results with people. I get people every day that email me about it, and I decided to make that into a version that I can give away for free that I think can change your life. And it's something that helps you reprogram that subconscious mind because 95% of our life is ran by our subconscious mind. So understand things can be easy. Things can just happen for you if you allow them to, but relax your expectation with the ego. Do your part as the ego. Your ego is still necessary to have a physical type experience. Sometimes I hear people say, uh, the ego is horrible. We had to have the ego be the enemy. There's even a book called Your Ego Is the Enemy, and the thing about it is I get it. Like, I get the point behind it. I get it. We still need our ego. We still need our ego to have a physical type experience, and we can either come from a point of awareness or we can come from a point of unconsciousness. And the awareness is that your ego is doing his job. Comfort your ego. They don't— don't identify with it. Don't give it all the power, but realize that your ego is there for a specific purpose and have it be focused on what you can do to make things happen. but at the same time, have trust in the universe, have trust in a higher version of yourself, have trust in a higher purpose, and know that when things fall apart, you're allowing new things into your life, that this is a pivotal point in your life, and this is one of the most amazing things that could ever happen to you. And if you simply define it like that, you'll find that that's how things happen. I look through my past of the most horrible things that have ever happened to me. I'm not saying that that's going to happen for you. I'm just saying that when I look back at it, there were also some of the best things that happened to me. There's some of the things that really developed my character, that who I am now. A lot of the negative things I did and went through when I was growing up have led to my awakening. I led to me becoming more aware of how my thoughts create my reality, and that's something that's completely changed my life, and I think that it could change yours too if you apply it and you allow yourself to trust the process and know that there's a larger vision for you and all you have to do is resonate with it. All you have to do is let go of the expectations. A lot of times this process isn't even about tailoring all these new beliefs, tailor on these new perspectives and putting all this on, onto us. It's just about letting go of what doesn't serve anymore. Letting go of the expectation, being present to the moment, enjoying the process, have fun with it too. If you think it's something so serious, maybe you lost your job, maybe you lost, you know, a significant other and like they left or something like that, whatever it is, Have fun with the process. Reframe it. Reframe it. So powerful. You realize, hey, I had a job I didn't like. Now I can do whatever the hell I want. I have freedom. I can find a job I actually like. You're with a certain person. Why trust the process? I realized that person probably wasn't for me. If it's happening now, it probably would have happened in a couple of years or months anyways. So thank God it happened now because I buy my time back and I can actually meet someone I resonate with more. You see, reframing is so powerful. That's it. I wanted to share these ideas with you guys today. I hope you guys enjoyed. Feel free to like this video if you liked it. Subscribe if you haven't already. Also hit that little notification gear so you're able to see the daily vids that I do. And other than that, I will see you guys on the next vid. Peace, much love, namaste.










