If you see this, love has found you

You could see this video, then love is right around the corner. What if simply believing that love is about to come into your life, what if that allowed you to perceive of more opportunities and more people that you actually resonate with at a deep level? So whether it is you are single and you've been single for a while and you want to attract love, Or if you're in a current relationship and you wanna go deeper in the relationship that you're in, what if that was simply about believing that it is something that is about to come into your life right now? I have a YouTube video that is a guided meditation that has over 9 million views that to this day, I get told from so many people that I coach in my coaching programs, or even that I see on social media that say they have attracted love from this meditation. Like, look at the comments right here. These right here. I believe what happens is people do this meditation, it has mind and heart coherence, and they believe they will attract love. And as a result, they find themselves finding the right people in the right place in the right time. And a lot of times I think what people do is they actually read the comments to see what's possible. And what happens is then it increases their belief that it can happen for them. So many times what happens is people tell themselves a story that love isn't here now, that why is it so hard? They have subconscious blocks under the surface that are literally sabotaging love from coming into their life. So in this video, what I'm going to do is I'm going to show you that in fact, Love is not around the corner. It's here now. You see, if we believe that love is around the corner, love isn't here now, then what happens is we end up waiting. And in the present moment right now, if we're always waiting for the future to come, if we're always waiting to meet the right person, we're putting our power outside of ourselves. And outside of the moment. So when you see that meditation that I just showed you, the reason it works for people is one, they believe it. They believe that love is going to come into their life, but even more than that, they begin to embody it. They begin to relax. They begin to feel the mind and heart coherence. And you see, this is one of the major reasons people don't accomplish their goals or they find themselves blocked is because it's always in the future. It's always one day, or they're looking for someone to come in to relief the pressure. And what happens is when you switch the energy here and you do what I'm going to show you, especially something that's called outer intention, which is one of the most powerful reframes you can possibly have when it comes to attracting love. Now, the first thing to understand is that if you're watching this video, there's probably some form of control you've been putting into the equation. Like, even watching the video right now, that if you've seen this, love is right around the corner— there is a certain level of giving away your power and looking to the external to tell you that you can attract love. And a lot of times what happens is that energy is like, okay, tell me what I need to do, I will do it, and then I will get what I want. But you see, that comes from a frame as it's around the corner, it's not here now, when in fact it's all around you. Love— in our reality, we get a reflection of the energy we embody. So if we're waiting, or it's around the corner, it's not here now. If we're waiting for someone to fix us or to relieve our pressure, they're not here now. So it's an externalization of power. And while yes, we want— we're not going to deny the fact that, oh, I want to be connected to other people, I want a relationship, I actually want that. Are you telling me not to want that? What I'm saying is the energy of embodying the love that is already within you and learning to love the aspects of yourself that you may have been not accepting is the key to the equation. So in my life, this was when things really shifted. It was like I stopped— this is, this is right here, the big shift. You ready? I'm going to show you the big shift. I'm going to show you the blocks that you might have under the surface. I'm going to show you how to overcome those blocks. And I'm gonna show you the most powerful idea I've ever learned when it comes to attracting love that will reframe the entire idea for you. So first off, when you think of attracting love, which is around the corner, the thing that you actually wanna focusing on, you wanna focus on, is you wanna focus on opening, opening, opening your energy, expressing the real you, being vulnerable, and able to share how you feel with someone else. And what happens is as you focus on expressing yourself and opening yourself up, what happens is that puts an energy out. Even beyond the energy, it's like in the actual materialistic part of it, it's like when you are leading with vulnerability and expressing the real you, you allow other people to actually see the real you. And what happens is a lot of times we have protecting patterns from our past that cause us to close, that cause us to have protection around it. Now, one of the most powerful questions you can ask yourself is this: if you want to become free, here's a huge unlock. Who did you have to be as a kid to receive mom or dad's love? Really think about this for a moment. Who did you have to be as a kid to receive mom and dad's love? Because that pattern is a protective pattern that is actually closing your energy and blocking love from coming into your life. Here's what I mean by that. If you're someone who had to please mom and dad, there's a protective pattern around you where tension is bad. It is your responsibility and your job to ease the tension in the family. There is a protective pattern there, and almost a subconscious and avoidance of tension, because their tension is your tension. So there's a pleasing energy, and that pleasing energy may still be on autopilot, which means you will be attracting people into your life that you really can't go emotionally deep with because you're, you're attracting people that you want to resolve the energy from childhood with. So what that means is you might be attracting people that you need to fix, that you need to please, that are hard to please, with high highs and low lows. And the belief is that if I can turn them or fix them, then they'll meet my needs. But see, because there's unresolved childhood energy there, it keeps you closed and blocked. You might have a hyper-independent self-reliance pattern, which as a kid, to be safe, you had to be independent and not have needs. Now, as an adult, you may have a protective pattern where you're really, really focused on your business. You're really, really focused on your own self-empowerment, which can be a very powerful tool. However, it may also be a way of avoiding vulnerability, feeling something underneath the surface. If you had to be perfect as a kid, you may always feel like you're in performance. And when you are always in performance, you will actually attract— you actually will repel deep love and connection. So these different, these different patterns are keeping and what is blocking love from coming into your life because they close down your energy. They keep you from expressing the real you. And when you begin to express the real you, which means part of that, if you're a people pleaser, it's leaning into tension and actually expressing how you feel. As you do that, you open up more. For me, even in my relationship, There was an opportunity that I had to express, to put myself out there with someone that I was friends with for years. And where we were always just in different relationships, we'd always help each other in different ways, but it was a risk because there was a friendship there of 5 years. But the vulnerability, the opportunity to express was something that I normally hold back. I'm like, you know what? The expression is key, and whether it's received or not is not my thing to manage. So it's like understanding that the people you attract, you may be attracting certain types of people into your life that you're subconsciously wanting to resolve certain lessons. So you want to like loop, close the loop in a way to say no to certain patterns or to express yourself regardless of what they do. And what happens is once you are able to really focus on still choosing to open, still choosing to be vulnerable, still choosing to express yourself, that's where you begin to open your heart. Which, remember, your heart— you actually have the love that you're looking for in another heart is actually already inside of you. You have a heart. You have love inside of you. And what— here's that you want to know before we get to the outer intention thing that I share. That's a huge unlock. Here's the one other unlock that you didn't know was coming. The other person that you are attracted to or that you hope would come into your life, what you really want is you want not just them, but the way you allow yourself to feel when you are around them. So it's not just them, but it's how you feel when you're around them that is actually what you desire. You're like, well, Aaron, I still want them. I know, I get it, but I still want them. But you see, you have the emotions inside of you. You will either— they'll either have qualities you want to be more like, and you being around them kind of rubs off on you and you like it, or you like the version of you that you feel you can be because maybe they feel open and that allows you to be expressive. So a lot of times when people have trouble getting over a breakup, it's like, it's not just them, it's how you felt around them, the permission you would give to be yourself. And the good news is that there are millions and billions of people on the planet, and there are other people where you could feel similar. So it's like you're not just putting the one idea that like, You're lost forever if that didn't work out. So this is where you start to realize that you are the common denominator here, and your ability to be loving, your ability to express yourself, your ability to put yourself out there is the key to really opening. Sometimes I see what people do is they have, um, these protective patterns. They have a long, long list of what's necessary for them to be with a guy or girl. That long, long list is normally superficial things. It's looks, it's like some qualities, or just a very specific thing that many times can block you, can keep you safe, because you can just— then you never get rejected because you're, I didn't want them anyway, they weren't— they didn't cross everything off the checklist. So it's a way of avoiding the rejection. But really, the more you put yourself out there, the more free you become. The more loving you are, the more— the love— it's love is not just a receiving and someone else is there and then you feel like it forever. Because let's be honest, when you do get into that deep relationship, guess what's going to happen? When you are in deep relationship, no matter who it's in relationship with, the deeper the relationship goes, the deeper you get towards your own intimacy stuff. The deeper the childhood stuff comes up. And you're like, one day I really, really, really wanted this, but I didn't want this part. I wanted just to be so easy all the time. But you don't think of that when you're like putting on a pedestal and really, really wanting it because it's right around the corner. You see the difference there? So understand that this will, this will be a journey that you may have been putting on a pedestal because you believed it was like the Disney movie thing that was just going to solve everything forever, when in fact the real work begins when you actually get into relationship, when you actually get close. So let's look now. Some of these blocks, there might be the belief blocks. I'm not worthy of love. There's like 3 different types of blocks, or 3 different— 2 blocks and a solution here, okay? The belief block. Now first off, it's not here now. It's not here now. Where is it? Where is it? Creates this energy of it's not here now. When you start to focus that this is about your self-practice of expressing love, of realizing it's here now. Love is your connection with your friends, your family, your dog, your cat, your animals, nature. As you start to connect to that, it's like you can start to feel more gratitude, and you're in the more of the emotions that exist here now of that love. So first off, becoming aware of what those beliefs are, that could be very powerful. Now the next stage is emotional release. There may be stored emotions inside of the body that are blocking you from just being in that expressive love energy. And when you, like I'm telling you, when I've done breathwork and I got certified in breathwork years ago, I had to go through it 2 or 3 times. You wanna know what happened? My life completely shifted within a few days of getting certified because I'd been through it 2 or 3 times. Things became aware of in my life, like my life radically shifted. And I see it so often with people who go through my programs or my live events. Breathwork is like a catalyst for so much shift because you release energy that's been stored as a protective pattern around your heart. So it's like you may find that you remove the block to going deeper in your relationships, or you just allow yourself to release energy that was there. You may feel more open and raw for a bit, but with that comes more opportunity, more freedom. So if you do want to go through a free breathwork ceremony, by the way, I have one that you can go through. I'll go ahead and link it below. It's what I got certified in. It's only a 30-minute version, but you can do that once a week and see how much it changes your life as you go. It's like you're cleaning out your energy field. Now, here's that one thing I was telling you about, outer intention. Think about this. This comes from a book called Reality Transurfing. Has to do with this understanding that there's what you want, which is your inner intention. I want that. I intend for this. Outer intention is the realization that there's someone else that has the intention of meeting you. So it's like, I, I equate this to like the universe wants to move through you, God wants to move through you. So when you become a vessel for something greater than you and you focus on adding value out in the world, it's like something greater comes to assist you. It's like, as much as— it's like people, the way I view it, is people want to be, let's say, transformed. They want release. So if I connect to that when it comes to my purpose, it's a different intention than I want to travel the world and make money. Do you see the difference there? Now, when it comes to love, it's like, I want them, I want them, I want them, where are they, where are they, where are they? But imagine that there's somebody else that wants someone that's an emotionally available partner. There's somebody else that wants you to be walking on the beach with them. So how can you become the kind of person that is able to express yourself, able to be emotionally available, able to put yourself out there and to have that courage, able to integrate the past inner child parts of you so that you're able in a relationship then to go deeper but not necessarily project that onto them? You see, this is where the work gets really deep. So they— it's, it's understanding that you can align with that by becoming the person and realizing that this isn't just a one-sided thing. It takes a little bit of the pressure off, doesn't it? So this is a way for you to shift that energy more, and this is a way for you to realize that yes, it's around the corner. So Like with that meditation I was sharing you, I was sharing with you, people read the comments to see what's possible. They do the meditation, they feel the head and the mind-heart connection, and then shortly afterwards, attracting love is something I hear happens all the time. But don't get it twisted, it's not the magic of just the meditation, it's your mind and heart coherence and your belief in the process. I also think there's like a collective energy thing that happens where there's a lot of energy focused on that, that like many people focusing on it kind of like creates a momentum in a way, like almost increased belief because then there's more people that have done it that have experienced it. So if you do want to do that meditation, I'm gonna go ahead and link it right here. You can check it out, read the comments to see what's possible. If you choose to use that as a permission slip towards feeling the love that is here now, and then, You can share and come back to this video and share what your experience is of doing that meditation for 21 days. That'll increase the belief for the people here, and we can keep that energy going for realizing that our job is to simply open. So with that being said, I'll see you in the next one. Peace, much love, namaste.