In this motivational monologue, the speaker urges viewers to make 2025 a year of feeling truly alive by aligning actions, relationships, and work with the internal sense of excitement. He contrasts "raising the ceiling" (aiming for higher external achievements) with "raising the floor"—setting higher standards for the energy one tolerates, saying no to draining people and activities, and surrounding oneself with those who naturally elevate one's vibration. Personal anecdotes illustrate how shedding toxic relationships freed emotional energy, leading to more authentic connections and opportunities. The speaker describes a shift from forced content production to creating only what excites him, emphasizing live events as a powerful frequency amplifier that attracts synchronicities and higher‑vibe interactions. He links this external alignment to internal work: changing self‑image, healing childhood parent‑dynamic wounds, and elevating one's vibrational set point by integrating past emotions. The talk culminates in a limited‑time Black Friday promotion offering all 17 of his courses, 50+ meditations, and live‑event recordings, plus a ticket to an upcoming virtual live event, positioning these resources as tools for identity transformation and subconscious reprogramming. Throughout, the speaker frames practical advice—listening to bodily cues, saying no without guilt, and focusing on passion‑driven activities—as the pathway to greater love, joy, abundance, and synchronicity in the coming year.
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What if you only did things that made you feel alive? What if you only surrounded yourself around other people that you felt alive around? What if the key to you attracting more love, more joy, and more abundance was simply following the thread of excitement? I believe that 2025 is the year of feeling alive. Of doing things that bring you more life and of letting go of things that drain your energy. I know this last year for me, there was definitely some shedding of certain things out of my life, shedding certain people that were in a way draining to be around, really becoming clear with what my responsibility is and what the responsibility is of other people. But let me say this. When I let go of certain people in my life that were draining, it was like an anchor that was keeping me in drama, that was keeping me in stress response. Felt like a burden. Once I let it go, I felt so much more emotionally and energetically free. And then guess what? That made room for more people to come into my life that actually I feel alive around, that I don't have to try to manage their emotions or their problems. So this last year for me was really a year of understanding what is my stuff versus what is other people's stuff and having the standard that people I surround myself with are able to regulate their own nervous system. It's not my job to manage. So when I start asking myself this question for 2025 and beyond, it's what brings me most life? And I know based on how I feel when I do different things, like if you put the awareness inside your body when you're around certain people, you will notice, oh, I feel tension, or you'll notice I feel light. I feel alive. And then what you do is from that awareness, you can then choose to be around people that you enjoy being around, and you could say no to things that are literally depleting you of life. Now, here's a concept I think will completely transform your life. Instead of focusing on raising what is called your ceiling, we hear, feel more love, more joy, more peace. Let me raise my ceiling for what I can experience. Raise my ceiling. I'm making this amount per year. I wanna make this amount per year. I wanna raise my ceiling. You wanna know what's even more powerful for many people right now? Don't raise your ceiling, raise your floor. That's right, your floor. The standard you have for the kind of people you deal with, the standard you have for the kind of interactions you have, the standard you have for the kind of energy you tolerate may be so low that you're saying yes to what no longer resonates. So when you raise your floor, this means you start to say no to energy that no longer resonates with you. Like before, you may have said, "Oh, these are the kind of people I surround myself with." Maybe it's people that are used to you engaging with them in a certain way, always saying yes, abandoning yourself for them, and you're like, "Wait." You know what? I'm no longer gonna abandon myself. I'm gonna raise my floor for the kind of people I surround myself with or the kind of activities you even do. For me, I can tell that there was a, now the way that I create content is I only make content I am excited to make. Like right now, I'm excited to make this video, so I'm making it. Before, I would force myself to make a certain amount of videos per week. And I've been going back and forth this idea for years, by the way, because I'm like, how do I create content of YouTube, which has brought me so much abundance and success over the last 8 years, but it feels like I'm just forcing myself to do it? Well, now as I'm moving into live events, I've been talking about it for, I've been doing it, but just more sporadically. Now I'm just doing it because it's fun. Whereas before it was almost like, that's what it's interesting too, it was like I would do these live events and it's like I just had to do the live event to almost like, not just to say I did it, but it's like I was doing the event to like get events under my belt. This last, I did an event a few months ago. No, no, not even a month, not even a month ago. And I had so much fun doing it. When I was on stage, when I was coaching people, it brought me alive. Literally, like I felt more life than anything. And I felt, you know what's funny? When I run a live event, this is like a weird synchronicity that happened. When I run live events, one thing that happened is I'm running a live event and I'm going to Austin. And as I'm going to Austin, I'm not kidding you, I got recognized like 15 times in 2 days. Now, I know this sounds egotistical to say that, but the reason I'm saying it is because I believe that when I was going to Austin, what was happening to run this live event, it puts me in a certain frequency. Like I'm more alive in the preparation of a live event. I'm more alive in a live event. And what that resulted in is a different energy. I'm like, why would I be recognized 15 times in like 2 days? Like literally at the airport, 2 or 3 times in line. It was bananas to me. And I don't need that, by the way. I don't need to be recognized to feel worthy. But what I've learned is I've become more comfortable with it. But also I've learned that when I run live events, there's just a different vibe. It's like different people, different podcasts I'll get invited on, like just from the energy of being in a live event. And another thing that I pay attention to is when I'm in that frequency, who are the people that I find come into my life? And when I'm in a lower vibrational frequency, who are the people that just randomly reach out to me? You ever had that happen to you? These things happen when you're aware of your energy and you're aware of the vibe that you're in and understand that once you know this information, by the way, the focus is then how do I put my energy into things that help me feel more alive? How do I raise the floor? How do I raise my standard? Now, when you say no, like imagine you go on a date with someone and a part of you that would say yes to a certain type of person that maybe you don't really resonate with, there was a part of you that maybe is afraid of— I don't know, what could it be? It could be afraid of rejection, could be afraid of, um, like, what if you don't vibe with someone? Here's the thing: what if it's okay if you don't vibe with someone? What if it's okay that you don't have chemistry with someone? Now, that means that saying no is easier if it's okay. If it's not okay, then you'll try to make people that don't really resonate with you anyways, you'll try to get them on board or having a good conversation with them. Had someone ask on an Instagram Live I did recently, like, how do I have a good conversation? Like, if I want, my intention is to have a good conversation with someone, how do I do that without trying to please them or something? And it was like very clear that if you're trying to get anything out of a conversation, it's a form of manipulation. And when you let go and you're cool either way, you're in the most magnetic free energy. And raising the floor is about recognizing that it's okay to say no, it's okay to have a standard. And what priorly you may have said yes to, you may say no to. But guess what happens? You make space for something new to come into your life. So now when I am making content, I only make content I'm passionate about and I make content that puts me into state or where I get into state and then that becomes content. So for example, when I am in front of a crowd of people or even go live on Instagram, there's a different energy than when I force myself to make a video. Unless like this, I'm actually wanting to make the video. But that puts me into state, that makes me alive. And by saying no to all the other times I'd force myself to make videos, it's like I have this buildup build up energy so that when I do the thing that I'm most alive with, it's even more powerful. Just like if you say no to superficial connections, you're gonna be making space for things that could come into your life that would be deeper connections. So let this be a year of following what makes you feel alive and then also raising your standard. Now, one of the biggest blocks for people is they feel as they have a subconscious pull towards familiar energy. Their subconscious may not feel worthy of love. Their subconscious may not feel worthy of abundance. And that will keep them anchored in saying yes to things that no longer resonate, choosing things that drain their energy. Now, some of the things that will change your life more than anything else, I believe, is a few things. One, changing your inner self-image. What is your inner self-image? 'Cause if you see yourself as someone that must tolerate toxic energy, if you see yourself as someone that's only able to make a certain amount of money per year, if you see yourself as someone that's not worthy of love, how can you attract something different? You get a reflection of whatever your inner self-image is. It's what's called a cybernetic mechanism. Once I changed my self-image to be that of a YouTuber, my life changed. Back in the day, it was becoming a top salesperson at my commission job. Then eventually it was becoming a YouTuber. Now it's running live events. It's always going to change. But another aspect of this is going in and healing and looking at your relationship to the mother-father dynamic, because we project that into our reality subconsciously. So if you felt like mom or dad wasn't physically or emotionally available as a kid, you will project that onto the world and Once you heal that, so much in your life can open. Another aspect of this is just elevating your frequency, your vibrational set point, as I call it. When you allow yourself to integrate emotions from the past and energies from the past, you allow yourself to naturally raise your frequency, and that will also lead to you feeling more alive. Now, something that I am doing, if you haven't heard about it already, is I am doing a, thing, which is, this is my, if you're seeing this video, it's my birthday week, it's Thanksgiving, and it's Black Friday week. I always do something special this week of the year. This week I'm giving away literally every course I've ever created. There's 17 of them, including the Shift Experience, the Emotional Transformation Process, and, um, 15 others. And then every meditation I've ever done, there's over 50 of them. You can listen to whenever you want. And every live event I've ever done, the full recording includes breathwork, includes past life regression, hypnosis, includes so many different things that I've done at live events in the past. And you can get all of those right now by clicking the link in the description box. This is a, and also you're gonna get a ticket to the virtual event that I'm doing December 7th and 8th in LA, live streamed in HD with the replay if you can't make it live, you'll get as a bonus right now if you join as well. So anyways, I'm doing this because I am letting go of this old identity of me and just moving into next year, my focus is gonna be on that of doing live events and my coaching program. Those are gonna be the only two things I focus on. That's why I'm giving away all these other processes that will help you change your identity, heal, meditate, integrate the past, change your vibrational set point. These are all the main focuses. It's really a heavy emphasis on changing the subconscious mind. So if you want to join that, that's gonna be available right now for a short period of time. You can go and click the link below to check it out. But understand in general, for this next year, what you really wanna focus on is following what makes you feel alive and letting go of what drains your energy. I saw a friend the other day that she was telling me she took 6 months offline, no Instagram, nothing. And you wanna know what happened? She grew her business like crazy. She said she felt so alive. She said she realized that her phone was draining her energy and she thought that she needed it to make her business work. And what she found out is because she let go of what was draining her energy, it's like she had all these other resources to where then she just went on a podcast. She did every other things beyond the rationalization of I have to do this in order to basically get by and be successful. And that resulted in growing your business, feeling more alive, better relationship, everything. It's very inspiring. So now in my business, that's something I'm doing. I'm letting go of a lot of things that I used to think I had to do. And I focused on what do I love doing? What am I passionate about? What brings me life? When I'm in front of a crowd of people, it brings me life. I love it. And as I focus on that, I can tell it's going to change the trajectory of my life. So let that be the thread through which you filter your next— the end of this year and 2025 in general. What makes you feel most alive for 2025? Do that. Where can you raise your floor and let go of what no longer serves? Let it go, because then you're making space for something new to come into your life. And as you do, guess what's going to happen? You're going to find new synchronicities, new opportunities, new people that come into your life as a reflection. So that's the focus right now for this next, uh, this next year. If you do wanna check out the Black Friday thing I was mentioning, I'll go ahead and link it right here. Other than that, see you in the next one. Peace, much love, and namaste.
