Judging Yourself is Blocking the Law of Attraction (How to Fix it)

This video will show you how judging yourself is blocking the law of attraction from working. I'm going to share with you tools and techniques for really seeing yourself in this new point of view so that you're able to attract what you want. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be sharing with you the power of learning how to transcend the judgments that we have about not only ourselves, but maybe other people as well. But how when we have those blockages, it really is something that distance ourselves from what we want to experience. You can think of judgment in the way as a blockage or a resistance to our natural self. And anytime that we judge ourselves or even someone else, that's a natural blockage towards the natural feeling we should have. The feeling of feeling self-accepted, the feeling of feeling love with other people, or feeling connected to other people. Anytime we create a judgment, we create normally a label, and then that label acts as a barrier from us to actually experience experience the fullness of that interaction because of what we are in a way subconsciously putting forth on it. Now realize that we have what is called an ego and that the ego is something we use. It's not something that we need to really beat down and get angry about because you know, sometimes you see videos of people saying, you know, the ego is the enemy, or I think there's a book called that. The idea is that the ego, the brain might in a way, you know, have these negative characteristics sometimes, but in general we do need the ego in order to have a physical type experience, and the job of our ego is to decide what our ego wants and then to move in that direction. Now, of course, there is power in getting into an observer point of view. So think of it like this. We have the ego. The ego is dissecting information and reacting to the environment and deciding how it relates the inner world to the outer world. And then what we can learn to do through meditation is how to observe from a neutral point of view. Now the observing is where we can observe the thoughts of the ego. We can become more neutral and not give everything such deep meaning. We can let go of good and bad and we can learn to just observe. And in that point of view is where almost all the power is. It's where you'll really go deep when it comes to not only feeling more mindful and feeling happier, but also with the law of attraction because you learn to let go of negative emotions that might keep you in a certain bubble attracting the same things over and over again. So this is why what I want to talk about with this is knowing that when it comes to judgment, many times the things that we are judging are not even our own thoughts. They're simply conditioned thoughts that we've had that we've adopted from someone else. Now this could be either things that we've learned from our parents. This could be things that we learned from our peers in school, but many times we must ask ourselves the question. Is this really my thought or is this a thought or a belief of someone else that I'm carrying around with me? Now, if we start to do that, we realize that many times I'd say probably over 80 or 90% of the time, it's not even our own beliefs or our own thoughts. It's something we just adopted at a very young age in life. Now, this gives us power because once we know that, we can literally picture ourselves as walking around and lugging around this luggage that's not ours. And carrying it with us everywhere we go, and that luggage is the resistance that we feel because anytime we judge ourselves or we judge someone else, we create a distance. We create a barrier between us and them, but also between us and ourselves because that judgment is something that always comes back to us. It's something that we are carrying around and therefore even if that person isn't here or even if we're doing something else, what happens is whatever that is, we still carry that emotion around with us. So what are some of the most powerful ways of letting go of judgment? Well, first off, it's understand that that judgment serves a purpose. There is something you can learn from that judgment. Now that's what I've done. I've realized that anytime I'm judging someone else, I ask myself the question, where is this coming from? And then I'm able to see that many times it may have come from some type of experience. You know, well, I hung around with this type of person before and they start to have these deceiving type mentalities, so maybe this is how they're going to be in the future. And because we have that expectation, we then have that become a self-fulfilling prophecy. So what we can learn to do is to stop judging other people by assuming that because someone did something in the past, they're going to do it in the future. Now we can still have discernment with this. We can still be aware, but be more aware more so than adding labels. And the same thing comes from ourself. Instead of judging ourselves and assuming that because we've been some way in the past that we're always going to be some way in the future. And as we start to see that from a new point of view, that will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. So the power of this whole video is knowing that when we walk around, we normally think that the thoughts we have are our own, when in reality many of the thoughts that we have are just regurgitations of past and prior conditioning. On average, we think 60,000 to 70,000 thoughts a day, and of those, 90% of them are recycled from the day before. Now this means that we're continuously, many times perpetuating the same thoughts over and over again and the same judgments over and over again. And when we feel judgments, what we can learn to do is to observe those thoughts, observe those judgments we have, and that's where the power is. And when we start to observe them from a neutral point of view, we take ourselves out of that reactive mind and that resistance that we may feel. So the next time that you are feeling resistance, what you can learn to do is to more so observe the thoughts you're having, have the awareness, and be grateful that you're having this understanding, because then as you bring in that awareness, you can actually change it. We cannot change what we do not own, so when we become aware that we're continuously thinking those thoughts, that's when we start to gain our power back and that's when we can start to choose to put it in a more powerful way. Now there's another part of this as well and it has to do with the subconscious mind. The subconscious mind will always run itself out. The subconscious mind runs over 90% of our life, so the key to this isn't necessarily just the conscious, but it's also the subconscious, which is where the awareness comes in and that's where we can start to affect it. Now there's a meditation that I've put in the description box that you can download. That is very powerful for being able to reprogram the subconscious mind. And what it does is this allows us, using dual induction technology, using NLP, allows you to really wire in a new self-image and a new way and beliefs about who you are. Now, those beliefs that you wire in can be things that actually serve you, that make you look like you're not judging, make you look like you're more allowing the moment to be. And as you start to see yourself in that new way, you will start to have a completely new experience. So this is something that I recommend people listen to right before they go to bed. It's absolutely free. You can download it right now in the description box, and as you do that, you'll find that I think that you see that subconscious mind doesn't have as much power over you because you're starting to work with it rather than against it. So that's one of the keys as well. Remember that you can start to observe your ego. When you do that, you release the resistance. And you allow the moment to be. And by doing that, you're letting go of that negative energy so that you're not creating that around your bubble and that's affecting more and more of you. So with that being said, I hope you guys enjoyed this video. Feel free to like this video if you liked it. Subscribe if you haven't already. Also hit that little notification here so that you're able to see the daily vids that I do. And other than that, I will see you guys on the next vid. Peace, much love. Namaste.