People without an agenda are magnetically attractive because they let others think freely, while those pushing an outcome create resistance. A pushy salesman repels; someone genuinely helpful draws people in. The paradox: wanting to be chosen often blocks it.
You ever notice that the people that are the most magnetic and attractive are the people that don't have an agenda or aren't trying to control what you think of them? It's like if you were to dislike them, they're like, okay, you can think whatever you want. You're free to think what you want. Is it more attractive if someone is like letting you come to your own conclusion or trying to control it? This is also the paradox, by the way, with people who want to feel chosen because they have the rule that they want other people to choose them. They infuse resistance and it's in a way having an agenda and that agenda blocks people from just naturally realizing it themselves. You literally are not letting other people people choose you because you are trying to make them choose you, which is an agenda. So they can't choose you because you're also resisting the realization of it. Just like right now, if you were to go to a store and you go shopping, there's a whole bunch of salespeople there. There's like, you go to a used car sales place and guy really wants to sell you a car. And the more he forces it, the more it repels you. The more he demands you buy, the more you don't wanna buy. There's an agenda. But somebody that genuinely wants to help you is someone you are glad to work with. Interesting, right? It's all energy. Feel those emotions, and it's okay to feel that.
If you can see this, you're about to become so magnetic you are unrecognizable
