once I learned how to "vibrate correctly" my whole life changed

Aaron Doughty went from selling shoes to full-time YouTube by learning to "vibrate correctly." He uses the radio frequency metaphor: tune to the vibration of what you want (love, abundance, freedom) instead of chasing external changes. Childhood conditioning keeps you stuck; meditation, breathwork, and consistent action help you embody the reality you're after.
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When you learn how to vibrate correctly, more can change in your life in a short period of time than what would have normally taken a year or two to shift in your life. Now, whether it is the love you want to attract into your life, the abundance, the synchronicities, or the opportunities, learn how to vibrate correctly to tune to the reality that already exists, and you will find that your reality shifts so much quicker than if you go about it in the outside-in way. So this is about inside-out transformation. Now, back in 2017, this is the shift that I made to go from working a 9-to-5 job selling women's shoes into being a full-time YouTuber within a relatively short period of time. You could say that for 2 or 3 years, I was vibrating incorrectly, was going about this a completely different way, and then when I shifted it in February of 2017, within a few short months, I was full-time at that 9-to-5 job, put my 2 weeks in at, during the, my last day of work was during the Conor McGregor-Mayweather fight. And that was my last time of ever having a 9 to 5 job. And I've used this same exact mentality to now become that of somebody that does live events, someone that travels the world, gets to basically live a life of freedom. And I would say the thing that keeps most people trapped is because they are trapped in old familiar patterns. They're going about this the wrong way. And they're keeping themselves stuck in old childhood familiar patterns because their subconscious mind is primed for it. Have you ever felt that even though you intellectually know what you want to experience, you may intellectually understand some of these spiritual concepts, but still you find you fall back into old patterns, leaving you frustrated? Wondering, does this stuff even work? Or maybe you find that there's so many different videos that tell you so many different things to do that you start doing one thing and you start doing another thing and you're not able to really get momentum. Well, in this video, I wanna show you how to use your vibration correctly, how you can create inside-out transformation, the biggest things that people get blocked in, and what you can do to actually finally resonate with the reality that already exists. Now, this is one of the main understandings of how our universe works. Our universe works that like attracts like when it comes to vibration. You must first embody the vibration of what you want to experience to then perceive of it. Like in 2015, 2016, and the very beginning of 2017, I was being the vibration of a 9-to-5 job goer who sold women's shoes. I was thinking, I was feeling, I was acting equal to that reality, even though that reality wasn't the dream reality that I wanted. And I knew that, and I knew that I could do something else, but still there was something that felt familiar to it. It felt familiar to go into a job that I did not enjoy, to feel trapped in a bubble. It felt familiar to work for managers where things weren't fair, where they had power, and they would in a way use it to talk down to people. They would play favorites and have like this corporate politics energy. Interestingly enough, in a certain moment I realized, wow, from 7 to 17 years old, I also did not have much freedom. It also was not fair. I also could not talk about what was happening to HR 'cause I would get in more trouble from managers in the same way that if I were to explain to anyone else at school or something, what was happening at home, I would get in more trouble. Isn't this interesting? This is, most people are locked in similar familiar childhood patterns and they're not even aware of it. It's like, they're like, why can't I start my business? Why can't I ask this person out? Well, there may be a familiar energy around abandonment. There may be a familiar energy around life isn't fair. I need to fight for my freedom. I was me for a long time. So when then, like understand, like imagine this is you and imagine 97.5 FM, just like, you know, a radio dial. A radio dial tunes to a frequency that already exists. 97.5 FM is a station where you have love in your life and abundance in your life. It already exists. Now what most people do is they want it, they try to control things on the outside, they create a lot of resistance, and they have this rule that I will not feel it until it is here now. I will not believe it until I see it. The challenge is that's not the way reality works. You must first believe it, you must first feel it, and you must first be it. And then outer reality changes as a reflection. So in 2015, '16, and the beginning of 2017, I was being the vibration of a 9-to-5 job goer. I'd go into work and complain about how slow it was to other coworkers. And every year it was getting slower and slower 'cause less people were going into retail stores to buy clothes, they were going online. And then I would wonder and have this job manager situation, complain about that, and then I'd, go home, I'd get 2 days off a week, and I would be like, on my 2 days off a week, all I have time to do is do laundry and get ready for the next week of work. Felt like I didn't have much freedom. So instead what I did is I started to embody the energy of 97.5 FM, which is a metaphor for the version of me that was already a full-time YouTuber. So I decided to think, feel, act equal to a full-time YouTuber. I started to focus on allowing things to flow through me to add value. So what I would focus on is how can I create videos that add value to other people? And as I would be, here's the thing about the universe. When you are making it more than just about you and you want to add value to other people, because we live in a collective consciousness where we're all connected, what ends up happening is it's like the universe sends you more ideas, the universe sends you more synchronicities, more motivation and energy for it to flow through. So within a very short period of time of me thinking, feeling, acting equal to a 9-to-5 job, of equal to me being a full-time YouTuber, that's when my reality really began to shift. Within 2 or 3 weeks of making videos, I started to gain momentum. A few videos started to pop and within 6 months I had 100,000 subscribers. Then I put my 2 weeks in. I was like, I'm gonna figure this whole thing out. So understand you have to make the choice to be it now. Now where most people are trapped is their attention is going outside of themselves. It's going to other people. It's like, it's the outside-in way of going about it. It's who do I need to be for you? It's going with the flow, like, Do you realize that there's a spiritual consciousness shift that's happening on the planet right now? More and more people are waking up every day. And you came here, if you're aware of this information, to set down a new path, to set down a new vibration, to be the most authentic you. You maybe didn't come here to fit in with the normalized social conditioning way of going about things. That's where we become a everything is happening to us. So what happens is people like may feel maybe they're into spirituality and metaphysical concepts and they feel like the weird one in their family and they think, oh, not everyone else is weird. Who do I need to be to gain safety? Who do I need to be to make everyone else not feel tension? Well, maybe you didn't come here to do that. Maybe you came here not to intentionally make people feel uncomfortable, but maybe you came here to lay down a new way of being. Where you are the most authentic version of you, which is part of vibrating correctly. Once I accepted this, a lot in my life changed 'cause I was like, people are gonna think my YouTube stuff is weird. What are my friends and family gonna think? Maybe I need them to like understand me so that I can feel accepted. When I realized I didn't come here to form, I didn't come here to tune to the 3D reality of like trying to fit in and comparing myself to other people and watching the news. And when I stopped trying to do that, I became more free. I owned my own energy. I owned my weirdness. And understand that maybe the more you owned your weirdness, what makes you maybe unique, the more that you will stand out to other people and the more you will be magnetic. Because I share a lot of weird things on this YouTube channel, yet people are, they watch my content. Maybe the weird parts of me are the things that you've resonated with if you've been watching me for a while. So when we say things happen to me, when we're living in the autopilot mind, we are in reaction to our environment and we are living as the effect and not the cause. Now, another thing people often do is they want, They say, I want it, I want it, I'll take action. Now, wanting can get you to take action. Wanting can get you to move from wanting into intention. But if you stay in wanting, you stay in lacking. Remember, 97.5 FM of the reality of love and abundance. If you want it, you're not it. Like I moved from wanting it to then being a full-time YouTuber. I saw myself as it, I gave myself permission to be it. When before I was waiting and wanting it. I wanted Tony Robbins to tell me to go for it. I wanted validation from other people in my life to tell me that I was good enough for it. But I waited, I waited, I waited, and it never came until I gave that to myself. You see, reality will not shift to you until you shift your perspective. I remember, was this a common, I think it was a common quote in like a song he did. He's a rapper from Chicago. He had a quote where it has something to do with like, "I had to believe in me before other people could believe in me." And very often that's really the way it works. The more I believed in myself, the more I took action and the less attachment I had to what other people thought, the more they came around and thought what I was doing is cool. The more attached I was to them wanting to get it, the more attached I was to caring what they thought, the more resistance there was. So part of it, vibrating correctly, is letting go of attachment. You don't need their approval or validation. You may believe you do because you think that you need to ease their tension or you need them because you don't wanna feel alone on this journey. Embrace this energy. Another thing is being attached to outcome. Like if I was making videos to escape my job, It's an end, it's a means to an end. That was a side effect of it, but I was making the videos because it was who I choose to be. I chose to be a full-time YouTuber. I thought, felt, acted equal to that reality. I went to work every day, 35 hours a week. I'd get done, I would make videos in my sister's bedroom while living at my dad's house, edit the video, schedule the video to go out the next day and do that all over again because that's who I committed to being. I knew and felt that if I made a video every single day on YouTube, my life would transform within a year. Didn't take a year, took a few months because that vibration became my dominant reality. Now you wanna also stop masking your emotions. If you have fear, the thing that will keep you in the old reality is if you have fear, imposter syndrome, self-sabotage, procrastination, perfectionism. We're avoiding emotions. We're avoiding the feeling of fear. Understand the way to vibrate correctly is you do need to step into the unknown, which may evoke fear. But guess what? The fear is what expands your sense of identity. When I have made, I've made like 2,000 videos on YouTube. The first time I ever made a video, it was very cringy. It felt very weird. And there was fear around that. I've now run live events in Sedona, Arizona. I've run live events in Austin. I've run live events in LA. I've had hundreds of people at live events. The first time I did it, there was more fear there. Every time I do it, there's less and less fear because I put in more reps. There's like an excitement, but also sometimes an anxiety. What if I mess up? End result, instead of focusing on them too, focusing on the crowd, focusing on adding value. And when that, like when I make a video, if I'm just focusing on letting this energy flow through because I wanna get these ideas through to you so that you can transform your life, it just flows through. I don't have to think about the next thing I'm gonna say. In fact, normally when I make YouTube videos, I didn't know I was gonna make this video until like I wrote it on the whiteboard and then started the video. Like I didn't have this planned out for 3 days or anything. I didn't do a whole bunch. It just flows through. It's when you go from things happening to you, to for you, or through you. So understand that feeling, letting it be okay that you feel uncomfortable emotions, because when you feel it, you heal it. This is how you use your vibration correctly. There are so many times when unprocessed emotion came up inside of my body in the past and I let it be there and I didn't try to like avoid it, that then it released and I felt so much lighter. Because remember, the key to elevating your vibration is to let go because your vibration is naturally high. It's like the cork on the top of an ocean. You push down the cork, there's resistance, it's under the surface. How does it raise back up to the surface? You just let it go. Naturally raises back up. The attachment is what keeps us underneath. The false beliefs, the autopilot, the wanting, these are all things that keep us holding that cork under the ocean. Now, one thing you want to also focus on is knowing that that reality already exists. So you want to energetically tune to it and to feel it as if it's here now. How do you feel emotions that you have not priorly felt? I'm asking you. Does anyone know? I'm just kidding. Meditation is one of the most powerful ways. Whatever you focus on, you feel. If you sat there and you focused on something you were grateful for in your life, you'd begin to grow the energy inside of your heart. You begin to feel it more. And what I would do is I would visualize myself with the freedom, the emotion of what I wanted to create from being a full-time YouTuber was freedom. So I would focus in my life, even when I had my 9 to 5 job, on the freedom I already had, on my lunch break, I had the freedom to watch whatever I'd want, I wanted. So I'd watch YouTube and I would eat my food. And when I was off work, I'd focus on making videos. I had the freedom to make a video right now. And then within a short period of time, I had all day, I quit my job and I had literally all day to make videos. So what I did is instead of making a video a day, I started making 3 videos a day. I was 90 videos ahead at one point, 3 months. Isn't that crazy? 3 videos because I'm like, I had a 9-to-5 job where I had to work 9 to 8 hours, an hour to drive, you know, 40 minutes to drive there, 40 minutes to drive back or whatever it was. Now it takes me 30 minutes to make a video. So even if I make 3 videos a day, after 2 hours, I'm like, I have all this time. What am I gonna do? I guess I'll go to the gym. So I got ahead. But the thing that I did is I embodied the energy now, I felt it now. Now. So you want to feel it now by being aware of what is the emotion you wanna create in your life. If it's love you want to attract, tune to the version of you that already has love. What are the beliefs of that version of you? What are the actions that versions of you take? How does that version of you think about yourself? Because realize as well, your identity, your self-image is what you are acting equal to. If you see yourself as a high vibrational person, you will begin to embody more high vibrational energy. And now first off, if you're watching this video, you are someone that's already on the leading edge of consciousness. You're someone that's already into this type of content. I do not mean this in a spiritual grandiose way. You do not, a high vibrational way to correctly vibrate is not to see yourself as better than other people. That is called spiritual grandiosity. And when we look down on other people and we say everyone's asleep, I'm awake, It's a way to create significance and it's a way to feel worthy because there's a shame of feeling not worthy there, so we need to feel better. No, everyone's on their own spiritual journey and we came here to embody this high vibrational energy that we are, but there's no hierarchy of seeing people as less than and people as more than. So allow yourself to feel it, to connect to that version of you. Now understand that also, One of the most important parts of this process is understanding taking action and intention. Intention. The word in, you're literally in tension. And people think tension is bad because maybe in childhood tension was bad. But when you're going from the known into the unknown, there will be some tension there. If you avoid the attention, no wonder you feel stuck in an old reality. One thing I had to do is to become very comfortable with intention. The more I would authentically be the real me, I realized that part of that was valuing authenticity over wanting people's validation and approval, which meant having sometimes uncomfortable conversations. It meant expressing how I really felt in the moment. But you wanna know what evolved from that? More self-respect. Yes, more tension, but that tension was reaffirming that I am this new version of myself, not living in childhood dynamics of being afraid. So understand that this process for you is also taking action. For a long time, 2015 and '16 and '17, the very beginning, I was not taking action. I was not making YouTube videos. I was thinking about it. I was wanting to manifest it from the couch. Oh, just think about it, just feel it. But I wasn't being it. Thinking, feeling, acting. Acting is action. And you can say being it, taking action as that version of you, that may be the missing key. Take massive action. I used to hear that back early in my day and it would trigger me 'cause I'm like, you don't need to take action. That sounds very low vibrational. When you do what you love and you're allowing the divine to flow through you, it doesn't feel like, work in the sense that like you hate it. I was like, this is happening through me. And every one of you are connected to the divine. We're all connected to the divine and we can allow this energy to flow through. Taking action and setting intention. Set intention to have a great day. Set intention to grow a YouTube channel. Set intention to meet someone new today. People don't set enough intentions and because of that, they don't get it. They don't receive it. They have no intention, so they just go to a 9 to 5 job they don't like. They talk to people that maybe they don't really resonate with. And understand that one of the biggest parts of this entire process is breaking out of the familiar and going into the unknown, breaking out of the familiar and breaking out of childhood patterns. This is what really changes completely everything. Now, what you wanna do as well, if you haven't, breathwork I find is one way to shed the old energy of the old vibration. I have a breathwork ceremony that's 2 hours long. I am certified in breathwork. It's the most powerful modality I've ever found. It's changed my life in so many ways that I became certified in it. It's called somatic release breathwork. It's completely free in my High Vibe Tribe community. If you wanna check it out, I'll go ahead and link it below. Join the High Vibe Tribe for free. Listen to that breathwork for free. It's in the classroom section, pinned at the top, you'll see it. And then also, if you want a video to help you to release the attachments that are keeping you in low vibration, different substances, one of the most powerful videos I've made recently is also on how to vibrate correctly. I'm gonna go ahead and link this video right here. What if you were meant to feel high a majority of the time? And anytime you do certain things, whether it be drink alcohol,










