Aaron DoughtyAwareness Mastery, Awareness Mastery, Awareness Mastery, Awareness Mastery, Awareness Mastery, LLC · Spiritual Teacher and Educator

People mirror your subconscious mind...

10 Feb 2025 · 1 min

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In this short monologue, the speaker explains that the way we feel about our mother and father forms the template for how we relate to men and women later in life. Negative beliefs about our parents are projected onto other people, causing us to attract partners and acquaintances who fit those expectations. This attraction is driven by an unconscious attempt to "close the loop" from childhood—seeking situations that allow us to heal or learn the unresolved dynamics with our parents. Becoming aware of this projection process is presented as the key to reclaiming personal power, as awareness stops the automatic pattern and lets us choose healthier relationships.

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The way we feel about mom, the way we feel about dad is the way we feel about men and women in our life. So your negative beliefs around mom, your negative beliefs around dad end up becoming something that you project onto other people and you attract people that fit the bill for what you expect. Now, why is that? One of the reasons is, is because we're trying to close the loop from childhood. We wanna heal and close the loop from childhood. So whenever we attract certain patterns in our life, part of the reason we attract these patterns is because we're trying to close the loop. We're trying to heal, trying to learn. When you become aware of this, this is where a lot of power really starts to come back to you.