Aaron DoughtyAwareness Mastery, Awareness Mastery, Awareness Mastery, Awareness Mastery, Awareness Mastery, LLC · Spiritual Teacher and Educator

People treat you the way you’ve trained them to treat you⚡

5 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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In this motivational monologue, Aaron Doughty explains that the way others treat you is a direct result of the patterns and boundaries you have allowed them to adopt. He argues that over time these patterns become the norm in relationships, creating an implicit contract where people respond to the role you have trained them to play. As you raise your consciousness and become more self‑aware, you may recognize that many relationships are heavily imbalanced, with you unintentionally surrendering personal power. Doughty suggests that this awareness is the first step toward reclaiming authority over how you are treated, by redefining the parts you play and setting clearer boundaries.

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People treat you the way you've trained them to treat you. Let that sit for a second. People treat you the way you've allowed them to treat you. Then they have a certain pattern or way that they relate to you that they're used to. And what happens is that becomes the norm. Now what happens is as you go through the process of elevating your level of consciousness, of increasing your awareness, You become aware eventually that like, wait, maybe this relationship is extraordinarily imbalanced. Maybe I've been giving away my power, not even knowing it. People have gotten used to this. And maybe in a very surface level way, maybe some of these people only like you, only accept you, only validate you if you play the part they're used to you playing.