Polarization and the Law of Attraction - Why You get the Opposite and How to TRANSCEND it

This video, I'm going to be explaining to you polarization with the law of attraction. I'm going to show you why letting go of negative charges, things that you have judgments towards, letting that go will start to totally transform your life when it comes to manifesting what you want. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be sharing with you more on polarization. Polarization and why polarization may be what is blocking you from experiencing what you want. In a way, many times when people have certain charges through certain type of energy states or they really have these rules in their mind about the way reality should be, that they create this resistance that creates the opposite effect of what they want. So maybe you've realized that maybe you have a desire for something. But the more that you want it and the more that you are focused on it, and even though you feel resistance, you create this polarity of good and bad or of having it and then not having it. So I'm going to be explaining that and how you can transcend it so that you're really able to create from a whole new paradigm. This is about really transcending the paradigm that you're coming from and then starting to get a whole new result. So this has to do— let me give you an example. Say for example, there's actually something I read in the book Reality Transurfing recently. It's an example I'm going to take from there and imagine you are in your house and you're noticing that your neighbors are being very loud, that they are having parties, that it's late at night. The more that you focus on your neighbors being loud, not respecting your privacy, your, your, uh, your, your noise and how you want that to go away, not having silence as you're focused on maybe the way they park in front of your house in the driveway, or, you know, kind of like in your side of the house next to in front of your house in a way on your side. What you could do is you pay attention to when you have those rules in a way you're judging the present moment subconsciously. Now this is the thing, because in your world, in the way that you perceive what is happening, you are developing resistance that resistance continues to create a momentum of its own in your life. So even though it might just be the neighbors being loud, the more that you focus on it, the more that it's going to be something that you pay attention to. It's going to be more of something that becomes a part of your life. Now, in a way, we would be thinking about this and, well, don't they, don't they respect my noise? Don't they respect my, my side, the silence that I want? And the thing is, is in a way, the more you care about it, the more that you create the resistance of it being there. It's almost like in a way you add to the attention that it's being put there and at the same time they will continue to run itself out because they are kind of linking up with that thought that you're putting towards it as well. So I know this sounds like a little bit of an esoteric idea, but the idea is that in your layer of your world, in the layer for which you perceive your world, you have that resistance of that reality, of that perspective of saying they are being loud, they're not respecting my privacy or my silence. And that perspective itself, because you are caring in a way and you have the momentum in that direction, it will continue to experience more and more that you may find that you go do something completely different in a similar— the faces change, but in a similar energy state, maybe at your job and something similar happens. You're trying to work and somebody is being loud next to you and you can't focus. So what I mean by this is when we set up these rules of being charged one way or the other with a preference, we end up creating more and more of that experience in our life because we are charged with it. So think of things in your life either having a positive charge or a negative charge, and anytime you have a charge, whether it's positive or negative, so maybe you have a desire for something that you prefer. What happens is, is by having an attachment to the desire for something that you prefer, If you are attached, and this is called being dependent on the outcome of something, you may have something that's good that happens. You may feel positive emotion because of it, but here is the thing. If that thing gets taken away, then so does the happiness that you attribute to it. So there's a solution to all of this, but first let's look at the other side of that. The other side is a negative charge. The negative charge of the neighbors being loud, the negative charge of people doing things to you that you don't necessarily prefer. The rules that you have about how people are driving. People shouldn't cut you off. People shouldn't, uh, do rolling stops or anything that has to do with these rules that we have in our own minds. The more that we are charged with these preferences, the more that we will see that we experience them in our life because that's where our focus goes. Now think of this as a mantra. Wherever your focus goes is where your energy goes, is where you're creating momentum. You say that one more time. Wherever your focus goes is where your energy goes, which is where you're creating momentum. So if the neighbor is being loud and you don't prefer it, you have to withdraw your attention from it, or you have to look at the situation in a new way. Now this is the thing. When you do that, you may find that the next day you're doing— you're going outside and you're, you you know, cleaning up something in your yard and you see your neighbors and you talk to them and maybe somehow you become really good friends with them. Maybe somehow you start to, uh, they say something, say, oh, was it too loud last night or something like that? Sorry, I was having a bunch of people over. And you say, you know what, it was kind of hard for me to sleep, but I know that you had people over, whatever. They're like, okay, I'll keep it down from now on. You see, when you start to do that, you start to let go of that energy. Your reality begins to change. You see, there's a story that we tell ourselves about the way that reality is, and in actuality, what we're learning is that we're actually shifting to different parallel realities every second. This is some quantum physics shows us. I know it's a little bit out there, but I've been sharing it on the channel because I think it is so powerful. So imagine this, you let go of the energy state from which you are creating that resistance internally because of the rules in the mind. Because of the charge that we have. You let go of that and then guess what? You start to shift to a reality that is more preferred. You start to experience more of the neighbors just doing their thing. Maybe when they do it and they are a little bit loud, you're able to not have that resistance because you're like, oh, I like my neighbors, so it doesn't really matter. You know, I can just put in these earplugs. You know, I could just go to this side of the house. You see, We let go of blind spots when you start to change our own perspective. Now this can go in every other area, every area of our life. In a relationship, think of this. Anytime that you have these rules about what your boyfriend or girlfriend should or shouldn't be doing, or wife or husband, whatever the situation is, anytime you have rules about what they should or shouldn't be doing, many times that will create the resistance in itself and they may actually feel encouraged to do the thing you don't want them to do if you have resistance towards it. If you have resistance towards something, the way that you feel about that something is going to be what brings about the behavior that you do or don't want. So the key then becomes not so much how can I change this thing about what my partner's doing, but how can I change how I relate to it? Because when you change the way that you relate to it, you let go of the charge. The charge is what is bringing a lot of the situations you experience in your life into your life. The charge is what has the things that resonate with that vibrational state that you're in. And the more rules you have in general, the more resistance you're going to have. That's why a lot of times it's very powerful to just go general, to go general, to have these beliefs that are more of like, do develop a belief that things just happen at the right place at the right time. Have a belief that things are always working out for you. As you do that, you start to create this layer of your world. They keep talking about the layer, the layer for which we see the world, because we're all in a way creating our own interpretation of reality and based on the rules and the beliefs we have, we will continue to perpetuate the kind of experience that we're having. And when we become aware of the charges we have, that's when we start to take our power back in a very profound way. So polarization is more so about understanding the charges we have and the resistance we're creating subconsciously from the thought processes and the thought patterns that we're having, whether it's the neighbors next door. I remember I had an ex-girlfriend at the time. She was my girlfriend. This is like 3, 4 years ago, and she told me that every time, um, there was we would, we would go out to eat somewhere and sometimes what would happen is when we go to pay, I would pay and we would take turns sometimes because we were, we lived together, you know, we shared a lot of the bills that we had and stuff. So we would kind of take turns sometimes. We had similar jobs at the time and what happened is sometimes when I would go out and say, you know, I'll pay and then I say, if you want, you can just tip. You know, and I never really, even with past girlfriends before, I never really had the desire to do that, to say you could tip. I normally just pay for the whole thing. Now I'm not putting the complete blame or saying that like the whole situation that that was completely her thought process, but I found out later that she didn't like that because she had an ex-boyfriend that used to do that all the time too. He would pay but ask her to tip and she liked, she more so thought like if you're going to pay, just pay. Like if you're gonna pay, pay for the whole thing. Don't like do a little bit of this and a little bit of that. And she had this rule in her mind about it. And in a way I thought about it later. I've never been like that before. I just kind of like pay and pay for the tip and it's like no big deal, but I almost felt just pulled to do that when I was with her and we were out and I thought about it after I learned some of these ideas I'm sharing with you and I had a feeling that that was one thing that in a way it kind of pulled it out of me because maybe that was resistance that she had and I was kind of in a way linking up with that rule that she had and reflecting that rule back to her. So in a way, I was neutralizing that charge even though it was something she didn't want. It was a rule that was becoming, that was kind of being brought out. So I look back at that now and I think that that was something that, uh, that was a part of this principle that I'm talking about, this charge. And how if we let go of these rules, people stop doing those things. It's funny how it works. Now we have these stories that it's not just that easy. That's a belief. We have these stories that will try to take us away from the understanding, but here's the thing. We really are who we choose to be in the present moment. We really are shifting through different parallel realities every second, and we are not the result of our past. We are Who we choose to be in the present moment. And if you choose to let go of that baggage, if you choose to let go of that resistance, guess what? Things begin to change so powerfully because the layer of the world, the weight, the lens through which you see your world begins to change because you start to see that you don't need that resistance. You don't need those rules because everything is happening as it should. Start to allow more things to happen and things will begin to change. What is the higher level paradigm that I was talking about in the beginning? Think of polarization in the same way that we think of duality. Duality is the left brain, the right brain. Duality is good and bad. Duality is light and dark. That's duality. That is from a higher level perspective. There are these labels we can give these different levels of consciousness, and the most common ones are 3D, 4D, and 5D levels of consciousness. Now, 3D means third dimension. Now, just getting out of the semantics of it, let's just look at the general way that we perceive it, and I'm just going to explain what that means and how we can transcend to a 5D level of manifestation. Now, 3D is the good, the bad. It's the left brain, the right brain. It's being identified with the ego. 3D is about competition. 3D is about labels. This is me, that is you. I am this ethnicity, you are that ethnicity. I'm from this country, you're from that country. They're labels. And in a long— for a long period of time, we have been focused on the planet in a 3D level of consciousness. Here is what is happening though, and here is the power of why manifestation is speeding up right now. We are making a transition from this level of consciousness of 3D duality, of identification with thoughts, to we're starting to move more into what is called 4D level of consciousness and sometimes 5D level of consciousness. 4D is more like an accelerated manifestation state. It's more like a dream state. It's more flexibility. It's less labels. There can still be some good and bad, but it's more so about a quickening of energy. And right now we are going through this transition. And then in 5D, it's a unity consciousness. It's more so creating from a much higher paradigm of realizing we are all connected. That when we focus straight on the energy state, we can go straight to that vibration. It's the awareness that the vibration, the emotion that we want to feel exists within us right now, and the only reason we don't feel it is because we give ourselves these rules as to why we can't feel it. Belief systems are very heavy in the 3D consciousness. There's still some belief systems in the 4D consciousness. When we get to the 5D consciousness, we start to tap more into a knowing that we are all connected, that we— everything outside of us is a reflection of who we believe we are and who we choose to be, that there's an infinite number of parallel realities that exist and that we can choose the one that we want. We don't have to create it because all parallel realities exist. We just choose it from the— it's called the space of variations. We choose it from the options that we have. So that's what I encourage you to do. Start to see things as connected. Start to see things as a part of the process. Start to allow things to happen. Realize polarization is part of the old paradigm and that you are now waking up to a higher level of consciousness. You're now waking up to a higher level of manifestation that will change absolutely everything. I really believe that, and all you have to do is start to realize that we are all connected start to realize that you can feel the emotions you want to feel right now and that you are who you choose to be in the present moment and you are not the result of your past. The more that you really wire that in, the more things will begin to change. Now, another part of this process of creating from the higher level paradigm has to do with raising your vibration. And when I raised my own vibration, that's when everything began to change. I started to manifest from a much more powerful place, and that's why I created a free guided meditation that will help you to raise your vibrational set point. So that you create from a higher point of view. So if you want that, that's in the top of the description box below. It's absolutely free. You can download it. I recommend you listen to it for 21 days to get the maximum benefit out of it. If you do, I think it can really change your life. 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