Saying no triggers fear of rejection because rejection feels like abandonment. But when you set boundaries anyway, people usually respect you for it, not reject you. Vulnerability in stating your authentic self transforms how others see you.
Saying no to something takes vulnerability. The vulnerability is avoided because there's a fear of being rejected. What is rejection? Another form of abandonment. To be rejected is like death to somebody that has an abandonment wound. The funny thing is, the more you express the real you, not attached to what other people think, even when you believe I could get rejected, it's funny how once you express the real you, and it takes courage to do so, how much people respect you.
If you can see this, you're about to become so magnetic you are unrecognizable
