Shift Your Language SHIFT your life (and how to do it)

This video, I'm going to be sharing with you how to shift your language and shift your life. If you do this, your whole entire life will change because the inner dialogue is and creates your outer reality. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be sharing with you how shifting your language shifts your life. And this is such a simple thing that when you begin to do, will take you to new heights, will take you to a new level of reality. Because this is, uh, this is about understanding. Like they say that thing when it comes to in the beginning, something about God and the word was God, right? That's something that they, you hear, you hear a lot when it comes to In the beginning there was the word and the word was God. Word. The word is a powerful thing that directs our life. Now the word can represent sound, it can represent vibration, and when we talk about sound and vibration, think about this in terms of what we are speaking into existence. What are we saying? Think about this in terms of the definitions and the beliefs you have. Language creates a framework for the way that we see the world. And sometimes we may go outside, we may try to change the outer reality, but we're going about it backwards. We're going about it the wrong way. It'd be like the traditional analogy. You go over to a mirror and instead of changing the expression on your face, You look at that mirror with a serious face. You're like, change. And in order to change it, you put your fingers up to it. You try to manipulate it, but you know deep down that ain't ever going to work. You ain't ever going to change the reflection on the mirror until you change. And in a similar way, reality is a reflection of what we believe to be true, and reality is a reflection of our expression. Now our language has a very powerful effect on the brain because our language creates the framework inside of our mind for the way reality works. They say that if you were to look at things that you had no word for, no meaning to that word. So think about it in terms of the word you use and then the meaning of that word you use. So for example, ball. Just a little round ball thing. It's a ball. I have a basketball over there. I haven't used it forever. I should probably play basketball soon. Yeah, it sounds like fun actually. So ball. Imagine you ain't ever seen a ball before. You don't even know what is a ball. You don't have no meaning. You would look at it and you just wouldn't know really what to do with it. You may intellectually be like, well, if I roll it, I bet it rolls, but you would have no meaning to it. It wouldn't have any strong emphasis in your life because you wouldn't have context for it. Now then what happens is we place a meaning on it or a language. We say that is a ball. That is what that is. And sometimes this can actually limit us because then it makes us too intellectual. Think about it. There's this beautiful bird and this beautiful bird is something you can be present with, something you can notice, but the moment you identify What kind of bird it is. You're like, that scientific root is the blue sparrow Arcturus. That's the name of the bird. Okay. That it is no longer this divine being. It's now this scientific logical word and sometimes it'll make us feel more separated from it rather than just being with it. However, language is creating our life and creates the structure, the framework in our mind for what we experience in our life. Think about it like you may have a certain way that you talk about— look at your language around relationships. Within the language you use is your beliefs. Relationships come easily, relationships come hard, relationships are limiting, they constrict you of freedom, or relationships are compassionate, relationships are love. You see, there's different facets of the same thing and our language about it carries with it definitions. Sometimes people will reach out to me, say, how can I do better in school when I hate going to school and all the teachers don't care about me? Now I get it that that might be an actual experience someone has. However, there's definitions we overlay with it. The language we use will either make us feel empowered or disempowered, but what language are we using? Because most people are not using empowered language or they're using language based on prior reference experience. When if we change our story about school, we may actually then begin to enjoy it. I used to not be good at school. I mean, I don't even go to— I don't have to go to school no more, but when I was in school, I remember that it was in like high school, especially like 9th grade. There was a switch that happened. I saw myself, my self-image in 9th grade was that I wasn't very good at school and I got C's. I was an average student, but then something switched inside of me where I started to see myself as somebody that was better at school. I then went from a C student to an A/B student and those in the honors classes and it changed my whole perception. However, I look back at that and I can see that there was this shift that was made in my identity, the way that I saw myself, and my language also changed. I then saw school as something that I could go to and something I could do well at. My language about it changed as well. So within our language is our definitions, and our reality will always have language that is equal to the reality we are experiencing. Let me say that again a little bit different way. The reality that we experience, the outer reflection we get in our life, what we think, the language we use either in our mind or outwards is going to be equal to that reality. So if you don't think that you're worthy of a relationship, you may speak that into existence either in your mind with the inner dialogue or outer by telling other people about how there aren't the kind of person that you're looking for in your life, you always attract a certain type of guy or a certain type of girl into your life, your language will be equal to that. Your language carries with it those definitions, and those definitions reveal to you the beliefs you have, the beliefs you have about money, the beliefs you have about relationships, the beliefs you have about health. If you believe that losing weight is hard, then losing weight will be hard. If you believe it is hard to attract the right person into your life, then it will be hard. But if you change the way, the language you use for these things, the framework in your mind for the way that you relate to it, you then change the actual experience itself. Because within our language are stories about the way reality works, as if reality has a built-in meaning, as if when you incarnated, it was an agreed-upon reality that attracting a relationship is hard for every single person on this planet. As if knowing that losing weight is a very difficult thing to do and built into everything that happens, but we know that's not true. There's some people that have trouble gaining weight. There's some people that, that are always in a relationship and it's so easy for them to attract new relationships. So then their focus isn't how do I attract relationship, it's how do I attract the one person? You see, but we all have these limiting definitions, these limited languages. This language we use inside of our mind is controlling our life, whether we're aware of it or not. Now let's talk a little bit about this. Your inner dialogue, the way that you talk to yourself, the language you use is controlling your life situation. Think about that. The way that you relate to different things in your life is controlling the kind of experiences you're having, either consciously or unconsciously. If when you relate to other people, you tell yourselves a story that I'm shy, people don't get me, people don't understand me, people don't make eye contact with me, and then you're in a situation with someone and you're just paying attention, you're looking for evidence that approves all of that because that's what our mind will normally do is look for evidence that it is right, then what happens is you create that story inside of yourself using your language over and over and over again, and it continues to create the same experiences on autopilot. So now you might be asking yourself, okay, I get it, Aaron. My language controls my life. Well, what do I do about that? Here's what you do. You go beyond the current language you're using. Doesn't necessarily mean you come up with new fancy vocabulary words like onomatopoeia. Pretty big word there. Probably hard to spell, but it makes it no less more like you're going to create a better reality because of it. Maybe. I mean, as I'm sure it's possible, but in general what you want to do is think beyond. So for example, you believe that you're only able. To make $30,000 a year. You say, you know what, I want to make $100,000 a year. Well, your current language patterns inside your mind and speaking outwards reflect a reality that is $30K a year. If you want to go beyond that, you need to go beyond the $30K. You need to start talking, thinking, and feeling bigger than that. Use language patterns that talk more about creating a system of something that maybe makes you a different new source of income. Maybe you look at how to take your job from being just someone that's going on autopilot to somebody that's really performing and really at the top of the game. Maybe you look into getting a new field. Maybe now you start to see yourself as somebody that's doing what you're passionate about, and that includes a new job that's not equal to like your current language is equal to the job you have. You then look at a new job and you start to create the language within you of that. So this is about making the choice to go beyond, to go beyond that of the current language you're using. And the way you do that is you imagine the best possible version of you, how you'd be living, how you would— you'd be doing the language, you'd be using the beliefs you would have, and you start to take on that language, that inner dialogue. There's a version of you that it is natural for you to make $100K a year. How would that version of you be speaking? How would that version of you think about other people? How would that version of you show up at work? What kind of initiative would that person take? So then pay attention to the version of you and what your language patterns would be in that ideal reality. When I look at myself and the job that I used to have, I used to tell myself a story that I had to go to this job selling women's shoes that I'm not passionate about. I have to, which means I'm disempowered. Then I had this story of, well, I'm not full-time on YouTube and I'm trying to make it. I'm trying to make it. Your language is equal to the reality you're experiencing. In order to change that, I had to change my language. I no longer tried to make it on YouTube. I became a full-time YouTuber before I was a full-time YouTuber. I made daily videos on YouTube. Even though I had a 40-hour-a-week job and I told myself the story, I use this language of I can do it. I started to see myself, I changed my self-image. I saw myself as a full-time YouTuber and because of that I started to then experience a new reality. But you have to hold the frame of that new language as well. You have to hold the frame of the new reality of you being in that reality of you that is just a part of who you are. Even now as I'm have a certain level of success on YouTube to where it's like, you probably don't have to make a video every single day still, Aaron, but it's a part of who I am. Maybe that's the language I tell myself. Maybe that will serve me for a period of time, but maybe it goes on to something different in the future. But in general, the language we use is keeping us within the reality we are. And if we change our language, we change our life. Let go of words like try. Let go of words like should. Let go of words like have to, because these words all reinforce a reality you don't necessarily prefer. Trying, it's just not useful. I reached out to someone the other day. I needed to know how much— going to this place in Costa Rica, and I need to know how many people I've had booked. So that I can see how many more rooms are available so I don't invite too many people to go. And I reached out to the person, said, hey, how many more rooms are available? She says, I'll try to get you back those numbers later today. The moment she said she was going to try to do it later today, I knew she was going to forget about it. And here we are 2 days later and I just emailed her and said, okay, can you, can I get the update again? Because I knew anytime you try something, it means you don't, you're probably not going to do it. Let go of trying. Just do it. Don't try to make videos. Make videos. If your passion is making videos, don't try to paint. Paint. Don't try to do some sport. Do that sport. Let go of trying. Pay attention to your language because language implies resistance. If you have to do things, if you should do something else, those all are creating a reality of resistance. Instead, let go of it all. Pay attention to the language patterns you're using and then link up your language patterns with the reality you want. Make sure it's connected to your heart as well. Make sure it's connected to what you're passionate about. By doing that, you'll find that it becomes easier and easier for you to focus on those things. The reality is equal to the language you are using, your internal language and the language you speak to other people. It's all vibration. It's all a way for seeing the world. And if you let go of old definitions that don't serve you, maybe old words that aren't serving you, you'll start to experience an expansion in your life. But awareness is always the first step. Become aware of the language you're using, the words you're using, the stories you tell yourself. And as you do all of this, you start to take your power back in a very powerful way. Now, something else I'll be doing is more live Q&As on Instagram. If you haven't followed me on Instagram yet, you can follow me right here. I post twice a day there as well. And you can ask me questions in the live Q&As. Also, I have a meditation. I'll help you to raise your vibrational set point. It's one of the most powerful meditations I've created. If you listen to it for 21 days, I think it will change your life. It's in the top of the description box below. Other than that, I hope you enjoyed this video. Feel free to like this video if you liked it. Subscribe if you haven't already. It's a notification here so you can see the daily vids that I do. And other than that, as always, peace, much love, and namaste.