STOP CHASING A Guy & Do This Instead! (He Will CHASE YOU)

If you were to do exactly what I share with you in this video, it will completely reverse the energy dynamic where instead of repelling them, instead of them running away as a natural byproduct of chasing them, the energy will be magnetic to where then the energy comes towards you. And in this video, I'm gonna show you exactly what to do. Now, the first thing to realize is that if he is running, then that means someone is chasing. That's the energy dynamic to first off become aware of because people respond to us based on the energy we are putting out. So the energy of somebody running away is because someone is chasing. Someone chasing is having the energy that is very repelling. It's almost like people are playing according not necessarily to the games we play, but I used this analogy before, but if you imagine a dog and you start chasing a dog, the dog's gonna start running from you, it's gonna start playing with you normally. And what happens is that becomes like a game in a way, and that is the energy dynamic that's at play. Now realize that really attracting love and having magnetic energy, it's about feeling the energy inside of yourself of feeling whole, feeling complete, feeling magnetic, and really activating your own heart center. And when you activate your own heart center, your energy field literally goes out even further than it would if you were just remaining in your head. And that's why there's different elements of like your own energy that if you begin to harness will completely transform the way you show up in the world and how magnetic your energy is. Now, one of the things that happens though is when we are projecting energy out at somebody else, they feel that because we're thinking about them. Think about that. When we talk about chasing and if he's running, the energy you feel when you think about him is energy that is going towards him. So if the energy is, I wish he would do this, I wish he would come to me, I feel that lack inside my body, because there's an intention to control the dynamic and you're thinking of him, it's almost like thinking of him is the location the energy is going, wherever he is in the world. So you're feeling, I lack, I lack, I lack, I lack. You're sending him that lack energy and he's feeling that repelled energy. And the thing is, is it's not necessarily, I mean, from one perspective, you could look at that and be like, okay, well instead I'm gonna like soothe the way I think about him and I'm just only gonna think positive thoughts about him. But if there's an attachment to the control of like how this person is reacting, they're gonna feel that resistance because people don't like that energy. So what I recommend doing instead is instead of sending the location of them and sending them energy, pull your energy back, pull your energy back. That's one of the most powerful ways to retain your own magnetic energy. And this is something that energetically, 'cause we have in a way, we do, we have free will in this reality. And if we're projecting our energy at somebody else, it's like our energy's leaving us and we're feeling less potency. But if we pull our energy back, then what happens is we end up bringing it back to us to where then we can harness that energy ourselves. So one of the other dynamics of this though that I recommend that gets a little bit deeper on this is realizing that maybe we have a pattern from childhood of projecting our energy at somebody else and trying to create safety through sending energy, through controlling our environment. And when we pull our energy back, we're also in a way stopping a cycle because the cycle might be that I'm going to abandon myself to make others happy. I'm gonna abandon myself to make someone else happy and hopefully get their validation and approval so that I can feel safe. And what that really is is it's like an abandonment issue. It's feeling like the fear of being rejected. Sometimes, a lot of times, this kind of personality as well, like the people-pleasing personality, it has trouble being the most authentic self, even a polarizing self, because it wants to make everyone else happy. So one of the things to do is to bring the energy back to stop abandoning the self and to start being the most authentic version of you, because that is the most magnetic. Now, when we talk about the most magnetic version of you too, it's important to understand that the energy you're embodying is being emanated out. And if you wanna find a one-on-one reflection of somebody that would resonate with you at a deep level, it's important to understand how are you showing up in the world? And by that, I mean, are you doing what you love? Are you passionate about your life? Because if not, you will meet somebody else that is also not passionate about their life most likely, and tends to be a one-on-one reflection. So the key to this is to, instead of focus on chasing, The energy should be brought within and focused on the self. Have you ever noticed people that really, really want to attract love normally create a lot of resistance and they really, really want it, which means they really, really lack it? You hardly hear people like, yeah, I really, really, really wanted love and then I really, really was looking for it, then I really, really found it. How often do you hear that? Not that often. Because normally it's when people let go of the outcome and they're not even looking, they're just being, that then they're in the right spot at the right time. They're with their friends out and they meet somebody. They just so happen to run into somebody or they reconnect with someone. Like, this energy is something that happens when you are in a being state, when you're being present, because one of the most magnetic qualities about you is when you are present. When you're not trying to live in the future or the past, and you are embodying who you are because it's who you are, not because of what it'll get you. 'Cause sometimes people hear this and they're like, okay, what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna be this specific way, I'm gonna be present to the energy, I'm gonna meditate, and then I'm gonna go out and I'm gonna focus on attracting love. But it's more so about doing it for you, being that energy because it's who you choose to be. And being present to the moment. I know for myself, anytime I focus on something that I want, whether that's abundance or like growing on YouTube or whatever it is, if the intention is on the outcome, it has a very different energy than when I do it just because I love it, because I wanna enjoy the process. There's a difference in the energy that you can literally feel So one of the things I highly recommend is looking at what you're attached to and also becoming aware of why do you think you're attached to it? Why would you be chasing somebody else? What do you believe? This will help you. This might help you a lot right here, what I'm about to say. What you believe this person will bring you, the meaning you've given to this person that you're chasing, You believe that this meaning thing, you believe that the person is actually the thing that you're chasing, but really it's the meaning you're giving that person. You may be believing and give it a meaning that this person's gonna help you heal from, or subconsciously gonna heal from childhood, or it feels very familiar. This energy feels familiar to mom and dad growing up. So in a way, we're trying to heal the familiar patterns of childhood. We may believe that they are going to help, uh, subconsciously validate us. And that belief is what we're actually— that meaning is what is the most challenging thing to let go of. And that a lot of times is mixed though, because there's an end result. It's like, I must have this person as my husband or wife or whatever it is. And it's like this, this, all this pressure. And pressure creates resistance. So one of the most powerful things to do is to pull your energy back and to become aware if you're putting someone on a pedestal, because when you put someone on a pedestal, you create something called excess meaning, excess potential. And when it is natural for you to attract love, it's not on a big pedestal and it's also not down here. It's just natural for you. And when you're being yourself and you're in your heart center and you're activating that energy, it is extremely powerful. Now, when we talk about excess potential as well, this will also completely change the energy dynamic. When it comes to chasing and just being in your magnetic frame, magnetic frame of reality, your body, it also means being in your body. The question I have to ask you is, 'cause this for a long time I was doing the opposite of this, is are you the star of your own movie? Are you the star of your own movie? Because when we're chasing, we're then playing the cameo role. We're trying to get the attention of the star. And remember, if you treat someone like a celebrity, they're gonna treat you like a fan or they're gonna treat you like a cameo. Now, the thing I recommend you do is to pull your energy back and to recognize your star role. Now, this isn't like an ego thing, a narcissist thing where it's like, okay, I'm the center of the universe and I'm the director and I'm this and I'm that. It's more so being aware though that you are the star of your own movie. Narcissism is when you believe you're the star of everyone's movie. You're the star of your own movie. And normally what I found that really changed a lot for me when it comes to having magnetic energy is prior to me going through my transformation a year or two ago, I would value, so my sense of values, values are like virtues we live by. That make up our sense of identity. My virtues and my values were the ones given to me when I was younger. So I would value people's validation. I would value making other people happy. I would value these things over my own authenticity, over vulnerability. And what I eventually realized is that was like a shadow part of myself that was trying to get my needs met from childhood. And when I realized this, I then started to wire in values I chose, which is vulnerability, authenticity, being bold, not being attached to outcome. Like these are values that I then had a certain level of integrity. I had to live it. I had to exist in reality in that way because it's who I choose to be. That changed everything. And what we'll find is that if we're chasing somebody else, we might value validation, We might value certain things, what people think of us, over who we actually are. So when you start living to certain values too, it's very magnetic and attractive because it's almost like you're living according to your own set of rules in a way, versus being and tagging into other people's frame. So this really changes a lot when we talk about this energy. And when it comes to magnetic energy, when it comes to all of this, it's really about awareness of the energy and choosing to have magnetic energy because it's who you are. Now, with that being said, I'm gonna make sure this video goes out, I think on the Monday or Tuesday, but the reason being is that we have a 21-day confidence love challenge coming up. This is 21 days to a more confident you that has you more magnetic than ever for releasing codependent patterns, becoming aware of the attachment styles and letting those go and becoming more secure, becoming more emotionally available and stop attracting emotionally unavailable people. This is, I did a Magnetic Love Challenge a year ago. This is in a way some similar concepts, but it's a completely new challenge and the focus is confidence. So removing the fear, the anxiety, the judgment that we have around ourselves and in the insecurity so that we can be confidently who we came here to be to attract love easier than ever. So if you wanna join the Confidence Love Challenge, today is the best day to join 'cause I'm gonna have this go out when the 3 bonuses go away. So a day before the bonuses go away. So if you wanna join, go ahead and go to confidencelovechallenge.com or click the link in the description box below. And then also the next most powerful video to watch after this video is the 3 ways to become so irresistible that they never want to leave. Watch this video right here. This video, I'm going to show you the 3 easy ways to get it to where you have irresistible energy so that people don't leave you. Once we let go of the belief that we are replaceable, a lot of