Stop trying to find your people. Be yourself completely, even the parts you hide from fear of judgment, and you'll attract those who actually resonate with you. Polarity is good: some will like you, some won't, and that's how you know you're being real.
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you don't have to look for other people in order to attract them into your life. Like, you don't have to look for your high vibe tribe. You don't have to look for the ideal soulmate or the ideal connection. Instead of looking, focus on being, focused on embodying the most true authentic version of you. Give yourself permission to express who you really are, even the parts of yourself that you would sometimes hold yourself back because will people accept it? Will people approve of it? When you give yourself permission to be the real you, you then magnetize to you what is an equal reflection of that. So if you want to attract deeper connections in your life, you need to be the deeper aspect of you. Actually express what you think and feel in the moment, knowing that from that authenticity, you attract people that will resonate with that deeper aspect of you. That's a thing very often spiritual people have resistance to. Is they want to stay in this thin line of like being just in that gray area where there's not a lot of disapproval. Maybe there's not even a lot of, there's just a lot of this gray area where people don't really know exactly who you are, but that's a side effect of you not expressing who you really are and knowing who you are on the inside. So one thing I'd recommend is understanding that polarity is a good thing. Some people will like you, some people won't like you. It's all good.