Aaron Doughty shares a story from a Costa Rica retreat where a teacher felt repelled when the audience sent her energy, then felt magnetism when they pulled it back. Projecting desire toward someone feels intrusive to them. Keeping your energy to yourself makes you more magnetic.
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When we are sending and thinking of someone else, we're sending them energy. I went to this life transformation place in Costa Rica one time, and there was a consciousness teacher there, and she had everyone in the crowd send her energy at the front of the room. Said, everyone send me energy, everyone send me energy, everyone send me energy. And she said, as everyone was sending her energy, she felt repelled. She's like, you can feel it's intrusive and it repels you. She goes, now everyone in the crowd, bring the energy back in your body, bring the energy back in your body, bring the energy back in your body. And she says, the energy difference is now you guys are magnetic to me because there's a different energy there. Like, live events, sometimes I'll have people exercises where they focus on the separation and feel that energy difference, because you can feel it energetically when someone wants something from you. They're projecting at you and you're kind of like, sure, no, sure, energy doesn't lie. People can feel when you want something from them.