Aaron Doughty explains how wanting something from another person drains your energy and blocks what you're trying to attract. Instead, shift focus inward, feel the space between you and others, and stay rooted in your own body. You become magnetic when you stop chasing.
when you're thinking of someone else or when you want something from someone else, whether that's them to text you back or you want them to like you or whatever, it's like that energy is being projected at them, dissipating your own energy and literally blocking what you want. But when you instead bring the energy inside of your body, feel the separation or the space between you and them, you and other people, you and the walls even of the room that you're in, you start to feel safe inside of your own body. And when you're in your own body and you're present to the moment, you are the most magnetic version of you.
