Aaron Doughty explains how obsessively thinking about someone sends controlling energy that pushes them away. When you redirect that focus inward toward your own life, the repelling energy stops and they're more likely to reach out. He warns against using this as a trick to manipulate someone into responding.
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When someone is thinking of someone else, wanting that person to come around, wanting that person to text them back, they're projecting energy at them. And remember, when you project energy at people, it repels them away. It's control. What a lot of times happens, person wants this person to text them back, thinking about them, thinking about them, thinking about them, and then they don't text them back. And then what happens? Eventually, this person might begin to heal or they might begin funneling that energy back in themselves. They might putting that energy into their purpose. They might start hanging around with friends and family. Then what eventually happens? Right when they finally start letting go, this person texts them. Happens a lot because the strings of energy are no longer being projected at them and that at energy is repelling. Now, even as I tell you this right now, here's the trick. I show this to you and if any part of you is like, okay, Aaron, here's what I'm gonna do. I'm going to not project energy at them because then they're gonna give me what I want. That is still within the frame of manifesting with manipulation. And what I'm saying is you don't need to manifest it when you are in alignment with God or the universe. In the 21 Day Magnetic Love Challenge, we're gonna begin taking ownership of your energy so that you begin allowing in love. If you do wanna join that 21 Day Magnetic Love Challenge, go ahead and reply magnetic.