STOP using these 3 Words and love will Chase YOU

This video, I'm going to be sharing with you the 3 words that block love from chasing you. These 3 words are going to be words that as you take out of your vocabulary and as you switch around the energy inside of yourself and how you carry yourself, you're going to become more magnetic than ever and you will have love actually chasing you. So in this video, I'm going to show you exactly what those are and exactly what to do. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now on this video, I'm gonna be sharing with you those 3 words that kill attraction and that also cause you to feel like you're chasing other people. Now let me put your, let me put your attention on something here. Now I used to have this guy that I used to, this my friend, actually he used to be my old roommate back when I used to work at Barney's and women's shoes. And I was sitting there at work one day with one of my coworkers, her name is Tanya, she was awesome. And we were talking about one of our friends that was, we realized was always chasing love. There was this girl that he liked on the third floor that worked in like men's clothes and he liked her and he was like chasing her. And one thing that Tanya said to me really stood out to me. She said, do you realize that anytime he's chasing someone, It's like that other person is running. It's implying that that other person is running. So it's almost like when we are using different words, when we're using these three words that I'm about to share with you, it is causing the energy dynamic to be there to where that person is then someone you are chasing because the energy dynamic is flipped. And a lot of this also has to do with how are you showing up in the world? When I started to become the star of my own movie and I started to treat myself as like somebody that has value already and somebody that's just going out there having fun and being the star of their own movie, that changed the whole entire energy dynamic around. That had it to where then I wasn't trying to be the cameo in someone else's movie. It changes everything. So realize that when it comes to attracting love, there is no quick little fix, little technique that's gonna make all the difference. It's an energy change that's going to make the difference. The more you are in alignment, the more magnetic your energy will be. I'll tell you that right now as well. Now, the first word, that you must stop using in order for love to chase you is the word want. Anytime you want, you ever notice that when people want love, they want to attract something, that they go out into the world and it's just a lot of times their energy isn't magnetic. If you think about like a guy that goes to a club that wants to talk to a woman, that wants to do different, like, you know, have them like him, he's putting out a needy energy and neediness is one of the most unattractive things. If you want to guarantee that you are chasing someone else, then feel very needy. If you wanna guarantee that you kill attraction in your love, you know, attraction process or whatever, then what you should do is you should be very needy to the other person. Immediately that will kill their attraction. What is the opposite of neediness? It is when your cup, it is when your cup, look at this cup right here. You guys see that cup? Look how full it is. That's almost a full cup. That's like 99% full because the cup's already full. So because that cup is full, when the person goes out there, he's not like, hey, can you fill up my cup? Can you fill up my cup? I would like some validation. Can you please fill it up? But realize this, anytime you want something, it means you lack it. It means you don't have it. And people wanna be around abundance. So if you are validating yourself, if you are the star of your own movie, if you are having fun, if you are in alignment with the how you prefer to be, if you're being authentic, then guess what? That's attractive energy that will then chase you. So that's one of the main things that I encourage you to do is to get in alignment with your purpose, to get in alignment with who you are. You know, there's something attractive about people that don't do what necessarily they're like expected to do with like social conditioning, the 9 to 5 job. There's somebody that's going after their purpose, that's going after their mission. That will all automatically set you apart from most people. And that it creates a very magnetic energy. So when you think about, realize also with attraction, it's all about energy. It's like 99.9%, yes, attraction is part of it. Look at this painting I got, by the way. You guys like that? That's a, you can't really see it. Let me show you. Look at that. It's still kind of hard to see with the lighting. It's Alex Grey painting that I got. I just was looking at it. I was like, oh yeah. So when it comes to, realize that when it comes to attraction, It's all about energy. I've seen some guys that you would be like, oh, that guy, like there's no way that guy dates like a model or supermodel or whatever. And you know, looks are just superficial anyways, but like it's all energy. Energy is what is attractive. So if you change your energy, that's when you become more attractive and then it can chase you. But these words that I'm talking about are like energies that will repel. And you'll notice that there's a lot of people that when they stop looking for love, they find love. Why, why did that happen? Because when they stopped wanting it, they then allowed it into their life. 'Cause want means lack. Want means I don't have it and I would like it. But if you like become okay with being single, if you become okay with being around your friends and having a good time and going after your purpose and having fun, then guess what? You will have more magnetic energy. Many people that have been trying to attract love that I've talked to, that I told them to let go of the trying, to let go of wanting it, then end up in relationships shortly afterwards. I know people that make the rule that once they make the rule, I am not going to attract love into my life, I'm gonna focus on my own business or focus on myself, it happens within weeks because they let go of the wanting and wanting implies lacking. So one word that you can let go of that is blocking love from chasing you is realizing that the more you want, the more you lack. Now, the second one I'd say is the most, is probably the biggest game changer for me. So you'll see right here, 2, importance. I mean, it's a word, it's a phrase, it's an idea, importance. Anything you make important, you put on a pedestal. Imagine this right here. You've got somebody down here, somebody said, oh, you are so amazing. I would love to be around you. If you would validate me, I would feel great. And you're just this perfect person and I put you, I have this halo effect around you. Well, guess what happens? They can feel that energy and they're then looking down at you and then that's not attractive to them. They wanna be with someone that they're on the same level with. They want you to treat them like a person, like that importance creates resistance. Anything you make important, you create resistance around. You know, I'm not trying to brag by saying this, but so I recently moved to, I have a place in Sedona that I go to and I'm here between here at Vegas and Sedona about half the time. And in Sedona, because it's like a spiritual hub and there's so many spiritual people there, I meet like people that know me from YouTube like almost sometimes every day I go out to the grocery store, I'll go out to nature and I'll meet people that recognize me from YouTube. Now here's the difference that I understand in energy. When somebody is like, oh my gosh, I just met Aaron Doughty, oh my gosh, that is so cool, it's an energy of resistance. I'm not making fun of anybody by the way, 'cause I love meeting anybody that I meet, but it's most pleasant when it's almost like, it's just natural for that person. Like, it's just, it's just, I'm not put on a pedestal anyway. When someone's put on a pedestal, they feel that and it creates resistance. It's like, oh, you know, but what I find I enjoy more is when I just talk to someone and it's like fun, I give them a hug and that's cool. So I'm not like saying if you ever see me, like, don't talk to me. But the thing to work on would be like not putting, if you put someone on a pedestal, they can feel it and it almost resists and causes like a, a resistant energy, and I can know that firsthand now because of those kinds of experiences. So I love you all, just so you know, but I can— that is something I wanted to show as an example is imagine you're trying to date someone and you're putting them on a pedestal and treating them a certain way. Then what that does is that creates resistance. Anything you make important, you create resistance around and you block it from coming into your life. So what is the opposite of importance? Here's what you do instead. You see it as natural for you to meet certain people in your life. You see it as natural for people to see you as attractive because you know that your cup is full and that you are an attractive person and that you're in alignment and that you're gonna attract everything you need at the right time. So a lot of what this is is about you realizing your own worth, you being on your own purpose, you being on your own mission and understanding that if you want it, you lack it. If you're making it important, it's not natural for you. It's like saying that your self-image, you know, realize your self-image is what is called a cybernetic mechanism. This right here is set to 72 degrees. It's a thermostat. If I were to push it up to 74 degrees or whatever I put it to, that's gonna set there. And what happens is if the door opens and the AC turns on, the AC will turn on to mitigate it back to that temperature. Now the way that works is just like our self-image is also a cybernetic mechanism. So if you see yourself as not worthy of talking to certain people, then you'll in a way sabotage yourself because it's not natural for you. You'll put them on a pedestal. So one of the best things I can recommend that you do is you take people off a pedestal and you realize that you're good either way. You're just as worthy. You're here to have a good time. You're here to have fun. You're here to connect. And as you have that perspective, you take them off a pedestal. It's not important because you're good either way. That's the frame. Importance means if you make something important, you're saying this has to work out a certain way. You're also trying to control. If you let go of control, you'll find it's even more powerful. Now, the third word that people use that blocks attraction and also stops people from chasing them. And also realize chasing is a form of manipulation. If you want someone to chase you, it's like, it's like, it's like you're trying to make someone chase you. You're trying to make, it's manipulation in a way. And what I recommend you do is, is you realize you're good already and you're just having fun. It's a different frame of reality. It's a more healthy frame though. But in general, I just kind of wanted to point that out as well. Now, the third one is when. When will this person come into my life? I'm waiting. Well, realize the more you wait, the more you are creating more waiting. Like, think about it. If you're in lack, you're attracting more lack. You're perceiving of more lack. Your reality is equal to more lack. If you're waiting, then you are in the vibration of waiting. You will create more waiting. You're waiting, you're waiting, you're waiting. What are you waiting for? You're waiting for something that's not here to become here. And because it's in that state, then it takes time. The key is being present to the moment and not trying to escape it, not trying to say that the moment in the future is gonna feel better. When you're waiting, you're like, think about it, you're giving yourself this rule that says, once I attract this person to my life, then I'll feel love. And you're robbing yourself of the love that already is just inside of you. Now, the funny thing is, if you would feel that love already now, then you would attract love easier than ever. But because the love is being prolonged, that's why it appears to be taking later. So one of the best things you can possibly do is listen to something that'll get you into your heart, that'll have you feel that feeling of validation, of love, and then you are more likely to attract it. I have a meditation that's on attracting love. It's my most popular meditation. It has almost 3 million views, and there are so many people that claim they attracted love from listening to that meditation for 21 days. You can click the link below to see what is possible and to see what people said. It also increases the belief as you read their comments of what can happen for you. So read those comments, commit to that meditation for 21 days. You will then embody more love than ever before and love will chase you. With that being said, I'll talk to you later. Peace.