Stop Wanting And Needing and instead do this...

This video, I'm gonna show you how to stop wanting, how to stop needing, and exactly what to do instead. And I'm gonna show you how to have the things you want want you. Welcome back to another video. My name's Aaron, and I help people expand their consciousness. Now, in this video, I'm gonna be sharing with you how to go beyond wanting, how to go beyond needing, how when you say, "I really, really want something," you are actually saying, I really, really don't currently have it. And I'm gonna show you exactly what to do instead because the key to this changes everything. And for me to explain this, let me first off say that back in the day, you read old school books like Think and Grow Rich, have a white-hot burning desire, you must really, really, really want it. Well, the thing is, is when you really, really want something, sometimes it can really, really make you really, really take action. It can move you up this ladder to where you go from the wanting of this energy you're putting out to then you taking action and dissipating that wanting and then moving into a different state. However, the key is not in the wanting. The key is not in the wanting unless if it moves you to take action, moves you and gives yourself permission to move from one state to another, then it can be powerful. But what I'm saying in this video, I'm gonna share with you, there's a powerful process There's a process even more power, a lot of Ps. There's a process even more powerful than that. And that comes from a higher level of consciousness that when you begin to raise your level of consciousness, you see that these things happen easy. Reality is meant to be magical. Reality is just a reflection of our internal state of being. When you look out right now, everything around you is a reflection of what you believe you deserve, okay? You might see, a certain type of relationship you're in, maybe somebody talks down to you. If that's the case, then it means at a certain level, you may believe that's what you deserve. And what you can do is realize that you maybe don't, you have a bigger boundary and you don't allow that to happen. But you see, everything around you is a reflection. That's all the outer reality is. Now, this is the key. Most people, They are chasing things, which implies those things are running. If you want something, you are putting out a vibration. Like, think of these as separate vibrations. The vibration of wanting something. I really, really want it. I really, really hope it happens, and that would be so cool. What does that vibrationally mean? I don't currently got it. I don't got it, and I want it.

I want it.

I got it. Okay, but now let's move it over here. The vibration of having it, the vibration of having it. I naturally have what I want. I naturally am able to create what I want and it's like, this is what it's like and it feels like this and I'm happy and this is how I feel. This is how natural it is. This vibration to I want it, I got it. Totally different vibration. Well, I mean that would be like I want it, I got it, but that's a song. Anyways, this idea. Is about understanding these are two different vibrations. The vibration of wanting something, the vibration of having it are different. So what is the key to this process, to uniting with this? Well, the key to this, more powerful than really wanting something, needing something, or chasing something, is mentally uniting with that thing that you want in your life. You must mentally unite for it. Unite. Think of it like this. Let me use an example. So, and first off, an analogy. Reality is simply a reflection. So if you want something, you must mentally unite with it. And the way you first mentally unite with something is you unite with it on the inside. You unite with it internally. This is actually what I did to be in this house. So here's the thing. This house I'm in right now, it's pretty cool. I really like it. It's a one-story house here in Las Vegas, which is where I was born and raised. And the cool thing, what I love about it is certain little characteristics of it. Now let me share with you a little story because there was a time when I really, really wanted this house and I really, really even told myself I need this house, but I wouldn't be in this house right now if I didn't make this switch that I'm gonna share with you. So originally what happened was, it's back in August 2018, I'm actually gonna move out of this house in the next like 3 weeks to a month because I'm gonna be traveling the world. So I'm kind of sad, but at the same time I'm happy 'cause I'm traveling the world. But this is what happened. August 2018, I'm like, yo, I gotta get my own place. I was living in a roommate, so I was like, I gotta get my own place. I got me my own camera set up and leave it up. Don't gotta worry about nobody taking my camera stuff and all that. So what I said is I said, okay. So I go look at a couple houses, I guess. I mean, I don't know how I, I forget how I got some real estate person, but anyways, they were showing me some houses. They showed me one house, like, eh, I don't like the paint, I don't like the vibe, the lighting's not good. I saw another house, eh. Saw another house that was close to one of my buddies. I was like, cool, but the house wasn't that nice. And by the 4th or 5th house, I saw this house. Okay, I'll walk into this house. First off, it's in a location that I like. It's actually kind of close to where the high school I went to and stuff. And so I'm very familiar with the area. Now, what happened was I come into this house, it's a gated neighborhood, which I like too. I come into this house and it's this big open house. Like it's an actual, just very open floor plan. And I come in and it's got a really good vibe, a really vast vibe. The way that they had the furniture set up was really nice, really kind of similar to the way I would have it. There's, uh, the— in Vegas, this is very rare. In Vegas, we don't got much grass in the backyards. Most of the backyards in Vegas are just dirt. That's it. So how are you supposed to ground yourself in dirt? Well, you could do it, but it's really hard dirt. So the backyard here got grass over there. I got grass over there. I got grass in the front yard. There's a lot of grass here. I have to have someone mow the grass, but I'd rather have the grass. So I'm like, whoa, this is really cool. I have a pool right here. I've used it a couple of times. It's pretty cool. I have a peach tree and then I have a lemon tree right behind or in the corner over there. There's just certain parts of this house. I was like, whoa, this is the perfect house. Houses were going very quick. However, there's the guy, there's, he's cleaning that yard, right? Or he's, the grass is getting a little long. So he's gonna trim that. But anyways, I find out there's 5 other, or there's 3 or 4 other people that have put, I was one of like 4 or 5 people that had applications in on this house. So there I am like, what are my chances? Like 1 in 5. So I was realizing I really, really want this house. I don't even want it, I need this house. That was the perception I had. But then I had this realization. I said, I like, like this part of me was like, Aaron, I was like talking to myself. I was like, Aaron, you are not gonna get this house if you are that desperately needy and chasing it and wanting it that much, like that you're putting out that energy. 'Cause it was a desperate energy. I was like, I really want this house. I really need this house. It's close to the airport. I knew I'd be doing a lot of traveling, which I have done a lot of traveling this last year. So this is what happened. I said, okay, I gotta mentally internally unite with this house. So what I did is when I would go to bed at night, I would relax and I would understand that what I could do is visualize it being natural for me to live here. There's other aspects to this too I'll talk about, but the vibration of wanting, the vibration of having, I was in mentally the vibrational of having this house, of being in it, of knowing that I could make amazing videos that would help people in here, of knowing that I could have this, you know, I have, there's just many different aspects of this house that I knew I would enjoy. And I imagined myself enjoying it and how natural that felt and how, you know, like a lot of times when people really want something or need something, they put it on a vibrational pedestal. I saw it as natural for me. I started to visualize myself here and every night I go to bed up until I found out that I got the house, which took about a week. So it was a week of me like doing this and I was feeling into it. I knew it was natural. I imagined, this is gonna sound kind of weird. Try this with your manifestations. I imagined that the house wanted me here, that almost like the house had some sort of consciousness or something. It was like, Aaron, I want you here 'cause you're gonna hug the trees every night. There are 3 trees in the backyard. It's gonna sound kind of weird. I hug them every night, okay? I just touch them and I'm like, I love you. And then I go to bed, okay? I don't know why I do that. I just like to ground myself. I walk barefoot in the grass every single night before I go to bed. It's the way I ground myself 'cause I have a lot of energy. and that's what I do. But I imagined that the house actually wanted me to, you know, everything, I believe everything has a certain energy and you could be incompatible with it. And by having that mentality, you can then see that maybe things want you. You know, everyone's focused on, I wanna attract that person into my life. But what if instead you imagine that that person also wanted you because of the value you provided, because of the, the person you are, how funny you are. You see, it's a different energy dynamic. So the key to everything I'm sharing here, stop wanting, stop needing, stop chasing, stop implying that you need to be in the vibration of, I want it, I got it. But you really want it and you really got it. It's a different, see what she means, what Ariana Grande means in that song when she says, I want it, I got it. And she's like, I did want it, but then I moved into the vibration of having it. And since I got so much money, boom, got it. Okay.

So she didn't say, I want it, I want it, I want it, I want it. I desperately really want it. If I really had it, I'd be really happy, but I really want it. I really want it.

No, she moved into the vibration of I got it, I got it. So she went from I want it to I got it pretty freaking quick. Okay. Same thing for you. Instead of, I want it, I want it, I want it, you move into, I got it. Okay. It's in that vibration. I got it. I mentally unite with it. My story on the inside is showing the story on the outside. And my story is I already got it. See that when I did that with this house, there was no question in my mind. I got this house. There's 4 other people, 3 other people that have applied for this house.

I got it. But if I was like, I want it, I want it, I want it, I want it, I want it, I would not already have it.

You see what I mean? Hope I'm getting the point. You know, the thing about it too, it's like, I really, really, really want you in my life right now. If you're like trying to attract a relationship or something. But imagine instead what you do is you realize that you can move into this vibration of just being, have this be natural. I saw it as natural for me to live in this house. You know, so the key to everything I'm sharing with you right now is link up your self-image. And here's another key, change the story you tell yourself, the story you tell yourself. If you have a story that says, well, anytime I've tried to do something in the past where I'm trying to, you know, compete with other people, like put in an application, I want them to choose me. Anytime I've done something like that in the past, school project, I wanted to win some competition, I never won. That's my story, I never really won. And then we carry that story into the present moment and we say, well, I probably won't win that 'cause I didn't win that back in 8th grade. You see what I mean? Well, those are different. That's a story that we're telling ourselves on the inside that may eventually, well, that may have a certain reflection on the outside as well. So the key to what I'm sharing here is to move from that of the story on the inside. Make sure the story on the inside, you are mentally aligning and vibrationally aligning with the reality of you having and being in that vibration of what you want. So for me, I realized that part of my story is I don't need the ego to do everything. I have certain intentions, I have certain visions, but then what I do is I allow things to come to me. That's a story, maybe it's a story I tell myself, maybe that's the way it works, I don't know. But I know that, so what I did with this whole house when I wanted it, and I really, really wanted it, what I did is I vibrationally moved into mentally viewing it and picturing it as if I was already living there and then imagine the house wanted me to live here. The other thing I did is I knew that the owners here that lived here before, they wanted pictures of the current house I was living in to see if I was a clean person. So I knew that they valued that. It's a very rare thing to say, hey, we want each of the applicants to send pictures of their current house that they're living in, what it looks like. And luckily I was living in a model house. I was living with some friends at the time, but the house that I was living in had, it was like a model, it came with the furniture. They bought the house, my friends, and they bought it with the furniture in it. And it was like really beautifully set up. So I just took pictures of this perfect house. But then what I did is I sent them a letter that said, listen, I work from home, I travel a lot, and I don't party like crazy or anything like that. I really appreciate your house and think that I would love to live there and I would love to take care of it and I would really value it and you'd have nothing to worry about. And I knew that they also didn't want pets, that they would allow like one really small dog, but I could tell they're kind of reluctant on that because they had all these stipulations with it. So I have no pets whatsoever, I got no kids, the house could be in great shape. So I tapped into something that's called outer intention, but it also was tapping into their intention as well. And then because I was appealing to that aspect of themselves, they said yes, you see? So I wrote them a little letter that said, hey, blah, blah, blah, blah, and I tapped into that. But in general, I wasn't needy in that letter. I was like, I really, really need this, I really, really want this, blah, blah, blah. It was more so just explaining how I felt so that they knew that I would take pride in what I, living here, which I have. And they really liked me as a tenant, I'll tell you that. And this is about being aware of that. So the reason I'm sharing all this with you is so that you can start to mentally unite your own story of seeing things as natural for you. Have it a part of your self-image. What is your self-image? And how do you see yourself? And is it natural for you to accomplish what you want. You see, because if you put your goals of what you want, what you need, what you chase on a pedestal, they are vibrationally separated from you and you can't actually experience it. The key is knowing it's a part of your— it's a part of who I am to live in a house where there's grass in the backyard, where I have an open floor plan, where I create videos every single day. That's natural for me. Same thing when I started going daily on YouTube. It was hard at first 'cause I was changing my self-image, but I tell people, Even more powerfully than me making daily videos and having the YouTube algorithm go crazy and all that stuff to grow, it changed my identity for seeing myself as I used to see myself as somebody that was lazy to seeing myself as somebody that's passionate, that loves what I do and it's easy for me to take action. It changed my self-image. So this is the key. It's mentally uniting with what you want, but visualization, visualization is one of the most powerful ideas behind this that I think can change your life. And decreasing importance is another extraordinarily powerful thing. If there's someone you like, you're like, "I really, really like you," and it's put on a pedestal, it's immediately separated from you. But if you see it as natural for you to talk to that person, as natural for them to like you too, because you realize that you add value, you're funny, whatever it is, then it's more of an energetic thing. So instead of, "I want it," I want it, I want it, I want it, move to I got it, I got it, I got it, 'cause it's who I am, it's natural for me. And by doing that, you'll find that then things in your life begin to shift in a very powerful way. Now, something else I have as well is I have that of a meditation below on Reality Transurfing that will show you how to decrease importance. Some people have told me it's one of the most powerful meditations I've made. Actually, my assistant, who is pretty cool, his name's Austin, he says that his favorite meditation out of all that I made, he's listened to a lot of them, is this one called Decrease Importance because in it, you walk around your dream house and you see it as natural for you. It's a metaphor, but it's in the top description box below. Listen for 21 days, I think it'll change your life. The lawnmower's about to get very loud, so what I'm gonna do is ask you one more thing, one more thing. I really, really want, I would really, really like you to please smash the like button, please. Oh my God, it'd make me feel so good if you would just smash the like button. Or could you just smash that like button 'cause I appreciate you? See the difference in energy vibration? Smash that like button, por favor. Different energy, right? Right? Anyways, other than that, as always, peace, much love, and namaste.