take your 2021 goals OFF a pedestal by doing this one thing

Whatever your goals are for 2021, if you put them on a pedestal, what you're doing is you're literally creating resistance. It's because it's something that you want, and what that is vibrationally doing is it's saying that what you want is not natural for you to experience in life. And in this video, I'm going to share with you the missing key to this whole process. This is the missing key for me that took me from working a 9-to-5 job that I didn't like to doing what I love. It was using this principle that I'm gonna be sharing with you in this video here in a minute. And it's going to also really illustrate for you the difference in the two different realities. 'Cause think of it, there's a vibration of wanting something and a vibration of having something. Now imagine, I used to imagine the version of me, or I used to be the version of me that worked a 9 to 5 job I didn't like, that wanted to be full-time on YouTube, that wanted to get out of that 9 to 5 job. And I wanted and I wanted, well, understand this, wanting that, that reality is a different reality than me naturally, easily, or not even easily, but just me being in the reality where I'm going full time. Anything we want, we lack. And in this video, I'm going to show you the key to moving out of the vibration of wanting into the vibration of having, or even more powerful, being. That's what we're going to talk about. Now that it is 2021, for me it feels like a very powerful year and I can tell that for many people it's going to be a year of alignment. I want to use an analogy real quick. Now imagine that what happens— let me see. Oh, my car's unlocked. So imagine that what you do is you get a new car and imagine that this new car that you get You're like, wow, this is an amazing new car. I hope that nobody scratches my car. And imagine that putting your car on a pedestal and, and thinking it's really, really important that people don't scratch your car. It's really, really important that people respect your car. Having that energy that you're putting out is an energy of resistance. So the resistant energy would then attract you to when you go out. There's more likelihood that because it's on a pedestal and there's resistance, something happens. Maybe it gets scratched. Maybe you're at the wrong place at the wrong time. Maybe something happens in traffic. It's an energy dynamic thing that I wanted to share with you because this is something I've noticed. Anything I've ever put on a pedestal, even if it's like, let's say I start dating someone and I start really liking them. And as I start liking them, what happens is then I put them on a pedestal. Or somebody puts someone on a pedestal from the beginning. And what they do is they overlay this story that then what happens is it creates resistance. It's like, oh, I hope this date goes really well. And then you go out and then it's like they can feel that resistance. So the key to what I'm sharing with you today is understanding that anything you put on a pedestal, you will create resistance around. And the key to this is understanding that once you know that that's what you're doing, It makes it so much easier. You know, for a long time as well, I had the goal that I wanted to hit the— get the gold play button on YouTube. And I remember every night going to bed, I would dream about it. I would think about it and it was super important. And then what happened is I gave up. Not giving up on the goal. I was just good either way. I didn't give up. It's not like I didn't care. It wasn't apathy. But I was like, you know, I'm good either way. This is just some like ego marker that makes me feel worthy and significant. And I was like, you know what? I'm good either way. And once I had that energy of I'm good either way, guess what happened? More and more abundance came. Want to know why? The vibration of really wanting something and the vibration of having something are totally different. When I relaxed my wanting, that— when I relaxed my wanting, I was then able to just go into the vibration of having it. So the reason I wanted to share this is, um, is understanding that this is the missing key for so many people. Now let me Get out early in the morning, you know, just yelling inside of my car. So the main thing around this in 2021 as well, I think, is that in the year 2021, this is a year of ultra alignment. You guys ever seen this painting? This, by the way, this right here, there's all these like interesting things on it. Lightworkers, starseeds, Secret Space Program, Return to Source. There's all these, you can kind of see, but that's, I'm getting ready. I'm actually, 2021 for me is gonna be a huge year of transition. And one thing that I'm doing is I'm actually moving into a house in Sedona here pretty soon. And yeah, I'm gonna be, what I've realized though about this year is it's really important to get in alignment, in alignment with your purpose, in alignment with your mission, and in alignment with how you're showing up in the world. It is more important than ever because the energy here is higher and anything that is out of alignment, it's gonna make you very aware of. That's what I've realized. I have old things falling out of my life right now and sometimes that can seem scary. It's like, oh, this thing got me comfort for so long, but as you let go, you then allow more magic into your life. So it's very interesting. So even me letting go of being in Vegas, you know, that's like an example of it. So in general, here's the biggest shift that I wanna share with you as well. So take your 2021 goals off a pedestal Don't focus on just the goal of getting it because if you want it, you lack it. The key is letting go of the wanting by having the energy of I'm good either way. Literally, that's the power. I'm good either way. If you're good either way, you're not attached to outcome. If you have your goals on a pedestal, you're most likely very attached to outcome. So the key to this is releasing the outcome and trusting the universe. I know it sounds cliché, But the more you let go, the more you allow in. I promise you that. The more you let go. A lot of times when it comes to attracting love, the one thing that people don't wanna do is they don't wanna let go. They don't wanna let go of the past. They don't wanna let go of the goal itself. They don't wanna let go of the outcome because they are afraid that if they do, they won't get that which they want. It's the exact opposite. When you let go, You are letting go of resistance. You're letting go of attachment. You then allow yourself, one, to become much more magnetic. When you are not attached, you are much more magnetic. You're much more yourself too. And then in that abundant energy, more and more things come to you. So letting go, the one thing you don't wanna do, 'cause you're afraid if you do let go, you won't get it, that's just a scarcity mindset. That is assuming that there is scarcity in reality. There's an abundance, but you have to put yourself into an abundant state state of having it. And if you're good, if there's many, think about when you're saying I'm good either way and there's an abundance out there in the world, guess what? You're good either way. You're good whether somebody chooses you or not. You're good whether somebody says yes to you on a date or not. You're good with whatever and you have more magnetic energy 'cause you don't, you're good either way. It's not that you don't give a shit, you kind of don't, but you're good either way. So if love is your goal in 2021, I'd say to take, take that off of the goal. See it as natural. Link up your identity. This is the key to this whole video, really. Let me kind of share that with you now. So importance equals resistance. If you put something on a pedestal, what you're saying is you're saying that it is unnatural for your current identity to be experiencing that reality. If you say, I want love and it's on a pedestal, you're saying it's implying that you're not love already, that you're not worthy of love already, and because you You want it, you crave it. The vibration of wanting is the vibration of lacking. Now, many times wanting will get people to take action, and when people start taking action, they start to change their self-identity and that becomes powerful, but it's not the actual wanting itself that causes the transformation. It is the action that is sprung forth from the wanting. So here is the biggest thing I want to share with you in this video that I think will completely change your life. and it's this right here, different versions of you. Imagine the version of you that has and is being the ideal version of you. Imagine how that version of you thinks, feels, and acts. Now that version of you that has the daily habits, that has the body language of that version of you that you prefer to be, is a completely separate vibrational reality than the one that wants this reality. They're two different realities. When you see them as two different realities, it makes it easier for you to acknowledge the differences between how you are currently being, because right now your reality is equal to how you are thinking, feeling, and acting. And it makes you more aware of how you can make a choice to be this version of you. Now there's a huge part I'm gonna share with you in a sec that is also the game changer. So the difference is realize what is your current self-image. I used to see myself as a 9-to-5 job goer working a job I hated, venting to my coworkers, and that was my reality. The biggest shift for me is I realized that my story was holding me back. My story about how hard it was to be on YouTube, about caring what other people thought, about the action that was gonna be involved. There was a story that was holding me back. Now what I had to do is I had to let go of that story. I had to let go of the painful past that I experienced. I had to let go of that energy that was keeping me stuck in the reality I was in. Then the key was for me to see it as natural and for me to wire in with daily action this version of me. Now here is the key. Here's the biggest change for it. There's two realizations. The first one is you are new every moment. Every moment's a new moment. At any moment, you can make a choice about who you are and you could shift your reality. The problem is that once sometimes people shift, they have so much momentum of their past memories, they go, well, I haven't changed. I had 20 years of being this way. This is the reason in 2021, some people may say, I wanna quit smoking cigarettes. You wanna know why it's hard for someone to quit smoking cigarettes in 2021 if that's their goal? Because they have an identity of I'm a smoker and I'm trying to quit smoking. The identity is keeping that reality locked in place And one of the strongest human desires there is is to remain consistent to the way we see ourselves and define ourselves. If we define ourselves as a smoker and we're trying to quit smoking, we're doing something that is not natural for our identity. So what's the key? Is drop the identity of being a smoker by realizing you're new every moment. You're new every moment. You are not a smoker and you never were. See, this is a deeper reality, a different way of looking at it, but every moment's a new moment. And as you change in the present moment, you are also changing the parts of your past you connect to. Neuroscience shows this. Every time you take a memory out of the bank, out of the memory bank, you're looking at a memory, you change it and you put it back. By the time you've done it 1,000 times, it's a different memory anyways. So the biggest thing you could do is to change your identity by realizing you're new every moment. And make a new choice about who you are. Now, this is what I did with making daily videos on YouTube. And what I did, and this is a game changer, wire in daily. I made daily videos on YouTube, changed my life more than anything, 'cause then I was being in my passion frequency, I was doing what I love. Also, I learned meditation. When I learned how to observe my thoughts and not react and not try to control my thoughts, my life changed. I did meditation daily. What you do in a daily 24-hour period compounds every day, and with time that becomes your vibrational reality. So by making daily videos on YouTube, I was literally becoming the version of me that was a full-time YouTuber. But here's the— here's that big key I keep talking about. You're doing it because it's an end of itself. I was not making daily videos so that I could get out of my 9-to-5 job and become a YouTuber. I was making daily videos because it was a natural part of my identity. That's the key. So the key to this is realizing that when you are being the true identity of the way you prefer to be, when you are being it, it's because it's who you are, not about what it'll get you. If you're an artist, you are creating art because you're an artist, not because if you make enough pieces of art, you can get out of your 9-to-5 job. That's when it's the most powerful. You know, I see sometimes people get on YouTube and they say, I'm gonna get on YouTube so that I can have lots of subscribers. Doesn't work like that. You have to get on YouTube because there's something you're passionate about. When you're in that passion frequency, you then get— people feel what you feel. And then what happens is people follow if they resonate with it. So it's a different mentality. But the biggest thing I can share with you is that what you are vibrationally saying, if you're putting your goals on a pedestal, you're putting love on a pedestal, you're putting a person on a pedestal, is that if you put them on a pedestal, you're creating resistance. And if you're creating importance, importance equals resistance, and then you're blocking or aligning with realities that you don't prefer. You're saying it's unnatural for you. The key is to make a new choice about who you are, commit to that choice daily, and do it because it's an end of itself. And I promise you, don't focus on trying to manifest this or that or the goal, focus on the person you are being. That's the key. And it's gonna seem a little bit fearful to let go of the old version of you, but realize, You gotta let go of the old to allow in the new. If you do this step process every single day, you wire in the new version of you. You know you're good either way. You make it an end of itself and you see it as natural. I promise you, your life will change in ways you can't even imagine. Now, there is something that I have. It's a meditation that's very powerful for 2021. It's for raising your vibration permanently. You will see it. Link below. You can click in the top description box, listen to this meditation for 21 days, watch how it changes your life. Other than that, can you subscribe if you haven't already? I got a lot more cool videos coming, excited to share with you, showing you the energy dynamics of all of these things. And as always, I'll talk to you on the next one. Peace, much love, namaste.