The 3 Vibrational Levels of Attracting Love EXPLAINED

In this self‑help video Aaron Doughty presents a three‑tier model of consciousness that he claims determines how easily a person can attract a romantic relationship. He frames the model as vibrational energy levels: Lower Vibrational Energy (LVE) – emotions such as shame, fear, guilt, anger and a fixed‑mindset of blame; Middle Vibrational Energy (MVE) – a neutral to rational state where beliefs are recognized as mental constructs that shape reality; and Higher Vibrational Energy (HVE) – love, surrender, and a heart‑centered state of unconditional bliss. For each level he describes typical thoughts and feelings, explains why people get “stuck,” and offers a concrete “doorway” to the next level: (1) observing and completing past emotional patterns (with a linked meditation), (2) becoming aware of limiting beliefs, questioning them, and reshaping self‑image, and (3) letting go of all intellectual constructs, surrendering to a higher self, and cultivating daily heart‑centered awareness (including a reference to HeartMath research). The video ends with calls to action for Instagram Q&A, subscription, and daily videos. The overall purpose is to guide viewers to raise their vibrational frequency so that they can more effortlessly attract a loving partnership.
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This video, I'm going to be sharing with you the 3 levels of consciousness when it comes to attracting a relationship, how you can move up these levels and also move up in vibration so that you attract it easier than ever. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now this video I'm going to be sharing with you that of moving up these 3 different layers when it comes to manifesting a relationship, understanding the energy dynamics that are involved with attracting a relationship into your life. And the 3, I'm going to kind of act out, play out these different roles that you can see maybe where you are, and then I'm going to give you the antidote, the thing that you can do or be that will move you up into the next level, the higher vibrational level, because when it comes down to It's everything we experience in our life is a reflection of our vibration. We get in life a reflection of our feelings, our thoughts, our emotions. These are all intertwined with our vibration and we can't perceive of a reality that is outside of our vibratory field and our vibratory resonance. So if we are saying to ourselves, I want a relationship and we are desiring a relationship But at the same time, we feel the lack of a relationship and we feel like we don't actually are worthy of it, then we will block it from our experience. And it's not so much that we're even blocking it in the sense that it's something that's over there and we have to get over here. It's something that may be right next to you, but you can't perceive of it because you're not the vibration of it. Could be that somebody is you're at your job and maybe one department over, there's someone over there that could be perfect, but until you get in vibrational resonance with yourself, you won't actually perceive of that. So the key to this whole process is vibrational resonance. And in this video, I'm going to share with you how to vibrate in that reality. So when we look at this, let's look at the handy dandy chart over here because it makes it so much better. You'll see the chart on it has— this is the chart of consciousness from a book called Power Versus Force is where I first read about it. You'll see this chart of consciousness. You'll see emotions such as shame, fear, guilt. You'll see a level of neutrality. Then after neutrality, you'll see acceptance, willingness, then eventually that of love. And then after love, you'll see joy, peace, and enlightenment. Now we could say that in life we are going through a journey of consciousness and we are moving through this scale. And that at a certain point there are certain people that we call enlightened or that have that certain level of consciousness that live in infinity of this universal force that's flowing through their body. That's a whole nother discussion, but in general, we're going to be at the levels of in between, right under that, of, uh, and through this, through most of our life experience. Not saying it's not possible that we all don't get enlightened one day. I'm just saying. So when we look at this, What we could see is I'm going to explain to you the 3 different levels of this process and I'm going to show you what's involved when it comes to attracting a relationship. Now I'm going to break this into 3 different categories. The first category is going to be that of lower consciousness energy or lower vibrational energy, LVE. That will be the bottom emotions up into neutrality. Shame, fear, guilt, anger. Then the MV will be middle vibration energy, MVE. That will be that of neutrality up to that of reason, reasoning, or reason, which is the intellect of the mind. That will be the MVE. Then we have HVE, high vibrational energy. That's going to be love and above, love and above. That is HVE, high vibration energy. Now when we look at this process, the first thing we want to understand is where we are, because once we know where we are, then we can see what we must do or be in order to get to the next level. So which of these sounds like you with where you are with attracting a relationship? The bottom ones will be more of, why haven't I attracted someone in my life yet? It should have already happened. Why does Becky over there or Ricardo or George or whoever, why do they get to be in a happy relationship when I'm not? Maybe I'm not worthy of a relationship because of what happened in my past. I feel kind of guilty for the way I made someone else feel in my past and I don't want them to feel that way again. I don't want anyone to feel that way again, so maybe I just should kind of stay back from that. I've seen and noticed people in my family that have been through divorces and maybe it's just not even worth it. Why hasn't it happened for me yet? These questions, if there's these questions and maybe you have a little bit of aspects of each of, of some of these, so it's, it could be a little bit of a blend, but this is the idea behind the LVE around relationships. Because we can have different vibratory ranges for each individual subject. You may be a wizard when it comes to money. You may have everything figured out, but in relationships it might be a little bit different. Now when you look at this, let's look at the LVE and you can see this is when we blame. This is when in this level of consciousness we think we see things as very fixed. The world is the way that it is and there's also positionality. This means perspectives that we're attached to. We're attached to things that happened in the past. Someone hurt me, I hurt someone else. This happened. This, this level of kind of pointing the finger. This is very common in that, and this is around relationships. So it could be something that happens in the past. It could be even subconscious things, but you're aware of it by what memories come by when you think of relationships of your past. What comes to your mind? Is it anger? Is it blame? Is it not feeling worthy? Is it pain? If these perspectives are there and you think it is fixed, that's just the way the world is, then that is the lower vibrational energy. Now here's the thing, that's— that lower vibrational energy isn't actually even you. You are just claiming on and thinking that those thoughts are you. It's about observing those thoughts and allowing those thoughts to be there because it's just the past self that hasn't been isn't completely healed yet. You must complete that version of you. And what I'm going to do is I'm going to link below the most powerful meditation that I've ever made. It's for completing the past. It will help you to release those patterns and also to wire in new ones. After this video, I highly recommend you watch it and you can just see in the comments to see how much, how powerful it is, how many people have had their lives changed because of it. So I'll link to it at the end as well. I'll remind you, but for now, Understand we complete the past. We don't have to repeat the past. We let go of these unconscious patterns. So the key is knowing that those thoughts we have are not our own. We've just simply thought that they were. The key is observation. So let's look at the second level and then I'll show you how to move from the first level to the second level. Second level, level is MVE, middle vibrational energy. When we look at this, we'll see the emotions from neutrality all the way up to reason. Reason is the intellect. It is the mind. This is where a lot of the content on my YouTube channel is because I teach people how their beliefs create their reality. Whatever you believe to be true is reflected back to you. So when we see that, we can then say, well, what would I have to believe is true to be having that kind of experience? Now, until we are aware that there is a belief there, that just lives on autopilot, lives in the lower vibrational energy. This person did this to me. This is the way it is. Reality is not fixed. Reality is a reflection of what we believe to be true, what momentum we have going based on prior reference experiences. So the key is to ask yourself that question. What would I have to believe is true to be having this kind of experience? Then you'll see, maybe I have a belief that I always attract this type of person. Maybe I have a belief that it's harder for me. Maybe I have a belief that because it hasn't happened in a long time, it won't happen anytime soon. Maybe I have a belief that I'm not worthy for it. This is when you become aware of those beliefs, whereas in the lower paradigm you just think that's the way reality is. I'm just not worthy. It's happened in the past. I always attract this type of person. In the middle vibration, you become aware of that belief and you see it for what it is. It is just a belief. From the moment you know it's a belief, you can then decide to change it. So that's where things really begin to change because then you can absorb it into your consciousness. You can let it be there. You heal it at the bottom levels. You're aware of it at the second, the middle level, and then what you can do is you can decide to see yourself in a new way. This is where you get into the work of your self-image, transforming your own self-image. When you see yourself in a new way, you will then experience a new reality. When you see yourself and you are thinking new thoughts, feeling new emotions, doing new actions, you're going to have a new vibration. So this is about being aware of your vibration, being aware of what beliefs you have, knowing that your beliefs create your reality. And if you have that of the lower vibrational energy emotions, you can complete it with the meditation that you'll see at the end of the video or at the bottom in the top of the description box. But the doorway from the bottom level to the middle level is neutrality, observation, observing the thoughts, seeing them for what they are, and then completing the past, allowing it to be there. As you allow these thoughts to be there and you don't judge them, they naturally go away. The biggest paradox, you may say, I'm not worthy. Okay, you look at that, that statement, I'm not worthy. Okay, you let it be there. I always attract this type of girl, guy. Okay, well then you let it be there. As you let all of these thoughts be there, they stop having resistance around them and they start to go away and you see that you are not your thoughts. You may think thoughts, but they are not who you are. You start to disidentify from the lower vibrational energy and then they're no longer on autopilot. They're no longer looping themselves over and over and over again. That's the doorway into the second paradigm. Now, if you want to change your beliefs about relationships, Look at worthiness. How worthy do you feel? What are your beliefs about relationships? Finish my sentence here. Relationships are blank. Let's look at metaphors. Relationships are like— relationships are— think of a metaphor for that. Is it like a needle in a haystack attracting them? Is it like pulling tooth and, uh, and hair to get a relationship or to be in a relationship because of what that means? You'll become aware of your subconscious patterns when you do work like this. When you ask yourself the question, what would I have to believe is true? Look at the metaphors in your mind because the metaphors will show you what your subconscious thinks about relationships. And as you become aware of it, you start to take your power back. Until you're aware of it, it will just remain on autopilot in the lower vibrational energy. So this is about the awareness. And when it comes to understanding that of relationships, it's about understanding worthiness. How easy do you think the process can be? Are you embodying the emotions already of you feeling whole and complete? Do you think and believe that you need something from over there to feel whole and complete? What is necessary for you to feel 100% whole and complete? Do you need a relationship? Because if so, there might be a belief that you grew up watching Disney movies and then therefore you believe that you have to have Prince Charming or some princess that's sleeping in a tower in order for you to actually be happy. But the truth is that's conditioning. It's okay to enjoy the movies. I grew up watching Disney movies. I love Disney movies. However, be aware of the conditioning that goes on there because then we get caught up in these stories about Prince Charming and all of this princess stuff. It's more about embodying 100% whole and complete is now. And by doing that, you then put yourself in the right energy state to attract something like that. But the thing is, is your cup's already full. You're already good. So it's a different perspective. So this arena is about the beliefs, being aware of the beliefs and then deciding and knowing That everything in your life is a reflection of what you believe. Now let's look at the higher vibrational energy. Higher vibrational, vibrational energy has a little bit of new perspectives that I'm going to share with you and I'll then share with you the doorway from the middle level to the higher level. This is when we get a little bit more esoteric. This is when we go a little bit deeper down the hole. When we look at higher vibrational energy, what is necessary to move into higher vibrational energy has to do with this doorway. Yeah, let's talk about the doorway now. We'll talk about a little bit, but let's talk about the doorway now. In order to move from this middle level to the higher level, what is necessary is to drop all beliefs, all intellectual ideas, all the necessity to get from here to here. It's about just simply being. It's about, yes, beliefs create reality. Yes, that is true, but reality is perfect as it is. This is when surrender comes into play. This is when the Eastern philosophy comes into play, and this is when people get in paradoxes and they're like, why? This doesn't make sense. Are you supposed to desire it and then not want it and then surrender to the intention? I don't get it, but there's different levels to it. So what you can do is in the middle level, set the intention, understand your beliefs create your reality, and then the doorway into the higher vibrational emotions is give it up to a higher mind. Give it up to a higher stream of energy. Don't think the ego needs to do everything. The ego does not need to go out there ferociously tearing around looking for the significant other. Instead, allow it and trust the process and focus on your state of being, state of being, not state of doing, not state of having, state of being. When you focus on your state of being, you then start to embody those emotions now. Now, what realization comes in the higher vibrational energy states of consciousness? In reality, there is only you. There is different aspects of you, and we're all in a way having this, this dream of separation where I'm Aaron, I'm in this physical body, this is who I am. At a deeper level of consciousness though, we are all connected. All of us are connected, and when we trust this process and we are being authentically who we are, we will then resonate with people at this higher level. Sometimes people try to attract people and they're doing it from the perspective of they're not whole and complete already, which means they attract someone else who also doesn't feel whole and complete, which means then they're gripping into each other's pain bodies, into these lower energy fields of desire, of not feeling whole and complete already. Causes a lot of problems. The key is instead what we can begin to do is we can let go of those notions. We can instead be in the present moment, allow things to be as they are, surrender to a higher mind, surrender to a higher energy stream, and allow things to happen. Your ego doesn't have to do everything. You have a higher self. Give it up to the higher self and realize that because there is this connection between all of us, we can trust that what is meant to happen will happen in the right time. And because at a deeper level we're all connected, the key is knowing that we are all unconditionally love and bliss. That is our higher state of emotion. That's who we really are. We simply go through life experiences that attach us to these lower emotions and then we think, oh, this is who I am, this is who I am. But the idea is that we are actually this unconditional love and bliss. It's just that we can start to let go of these lower notions. Neutrality, let go of the beliefs create our reality. Yes, please do create our reality, but even that paradigm alone can be transcended. And we can go into a state of being of love, into a state of being, of being enough already, of allowing the moment to be, of understanding that truth, that when we start to be in the present moment and we let things be as they are, we allow more of this higher vibrational energy to flow through. And that's when very magical things begin to happen. So this is having that awareness and what that will look, would look like for that of relationships is focusing more on your heart center. Even right now, put your hands over your heart and just feel inside of your heart center. And if you say, well, I can't feel it really strong, then let it be there. If you say, how long are we going to do this? Let that thought come up. You say, well, this helped me get a relationship. Look at that thought. Understand that you could put the awareness in your heart every single day for 5 or 10 minutes. It will transform your life. You'll be growing the electromagnetic energy around your body. This is scientifically proven by the HeartMath Institute, and you will then be connecting to yourself at a very deep level and being integrated in your heart center. You will then attract more to your life and into your life than you could even think possible. The more self-love you give to yourself, the more likely you are to attract someone of your dreams, somebody that really, really resonates with you. So for everything that I'm sharing today, there's these 3 different levels that you can begin to move up. Be aware of what you are, of where you are. Understand that you are not your thoughts. You may think those lower vibrational thoughts, but they're not who you are. Neutralize them, observe them, allow them to be there. Then you'll be in the doorway to the second level. Second level, your beliefs create your reality. Anything you believe to be true is reflected back to you. Do some inventory on your beliefs, become aware of what those are. Simply decide to let go the ones that don't serve you. Be in the higher vibrational states by believing and knowing that you are worthy of it, knowing you're already whole and complete. Then what you could do is go to the doorway into the next one. Let go of all those beliefs. Simply be in the present moment. Allow this higher energy to come through. Put your hands over your heart every day for 5 or 10 minutes and know that everything is as it is. Give it up to a higher mind. Give it up to your higher self. Let your higher self bring it to you. And at the same time, just know that you are love to begin with. You don't have to look for it in someone else. It is who you are. The paradox is then you will attract it easier than ever. So something else I'll be doing is more live Q&As on Instagram. So if you want some interaction with me, ask me questions about this, you'll see my Instagram right there. Also, I post twice a day there, native videos to Instagram. Other than that, I hope you enjoyed this video. Feel free to like this video if you liked it, subscribe if you haven't already, hit the little notification gear so that you can see the daily vids that I do. And the way YouTube does it now is you actually have to hit that button to see the daily vids. So got a lot more stuff coming. Other than that, as always, peace, much love, and namaste.
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