The 4 Step Method I Used To Manifest My DREAM LIFE

In this video, I'm gonna show you the biggest vibrational shift that I've made in my own life that has allowed me to create my dream life. I'm gonna show you step by step exactly what you do to completely transform your outer reality because you've shifted your inner reality. I'm gonna show you how to shift that inner reality in this video. Now, the first thing that I wanna share is that this was something that I actually found on my iPad that I can look back and I screenshotted this in 2016, a few months before I started to apply it. It was a 4-step simple process that I would look over, over and over again, and eventually in February of 2017, I decided to commit to that ideology, to that simple 4-step process. Within 6 months of applying that 4-step process, my whole entire life had changed. I had gone from the whole 9-to-5 job selling women's shoes to doing that plus making daily videos to then being able to quit the 9-to-5 job and only make videos. And that was an exciting time of my life because I had then bought my time back. I was able to get up at the time I wanted to get up Instead of going 8 hours a day to a job, I would spend like 2 or 3 hours making videos. Like I made 3 videos a day for the first 2 months and I was like 3 months ahead on content because I was just so excited because I had all this time back and it was something that was very like exciting for me. So the thing though that changed everything was when I applied that 4-step formula that's actually very simple. I'm gonna show you not only how to apply it, but energetically, why it works. Now, here is the 4-step process, and the first step is simply identifying your dream reality version of you. So understand that in a way, there are infinite number of parallel realities that exist, and this was an ideology that helped me understand that the version of Aaron that is already doing what he loves already exists. It was a way for me to imagine it, to energetically tune to it that allowed me to then see, feel, and know what does that version of Aaron think, feel, do? What is that version of me passionate about? So what I would do is I would identify that using meditation, and that's the first step. Now let me show you something here. One of the reasons this works and one of the ways of understanding this that makes it so much easier is understanding that your identity, how you think, act, and feel, you have an inner self-image that you are acting equal to. Now what happens is your values also make up your identity, the values that you live by. For example, a value you can think of like what you make important. How are you getting your needs met? For me, my values back then where I at some level valued having a 9 to 5 job. My identity was working a 9 to 5 sales job that I didn't enjoy, but I felt like I had to work it. So what ended up happening is my identity was on autopilot and I had to shift my values. I had to shift how I was thinking, how I was acting, how I was feeling, and I had to shift who I was being. Now, one of the values was I had to, instead of having people tell me what to do, I had to initiate my own identity, how I was showing up. I had to initiate and start taking accountability and like initiative for my own work ethic, which meant making daily videos on YouTube even though I had a 9-to-5 job. It's different than someone telling you when to show up at work, telling you what to do. I had to start valuing a different aspect of myself to why you're in this new version of me. If for any reason, let's say you wanna attract love, and you are attracting people that are emotionally unavailable, there's a part of you that might feel familiar with people that aren't choosing you. It might feel familiar to have people that aren't emotionally available. So you'd have to start valuing vulnerability and showing the real you and authenticity in order to then attract that. You must change your own values before you're gonna see it in the outer reflection. Now think of it like this. Your identity is your comfort zone. Whatever you are comfortable doing, whatever is familiar, you will think and act and feel equal to. In order to create the love that you want in your life or the money that you want in your life, the key is to expand your comfort zone. This means for a period of time, the things that you look to that look uncomfortable you will be doing what feels uncomfortable and then making it comfortable. You are expanding your comfort zone. So for me, I had this, I started to value making videos, value expressing myself. I had to let go of really caring what other people thought of me. It was uncomfortable. Making videos every single day on YouTube back in 2017 was very uncomfortable, but now it's very comfortable. It's very easy for me because it's a part of my identity. At one point people asked me, Aaron, how are you able to make so many damn videos on YouTube? It was literally because I'd done it repetitively so many times that it was a part of my identity. It was also a part of my new work ethic, the way that I saw myself. So the key though is think about it like this. This is, this is the game changer. This is the biggest shift in epiphany that I had about this. Even just recently I'm like explaining this differently that I think it'll really help. So the reason you step out of your comfort zone and you expand your comfort zone is that as you are doing the thing that used to feel uncomfortable, you then get more and more comfortable doing it to where then it is natural for your self-image. It is a part of the being vibration. Think of it like two different realities, two different radio stations. I want says I lack. There's a reality where you aren't this new identity. Like for me, that was like me not making daily videos on YouTube back in 2017. There's a reality where I wanted it, but I wasn't being it. It looked like uncomfortable, it looked unappealing. So I'd say, I want, I want, I want, which means I lack, I lack, I lack. And that's a different radio station. Imagine all the radio stations already exist, it's simply about tuning to the specific frequencies. Just like all the parallel reality version of you exists, you're experiencing the reality you're in because of your frequency. And instead, there's a reality where I am. Now, the more you step out of your comfort zone and you expand your comfort zone, the more that that becomes I am, that becomes natural for your identity. I recently talked at a mastermind where I was explaining to people, they were asking about how I was able to create, you know, the million subscribers on YouTube and all that because it was like a business mastermind. And I explained like, every one of you commit to making content. Commit to making more videos at this mastermind because it was all like content creators or people with businesses. And one of the things I said was make daily videos or make a lot of videos because the more you do it, the better you get at it and the more natural you feel. I said people feel what you feel. So when you start making videos, your first 10, 20, 30, they may not be that great, but guess what? You get more and more comfortable by doing it. You're expanding your sense of identity. And then as you get more and more comfortable doing it, you feel better and better. And then people feel that energy off of you and they go, whoa, I could feel this dude's energy. It feels good. There's something about it that I like. I wanna keep watching it. I like the stories he's telling or whatever it is. So the key is expanding the comfort zone until it becomes natural for you. If it were maybe a dude that wants to be confident, one thing he could do is he could start branching out of his comfort zone by talking to other people, maybe going up to this woman he's attracted to and saying hi. And then by doing that, at times it may be uncomfortable, but eventually it'll become natural, it'll become normal. It won't be this big thing to go over, talk to somebody because you've put in the reps, it becomes easy. You can apply that analogy towards anything in your life, but the vibration of being it is at one point gonna be a little bit uncomfortable and then you'll expand your identity and then it will be comfortable. For me right now, I went the other day and spoke at a buddy's event of mine, not the mastermind, a different one where he said, hey, come by. I was at the gym and I was like, afterwards I just drove to where he was doing a seminar and I ended up, was gonna only be there for like 30 minutes to an hour and just kind of hop on stage with him and talk. I ended up speaking for 3 hours with him and it was fun. It didn't require that much energy and it made me realize That the more that I do the public speaking, the more I'm going to be shifting out of my old identity of only making YouTube videos to then shifting into this new frequency of me being somebody that goes live, that's able to be in different types of situations and live events and, and be able to like get ideas across on stage and be able to pick up on the energy of the crowd and help people have different epiphanies. And it's something I could tell I'm passionate about because the more I step into that, and at first when I said, I'd come by for an hour, maybe that was just my mechanism to like, it felt comfortable and safe. But then staying for 3 hours was like no problem because I love the energy of it. So this is what helps you to expand your sense of comfort zone, your identity. You're doing this, okay, so here's the second thing. So first off, you identify the version of you that is being the most high vibrational version of you. Make sure it's also something connected to your passion. Connected to your heart. That's important 'cause a lot of times people will do something 'cause they, I want the money, I want this, but like, are you really passionate about it? Because there's, in reality, I believe that like reality reflects back to us while also it's good for our spirit. And when we're following our excitement, that's good for our soul, that's good for our spirit. So the second step is to choose to behave as that version of you, the one you identified on step 1. Step 2 is behave, model and mirror your thoughts, feelings, actions, body language, and values of that version of you now in the present moment. So you wanna take that version of you and choose to be it. And what I really encourage you to look at is the values of that version of you. You might value adventure, you might value that of vulnerability, authenticity, expression. They may be different values than the version of you that's in this little bubble. So for me, that's what I did is I started to value these new things that even my own work ethic, even putting myself out there in videos, like I had to value those things and then live by that identity. I saw that the version of me was making daily videos on YouTube, so I decided to make daily videos on YouTube back in 2017. I know you've heard that story many times, but it's a one-on-one reflection of that. Now I'm modeling my actions of me doing live events. And that's why I like went to my friend's thing the other day. That's why I'm planning live events. That's why I've been doing live events. So I even thought of doing live events where I just pretty much do these live events maybe here in Austin, Texas, just like once or twice a month just to get footage for YouTube so that it's a little bit more dynamic instead of me just talking to the video, me like in a crowd talking to people, picking up on the energy and then putting clips of that on YouTube. You guys let me know if that's something you'd be interested in. And comment below and let me know. But in general, the second step is to model and mirror that person's of you, that version of you, and choose to be it. All right, so identify it, be it. And then the third step is to not keep looking to the outside to know that you've changed. Tune to the inside and be it because if it's an end of itself, Be it because it's an end of itself. So that's the important thing though, because what happens sometimes is people are trying to shift to this being frequency because they want more money or abundance. But if you do it as an end, as a means to an end to get somewhere else, it's implying that this present moment isn't good enough. And it's also in a way like doing a stare down to that of a mirror. It's like looking at a mirror and saying, I will change my expression on my face. I will smile once you smile. You're gonna be waiting forever. And that's a lot of times what happens when people want to create their dream life. They're like, they make one little shift on the inside. They're like, okay, why hasn't things changed? Why hasn't things changed? Well, there's momentum that's been created from the old you. And if it's like, I will only change once I see an outer reflection, then it's not the real, the reason you're making this shift is because It's who you prefer to be. It's who you prefer to be. It's more passionate, it's more exciting. It's an end of itself. So become aware of that energy and don't look to the outside for change. Look to the inside. How do you feel? You're doing it because it's who you prefer to be. You're being it because it's passionate and it feels good to be that way. So that's important because a lot of times people will stay to the, attached to the outcome and then like stop. And then once you stop, like if I would've, we talk about frame, if I would've started making the YouTube videos and then the first time like a friend or somebody I was expressing it to and I didn't feel like, like maybe I felt like, you know, even just like boundaries, I had to have boundaries when I first got on YouTube. And if people wanted to hang out and stuff and that was gonna get in the way of me making videos, I'd have to say no because I was saying yes to my purpose. So that is something that I had to become aware of is how to have those boundaries and how not to internalize what other people say. Because at the time when I first got on YouTube especially, I remember at one point my ex-stepmom was talking to my younger sisters where that's their real mom and they were like making fun of my videos. Who you making videos for, Aaron? You're 13 subscribers or 11 subscribers. It's like, yeah, why am I doing this? There's 11 subscribers. And instead I use that as motivation and fuel. So I had to not let that impact me. I had to in a way like be in my own frame and not let it affect me in that way. Now the last step is a really simple step, but it's one that really helped me. It is what are you saying yes to that is blocking you from experiencing this? So one thing that really helped me was looking at everything I was saying yes to and then saying no. The things that, like, almost like trimming the fat of anything that wasn't adding to this new reality. And for me, that meant I had to say no to sometimes hanging out with friends. That meant sometimes I had to say no to many different, I had to say no to like when I saw a negative comment or something, I'd say no to that, be internalizing that. But sometimes it helps to look at what you're saying yes to and what you're saying no to and realize that when you say yes to something that's not authentic, you're saying no to yourself. And that was a game changer for me. So that was something I had to remind myself of. And main thing of this 4-step process is to choose to be it. You see like the Nike logo is like, just do it, just be it, just be it. Realize every moment's a new moment. Every moment you're a new you. The cells in your body are constantly dying and being reborn. And you're a new you and now you're new you. And if you experience to stay stuck, it's because you might believe that you're stuck. There's a story that you're stuck. So there's a recreation of the energy of being stuck. It's not just one energy, it's being recreated every time. It's, I'm stuck, I'm stuck, I'm stuck. And instead, you know, you can break through. You know, you can break through. You know, you can break through. Not only you break through, but you are it. Once you start it, you are it. Remember that. Give yourself permission. That could also be the fourth step is give yourself permission. When I started making videos, I gave myself more and more permission, then I felt more confident and then people would feel that energy off of me. And sometimes that's all you need is just to give yourself some permission to be this new version of you. Other people are gonna think it's kind of weird that you're being this new version of you 'cause like, what do you mean you're setting boundaries with me? I've always been able to tell you what to do. You've always been able to do what I want. Been influenced when I tell you to come to this thing that I want you to come to. But when you start setting boundaries, you're gonna start wiring in a new you. You're gonna feel more empowered. You're gonna feel in your own frame. And as you begin being it, that's when your reality really changes. And you're being it because it's who you choose to be, not being it because it's gonna get you out of your, your job that you work that you don't want or whatever it is. So just be it. Now, if you wanna create identity-level change, One way that you can do that is you can go to whatsmyvibration.com. This is where you will get— I'm reinventing that whole survey if you've done it before, but whatsmyvibration.com is a way for you to calibrate your vibration, to understand more about where your vibration is so that you can then understand and have a meditation for shifting to a higher level. So if you haven't done that yet, go to whatsmyvibration.com to check that out. And then also there's a video right here. Listen to this meditation for raising your dominant vibration permanently without shifting back It's one of the most powerful meditations. 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