The Most Underrated Reality Shifting Technique that Will CHANGE YOUR LIFE

In this video Aaron Doughty introduces viewers to Reality Transurfing, a philosophy and manifestation method that emphasizes gliding through parallel realities rather than forcefully creating outcomes. He explains core concepts such as pendulums (collective thought structures), the balance of coordination, and the distinction between inner intention (personal will) and outer intention (aligning with others' desires). The centerpiece of the talk is the "frailing" technique, which involves giving value to others—matching their inner intentions—to activate outer intention and attract desired results. Aaron illustrates frailing with real‑world examples: negotiating time off with a manager, improving job interviews, hiring a virtual assistant, and growing his YouTube channel by providing content that serves his audience. He also promotes a free Reality Transurfing meditation MP3 designed to lower the importance placed on desires and help listeners resonate with their chosen parallel reality. The video concludes with calls to subscribe, follow on Instagram, and join live Q&A sessions.
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This video will show you the most underrated Reality Transurfing technique that can absolutely change your life and help you to start to see things from a completely new perspective that will also result in you getting a new reflection in your life. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now this video I'm going to be sharing with you a Reality Transurfing technique that is totally underrated. You can even say that you can apply this towards the law of attraction, understanding how to go about the process. And before I get deep into the video, let me explain a little bit about Reality Transurfing in case you're just coming on board and hearing about it. So Reality Transurfing is what I believe is to be the most powerful manifestation process that I have found. And even beyond manifestation process, it is that of a philosophy, a way for seeing the world that when you start to apply, changes everything because you start to see things from a different point of view. Now, Reality Transurfing has this understanding and what literally the words mean is Reality Transurfing. Transurfing means to glide through the space of variations, to glide through parallel realities, to understand that manifestation does not have to be as hard as we think it is. Normally we're here. We want to be over here, so we're trying hard to get over here. Reality Transurfing is about flowing and aligning our heart and our emotions to that of the reality we want. So it definitely has some overlays with that of other processes we may have heard of, but what makes Reality Transurfing unique is an understanding of what is called the balance of coordination, balancing out our energy in correlation with what we experience. So normally under some of the old paradigms, we think of manifesting what we want. We may put things and make them important. We may put them on a pedestal. The moment we put something on a pedestal is the moment we also create a potential for resistance. The moment we put something on a pedestal is the moment we say that is up there and I am down here. The moment we say I really, really desire this, we are saying I really, really don't currently have this because I desire it. So this is about understanding that balance of energy and how instead of putting things on a pedestal, we must link up our self-image with that of somebody that sees it as natural to be experiencing those in life. So the best version of you, what would you be doing? And imagine the best, most abundant version of you making whatever kind of money, having whatever kind of opportunities. For that version of you, it is natural to be living that kind of lifestyle. But when we think about it from our current self-image, the current kind of way that we are being, it seems up here, it seems, wow, that would be so amazing. But if we instead close that gap by seeing these as natural, by loosening and letting go of the amount of importance that we give things, then everything begins to change. So with Reality Transurfing, that's an important part of it. There's this understanding of something that is called pendulums. A pendulum is a thought structure. It is something that consistently we have thought of and other people have thought of. And what we do is sometimes we may be thinking that we're having our own thoughts when we're really having the thoughts of what are called pendulums. Now think of any time many people have the same viewpoint or a similar viewpoint on one idea. They have already thought and felt a certain emotion about something. They've created in a way a thought structure that then makes it so that when we think about a same thing, it's also likely that we could feel the same emotions and we could think the same thoughts because those thoughts and emotions have already in a way been laid out before. They've already been laid out in like a grid. Think of it like we are creating our reality collectively. We are co-creating our reality as well. Think of there being like an energy grid around the planet and that when people are thinking thoughts, it's going into this energy grid around the planet. You could almost think of this like a metaphor, like an aura. Around the planet. There's an electromagnetic field around the earth, and what happens is people think thoughts, it goes in that energy field, and then it makes it more likely that we could be thinking the same thoughts. So for example, we watch the news, we see some negative event happen on the news. We know that we look at that and we feel the negative emotion too. Well, sometimes it may not just be your negative emotion that you're feeling. It may be that so many other people in that collective consciousness have felt the same way, focused on the same thing, that it is even easier for you to feel that emotion because it's already been laid out and it's already in pendulums going around the planet. It's already a thought structure. It's already like a, a thought bubble that many people have already been having. So there are pendulums around every subject you can think of. There are pendulums around being Republican or Democrat. There's these thought structures around certain Sports teams being for this sports teams against this sports team, like this person, not like this person. There's pendulums around everyone. There's even pendulums in your job. You may, if you have a job, you may go and see that there's certain politics that go on. There's certain way that the managers respond to the other managers and all of this different dynamics. And you may notice that people talk about things. I know the job I used to have, it was almost kind of like a high school. Sometimes people would talk, there'd be like gossip and those are all different pendulums. And sometimes people be venting to me something that another manager said. And I would feel almost what they were thinking and feeling because I was in a way attaching to that pendulum. So pendulums, understanding them, being aware of them. When you're aware of them, you're not, they're not reactive to it, and then you're able to really let it go. So another part with Reality Transurfing is that there's an infinite number of parallel realities that exist. So you don't have to attract whatever you want. You don't have to create it. You just have to choose it. You just have to realize that what you want already exists, so therefore it's about resonating with that version of you. Now with that, there is also this idea of inner intention and outer intention. Now this is leading into the topic of this video, but it's always, I think, important that I explain all this because it helps to wire it in, plus it helps to give context for the video. Inner importance is anytime we have a willpower to do something, any process that we want to do to get somewhere else. But of course the idea is not to get somewhere else, is to be more here. But the idea is that inner intention, think of that as if the solar plexus, it's this willpower to do something. That's the inner intention that we have. The inner intention is that we want to, uh, be in the process towards something else. Intention is a will or a determination to have or be a certain way. I have an intention to go to the gym and have a great workout. I have an intention to film a video, enjoy the process, and upload it easily. I have an intention to film an amazing video and get into flow state easily. These are all intentions I have. Now the thing is, is that's inner intention. There's also something called outer intention, which is going to lead into the, the understanding of frailing. Outer intention is anything that is outside of me. Now of course, from a deeper point of view, we could say we're all connected and there really is no outer because the outer is a reflection of the inner. but just for this perspective and this understanding, let's assume that outer intention is anything outside of my energy field. So I may be having an inner intention for me to accomplish something in my life. That's kind of something that I desire. Now there's also this larger stream of energy, and this larger stream of energy includes everything outside of that energy field. So one powerful thing to do, and this is leading into freewheeling, one powerful thing to do is to link up your inner intention to that of other people's inner intention. So other people have their own inner intentions. When you do something that adds value to them or helps them to achieve their inner intention, it then has a ripple effect that will come back to you. So what I mean by this is other people's inner intention is your outer intention because it's outside of your energy field. From a certain perspective. Now what you do is you give the intention, you have this intention to add value to other people, and this is when you start to get into what is called frailing. So this honestly is what I have done to grow my YouTube channel as much as it has. Just a year ago at the time of filming this video, there were 20,000 to 40,000 subscribers on the channel. It's grown very quickly because I I realized that the more value I add to other people, the more it benefits them, the more it makes a change in their life, the more that comes back to me and the more that people want to listen because it is so in alignment with what they want to do. People want to expand their awareness, expand their consciousness. Like I say in all my videos, people want to do that. Not everyone, but some people do, and the people that do, if I can facilitate and they can kind of feel that when watching my videos, then that's great. And that links my intention with their inner intention, which then creates what's called external attention. External intention is much more powerful than just inner intention. External intention, outer intention, or external intention is that of where also what we call, quote unquote, magic happens, where we can create a greater degree of change of where we are to where we want to be because Outer intention is a specific outcome that we can also imagine in our mind. That is the outcome. And whereas the inner intention is the process. So outer intention is the awareness that what we want to experience already exists. So we don't have to try to create it. It already exists. It's about focusing on it and trusting the process, knowing it can come to fruition. Now when we link up our intention with that of inner intention, we create outer intention and it creates a win-win for everybody. So I believe that honestly, a lot of the information I share, it's almost like it wants to come through me because I have this intention of kind of shooting it out to as many people as possible. And because it can help a lot of people from a certain perspective, it almost is more— it grows quicker because it's a win-win for everybody. It's a win-win for me because I'm getting my own self-growth by making these videos. My own growth with my business, my own growth with helping other people, plus it's helping other people to grow. So it's tapping into that outer intention. Now I had to explain all of this to get to Frailing because now you can see this inner outer. You can see why it could be so beneficial to have this outer type intention. Now when we go, what Frailing is, is Frailing is this technique that has to do with linking up and understanding where someone else is coming from to give them what they want, which then will get you what you want. Fairly, technique states that instead of having an intention to get, give away that which you have the intention to get, and what you want will be yours. Now realize that to give away something, giving away, you can give away an emotion, you can give away something that gives people a similar effect that you want to get. Now there's another part of failing as well, and you can use this with any, just about anything that involves other people. So think of it like there are other people that may have certain intentions, and what you can do is if you want something, you can use this for a job, getting a job, you can use this for a relationship. But if there's something you need, I used to use this subconsciously. So I used to have a job. I worked at Barney's New York before I went full-time on YouTube, which I sold women's shoes. I had a manager and I had this one manager for a while, not my last manager before I left, but I had a manager like a year before I left and he was kind of like, had this kind of like strong control thing where he had to like, he could make the decisions, but if you asked for something, a lot of times the answer would be no. I was aware of this kind of power dynamic. So what I would do is if I needed a certain time off and he would sometimes give me trouble if I needed a certain week off in like 3 months down the road, like, oh, well there's this event, there's this, there's this. So what I would do is I would language it in a way that would link up with an intention he would have so that he would give it to me. So for example, I would say, so Neil, here's the thing. I have this event or I have this, um, customer coming in on the week before this week. This person's coming in. I want to make sure I give them and I'm able to help them. They're coming in from a different city. I live in Vegas, so everyone travels here and this customer coming in, I need to help them this certain way and I want to make sure that I help them because I was going to take vacation this week, but instead I'm going to take the vacation the week after so that I can help this customer. And be here because I think that's going to be a busy week, but you let me know what you think is what I would say. Like I just knew how to say things because it was linked. Then what that did is that linked up with his inner intention. He was like, you know, for the power dynamics is kind of irrelevant, but it's funny. He'd be like, yeah, yeah, you, you could, you should do that. Do that. You know what I mean? That was kind of the mentality is like, okay, great. So if I would have gone in though and said, hey, I'm going to take vacation this week because it would really benefit me because I'm going on vacation with you know, doing this, doing that, then a lot of times there'd be pushback because you're like, well, you know, that week, is there something else going on? You know, that week there's— so you see what I did there is I come to understand what he wanted. I was linking up with his inner desire. I had to language it in a certain way, but what that did is that made it so that he could see that I was then understanding the business. I was understanding different aspects of, you know, sales time. We got paid commission, so it's good to be there certain times, you know. But I linked up my intention with the inner intention that he would have and language it in a way to where then he wanted to give it to me. Another example may be a relationship. Getting into a relationship, we're always focused on what we can get from a relationship. What can I get from this other person? What can they give me? But a lot of times what that does is that causes an a certain energy dynamic where everyone's in it for themselves. Now what you can do is you can instead set the intention that you are able to give something to that person, whether it's an emotion, just making them feel comfort, like comfortable, making them feeling empowered, whatever it is. And if there's an emotion that you crave from someone else, give it away first. It works like magic. If there's— you want to feel compassion from someone, Give them more compassion because that will then come back to you. The same thing with a job interview, for example. This is the biggest thing that people do with job interviews, that if they simply use this process of failing would change everything. And this is like a well-known thing, but it's also in alignment with failing perfectly most of the time. And I know this because I also, I hired a, what's called a VA recently, a virtual assistant. And I hired someone from a different country that now works for me and they answer my emails. They helped me do certain things because there's just not enough time in a day for me to do everything because I get a lot of people that reach out to me. Now when I was going through, I had hundreds of applications through this website that I go through to hire, to hire, you know, this VA, and I got hundreds of, of, uh, people that were filling out these forms and almost all of them were about them. Right? This is such a small thing, but it was like, I can do this, I can do that. I had 3 years experience in answering emails here. I was working for this company over here and it was, it was cool. I'm like, okay, cool, you're, you know, but you know which one stood out to me are the ones that showed them what they could do for me. Now this is a small thing, but you know, I'm hiring someone that I'm going to pay and I'm going to pay them good money too. The amount of money that somebody from a third world country gets from me is like getting paid $20 an hour if they were living here. That's the difference in price and exchange. So instead I looked for somebody that was adding value and they were like, yo, this is what I could do for you. I can do this, this, and this. I see that your business is doing this and I can help you do this. I know that I'll have a great— I have great energy, so I know that I'm going to be able to talk to people like this way. They showed what they could do for me. Another big thing I get is because I am growing on, you know, I'm not saying any of this to be cocky by the way, but it makes a difference. Like I am tuned to the people that more so are able. So in the same way I add value to other people by linking up my intention to other people, in the same way people can realize they can use this to reach people that maybe are very busy. So for example, I get hundreds of messages every day on Instagram DM and then DMs on Facebook and a lot of times they are people asking questions about what they know they want advice on. And the truth is I have hundreds of 600 videos on YouTube that a lot of times will answer the questions themselves, but I don't have time to go through and respond to hundreds and hundreds of questions every day. Otherwise I wouldn't be doing anything. So the reason I say this is sometimes there's people that reach out that want to work with me. They're like, hey, I have a YouTube channel, or hey, I do this. And The key is when they are focused on how they can add value to whatever I'm doing or enhance whatever I'm doing, I'm much more likely to read the message and then respond. It's just the way it works. Friending actually works. How can you provide value to other people? How can you see where they're coming from to have this understanding of how to communicate with them? And if you can then give that emotion, if you can give value, then that value will come back to you. So everything I've— I just gave you a whole bunch of examples because I want you to know that this works because we are all connected and what you put out is actually what you get back. But the next time, if you ever have to go to a job interview again, if you're ever looking for a person to have a relationship with, focus on what you can get. Focus on being yourself. Understand the first thing you could do is that you can be within your own heart energy. That's a very important part of the process of Reality Transurfing is being connected to your heart, not trying to connect from the head. Be connected to your heart. Move through life knowing that as you do that, that energy is contagious. Other people will feel that. And then when there's certain things that you desire, focus on how you can give those emotions. If you want compassion, give compassion. You want more freedom in your life, give that freedom in your life. There's ways of doing this, of tapping in. Once you tap into the emotion, you'll get the answer. You'll know exactly how to do this. So this is about having this awareness that we're all connected, and when you link up your intention with the intention of someone else, it comes back to you tenfold. I promise you that the most successful people on the planet, I have noticed most of them that do what they do ethically, what they do is they add a ton of value to other people or they solve other people's problems because it's almost like this energy wants to come through people that do so because it's a win-win for not only the person but it's a win-win for everybody else involved too. Not only do they get amazing product, not only do they transform their lives, but also you— it's, it's a win-win all the way around. So the other thing that I've done is I've created a free meditation that will show you how to decrease the level of importance you're giving things, which is one of the most powerful ways to resonate with the desires you have. It'll also help you to link into the parallel reality you want to experience. It's an absolutely free MP3. Download in the top of the description box below. It's a Reality Transurfing meditation that uses binaural beats, music, and hypnosis, and I think it's very powerful. So if you're interested, it's in the top of the description box below. I'm also going to be doing more live Q&As on Instagram, so if you want to interact with me, ask me questions, I'll be doing live meditations then as well. You can go ahead and follow me on Instagram there, right there below. And other than that, I hope you enjoyed this video. 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