The ONE idea will TRANSFORM The Way you Manifest

Aaron Doughty explains the 'be, do, have' paradigm: embody the identity you want first, act from that state, and external results follow. He shares how adopting a full-time YouTuber identity shifted his reality, and describes exercises like ordering for an invisible boyfriend to break limiting self-beliefs and reduce fear of judgment.
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There's one thing that if you do will make manifestation so much easier. This also has to go deep into understanding how you can transform yourself from the inside out, and this is exactly what I use to create abundant success in my own life, and I'm going to share you exactly what to do. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to share with you a very simple idea that you may remember for the rest of your life. Now for For starters, I'm in San Diego right now during this time of going inwards, you could say. I'm in this little garage thing here, which is the best sound that I could find right now to do a video. So this is why I'm here. However, the thing that I wanted to share was an idea that I was looking at yesterday. It's something that I realized I've reverse engineered in my own life and it's actually super simple, yet it's super powerful. So when I was first getting ready to go full-time on YouTube, the thing that made the biggest difference was that I wasn't focused on just the actions, I wasn't focused on just the thoughts or the feelings, I was focused on an identity, on me being a certain way and then just knowing that that's who I am now. Now the thing is, is there is this system and I'll go ahead and maybe put some text right here. Daniel, can you put some text right here? You'll see be, do, have. Be is effortless. Doing is effort. Having or have is less effort. It's less than effort. So it's a different paradigm, but understand that normally what we think is we must first have something, then we can do something, then we can be a certain way. Now, for example, it'd be if I, I must first, um, I must first have that of the art gallery studio that I can do and create the art every day, then eventually I will be an artist. But in actuality, the way that reality works is the complete opposite way. It actually works where you must first be it, then you can do it, then you can have it. So it means that like when I was first making YouTube videos, I just automatically saw myself as a full-time YouTuber. And then what happened is my reality began to conform to that. I didn't say that once I make 600 videos, then I'll be a full-time YouTuber. It has to do with understanding the frame of identity. How do you see yourself? And normally what happens is people say, well, once I do this, then I can do this, then I can give myself permission to be this. But the key is seeing yourself as already being it. And one of the best ways to do that is to know that the moment you start is the moment you are it. So I started making YouTube videos. That was when I started with the identity. But sometimes what people do is they say, no, first I need to get to have it and then have the camera and the fancy equipment. Then I must do it for a period of time. Then I can finally be it. But this is the thing, you can give yourself permission at any moment to simply be it. It's just that we have rules in our own mind. There was a movie that came out a long time ago, it was called Kumaroo. I think it was called Kumaroo or Karmory or something like that. And what it was is, is it was this person that went, and what they did is they went inside that of a place in Arizona. It was this guy that was from India. It was actually a very good documentary. It was Kumaru. No, Kumaru. Kumari. I forget the name of it, man. I wanna, I'm gonna figure it out. But what happened was he went to, he was from India, but what he did is he was actually from New York, but he was like, his heritage was from there. What he did is he grew out his hair, he grew out a beard. He went to India, he took some pictures with some like gurus. And what he did is he started to act as a guru. He started to literally be a guru. And he did it almost as a prank because the one thing that he always learned from these gurus that he really believed in, because he thought a lot of them were phony, was that the real information, the real guru is within you. So what he did is he then was inside Arizona with all these people that started to believe in him. He would do these free talks and stuff. These people started to believe in him and the only thing he pretty much said is, I am fake. And he told them the whole entire time that he was fake. And that he wasn't real and that this was a persona. This is a mask. And it was funny because the whole time he was like actually pretending to be a guru and he wasn't. But, um, that was the documentary and it ended up being really good. I don't want to ruin it for you in case you watch it, but the interesting thing about it is that when he started to embody it, he said that he started to feel differently. These people's lives started to transform and the only thing he was telling them is like, the guru's in you. but they were in a way giving their power to him. But he started to, he said that he started to feel that kind of energy. He started to feel, you could tell he started to feel differently. He started to almost take on that persona and people could feel this energy off of him. He even went to like some person that was reading his aura and said that he had this incredible aura. But what if we are who we choose to be in every moment? In every moment we could simply decide that we are a certain way. And that, that as we begin to embody that, we begin then begin to experience that in their life. So this goes beyond that of acting as if I call this being as if I made some videos a long time ago and I just kind of coined this term being as if being as if means that you're coming at it from the point of the identity level, not acting as if acting as if implies that you're going to do it for a period of time and then go back. Being as if means you decide this is who I am now. And I think that's something else that's powerful to do is to challenge your ideas of fear for expansion. Do something you have never done before. I was talking to someone here yesterday, Rebecca. She's awesome. She was telling me about this like course that she went through where it was like an experiential type life course or something like that. What, this is actually kind of funny what she had to do. So she had to, basically they get, it's called stretching or something. You had to stretch beyond that of your current comfort zone. So one thing that she had to do, and she had to go to on a mission in a way with a partner who was like watching her to make sure she did it. She had to go to a restaurant. She had to order for her invisible boyfriend. She had to send back his food twice. This is hilarious. And she had to like completely do that, like, in it— just, she had to do that in character in a way and like not tell them that's a joke or it's just some, it's just some prank thing that I have to do. And she had to send back his food twice to her invisible boyfriend. And she said that the waitress was being really nice, like, oh, does he want anything else? And, you know, think about it, you got to send back the food twice and you got it in order for your invisible invisible boyfriend. She said that there were like family close by that was like trying to just get their kids to eat, not watch, because they didn't want them to see that or something. But she had to have a full-on conversation with her invisible boyfriend too, with like people in public and stuff. And one of the reasons they do things like that is because it breaks you out of your comfort zone of caring what people think. I think it's genius. It sounds like something I want to do, honestly. But think about how the old identity we have, the way we've been being, maybe within certain constructs, within certain confines. Like, I'm afraid to do this. See, people, I see some people that would be amazing YouTubers, amazing content creators, but they're afraid to put themselves out there because they think this is not who I am. And it's like, who are you though? You think you are the little box that we put ourselves in. Every single one of us has a certain box. I have a certain box where now I've made videos for so long on YouTube that I feel so comfortable with it. And what I wanted to learn how to do is how to actually step outside of that box. I wanna start making videos or making, doing events, but of course that's a little bit harder to do right now because there's certain things in place where we gotta wait a little bit. That's what's going on in the world right now. However, the thing that I want to, the thing that I wanna share is challenge your box because the box is the reason you're stuck. You may feel stuck because you're like, well, this is who I am, but what you've been doing may be getting you the same result over and over again. If you challenge that box, you then see that there's a whole new world. There's a whole new options of things you can experience in your life. So the key to this is knowing what, and then being aware of it and then stretching outside of it, choosing this is what I'm going to do now and break outside of it. Maybe find yourself a little mission example. She was telling me as well, she had this, um, she does like these, um, women like boot camps kind of in a way where like getting women out of her, cause that's like her niche. That's what she does for a living. She's like a relationship coach. And one thing she does, she has like these, um, this thing where women come to her house and then they go off and do missions and stuff as well, kind of in their own way. And one thing that she does is she has them go out and they have to do certain things. Like one of them, one time they had to reenact Titanic in front of like a grocery store, so in like a cart. And they were like blasting "Here Far Wherever You Are," that song. And one of the partners, they'd be partners, one of the partners will have a whistle and anytime the person's not doing what they're supposed to be doing to like break outside their comfort zone, They like blow the whistle in public, which is like a complete, like, scare people to do things, you know. But that's a— it's a very interesting thing because we care so much about what other people think, right? I see so many of you that may be amazing content creators, amazing speakers, amazing doing whatever it is that has been holding you back. There's a story there. There's autopilot responses that have kept you within that box. And if you were to just step outside the box, you would start to feel more free than ever. So the main thing I want to share with you is that the way reality works is you must first, Daniel, you must first be it, then you can do it, then you can have it. But it has to come from that place that this is who I am, not with I am doing this because it will get me somewhere else. I, it's more so I am doing it because this is who I am. Big difference. One's a means to an end, one's an end of itself. You do something because you, you are something because it's who you are. and that's it. Not because it gets you something else. So every single day I'm getting up right now, I'm making a video because it's so much a part of my identity. This is who I am now though. I'm actually working on the opposite of letting go of this identity, still making videos, but eventually doing live events and stuff. So it's going to require a little bit different of my energy and part of me stepping into that's going to be me kind of reverting my focus a little bit. But I promise you, be as if, be that identity now. How does that version of you think? How does that version of you feel? What does that version of you do every day? How does that version of you think about yourself? What is that self-image of that version of you? What are the main beliefs of that version of you? And as you pay attention to these, decide that's who you are now and let go of whatever is not. Just let go of the things that come up, the fear that comes up, just let go of it, become aware of it, and then do it anyway and realize that a lot of what fear is, it's just un— it's just you haven't done something before. It's the uncertainty. Before I made YouTube videos online, it was like that was the unknown. Then I started doing it consistently and then it became a part of my self-image. Became a part of just naturally who I am. And make sure that whoever you are being is also tied to your heart. That's extremely important because if you're not tied to your heart, what you'll find is that you're doing something that you really don't want to do at the deep. Because remember, you're not doing this to get somewhere else. You're not doing this to get certain type of money. You're doing this because it's who you are. So it has to be connected to your heart. That's important as well. So be, do, have. Super simple, super powerful. Just be it now and watch your life begin to change on the outside. All outer reality is, is a reflection of the inner reality. As you begin to change, there may be a little bit of a mirror reflection that kind of lacks for a minute, but eventually the mirror of reality will change. So this is the key. This is also about raising your vibration. When you raise your vibration, it completely changes your life. If you haven't calibrated your vibration yet, I have a free meditation that will be for your Level of vibration plus tell you more about yourself. You can see in the top of the description box below, go ahead and click there and calibrate your vibration. Comment below what that is. Other than that, as always, I'll see you in the next video. Peace, much love, and namaste.










