The truth About Twinflames VS Soulmates you Probably Don't want to Hear About

In this video Aaron Doughty explains the metaphysical framework behind human connections and distinguishes between soulmates and twin flames. He introduces a hierarchy of source energy, oversoul, higher self, and incarnations, using a film‑projector analogy to illustrate multidimensional existence. He defines soulmates as contractual relationships that can be romantic, platonic, or familial, often recurring across lifetimes, and describes how they serve as reflections for learning and balancing energy. Twin flames are presented as counterparts originating from the same higher self/oversoul, typically embodying masculine and feminine polarities, and are said to catalyze deep transformation. Aaron emphasizes that everyone is fundamentally connected, warns against the desperation of “searching” for a half‑soul, and offers practical advice: pursue one’s passion, align with one’s core frequency, set intention, and then let go, allowing the connection to arise naturally. He references teachings from Dolores Cannon, Bashar, and the Law of One, and points viewers to a longer podcast episode for further detail. The video concludes with a call to action to like, subscribe, and reflect on the concepts presented.
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This video, I'm going to show you the truth on twin flames and soulmates that you probably don't want to hear. This goes a lot deeper than I've ever gone before on this idea, and some of this is empowering and some of this really clarifies it so you see it from a completely new point of view. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now, this video I'm going to be sharing with you the difference between a soulmate and a twin flame, and I'm gonna show you the different dynamics that are involved there because it's not always what you think. You might think, oh, in the media or in the way that we learn about it, this is always the way this has to go. However, there are different circumstances or different dynamics of this that may open up your mind to this idea a little bit more to see it in a new way, and it also will explain to you a little bit of the different dynamics of our soul and how we're all connected to each other. Because when— and also what I'll be sharing with you is how you can go about finding or connecting with what you could call soulmates or twin flames. Now, first off, before I even get into it, understand that every single one of us are connected. We all have a connection to each other. That's why I did this little chart right here to show you kind of how it works. The idea is that there is source energy, then we offshoot into what you could call fundamentally an oversoul. This oversoul right here then is connected to different higher selves, and then the different higher selves are then connected to different incarnations. Do you see what I'm doing here or what I'm showing here? Now, if you want more information on this, check out the information of Dolores Cannon. Bashar, the Law of One talks about different levels of existence. Now when we say we're multidimensional, it's because you might exist here at your physical body level, but then you're also connected to our higher self and then your higher self connects to an oversoul. And from the over— think of it like, here's an analogy that makes this easier to understand. Think of a film projector. You have the film projector and on the different film strips are different you. They're different. Maybe you're in one scene and then later on in the movie you're at a completely different age, you're in a different scene. All those frames exist at the same time. Those frames are different aspects of you right here, but the higher self can look at all of those, the film strip at the same time. They're the film projectionist, so they're able to kind of look through them and see them all from that higher point of view. So that analogy a lot of times makes it a little bit easier to see the different dimensions to it. Like there's a dimension of you watching a movie, feeling like you're in the movie, and then looking up at the film projectionist and seeing the film projector go down on the movie. So you see that it's just a movie. In the same way, our physical reality here is a form of illusion. We are infinite spiritual beings having temporary human experiences, but when we make the jump from the higher self into the, the physical self, we have this veil of forgetfulness. It doesn't happen everywhere, but it happens on earth, happens here. It's part of the game that we've decided to play. We've forgotten who we are so that we can remember who we are. Now, what a lot of people do when it comes to twin flames and the idea of soulmates is they go around. This is the, this is the reason I really also want to make this video is people go around looking for it so much. But the thing is, is the more you look for it, a lot of times the more you resist it. The key is to let it go and to know that at the deepest level, you're all connected anyways. We're all connected. We all come from the same source energy. We're just playing a temporary illusion that I am this piece, you are this piece, you are this piece, but in actuality, we're all connected. Now I'm going to use this chart. I'm going to show you what the difference between a soulmate and a twin flame really is. Now in our life, We have set up certain appointments, we have set up certain dynamics, and that is for the purpose of learning. We come here, we forget who we are so that we can go through a learning process. We can in a way sometimes balance out some energy. Maybe there's some energy from past incarnations, from different states where we had a certain energy dynamic and we're balancing out. That could be one thing, but in general, there's a lot of people in our life that we incarnate with over and over and over again, but a lot of times the dynamics will change. For example, in my own family, my brother Alex and my mom, they feel like it's been switched before where my brother Alex was my mom's dad and you could tell because he really has this desire to really always like really take care of her in a very nurturing way where he sometimes acts like her father. So it's interesting to see these different dynamics, but there's different dynamics where there may have been times in your past where you and one of your siblings were enemies. There could have been times in your past where one, you and your sibling were daughter and mother or father-daughter. It could have been all these different dynamics and they're people that you've incarnated with before, but there's different dynamics of the relationship you wanna learn. So you say, how about this time you're the mom I'm the dad, or you're the mom and I'm the daughter, or there's many different dynamics to this. So in a way you have a soul family. You could say it's a soul family. There are people that you incarnate with again and again, and sometimes that's not always the case. Sometimes Bashar— so I watch a lot of Bashar and I've heard him talk about this. He's been doing and giving information on this for like 30 years, and the information is very interesting. People go up to him, ask him a question and say, Bashar, is this— how do I find my twin flame? How do I find my soulmate? And the answer he always gives is that we're all connected and that everyone in your life in the moment is a twin flame or a soulmate. Now that's not the answer that people want to hear when they're asking the question. They want to know, is this person definitely my soulmate? However, understand, first off, soulmates many times can be romantic, and many times soulmates can also be as friends, or soulmates can be as family. You may have your mom, maybe one of your soulmates. Doesn't mean it's romantic. Uh, my buddy Victor Odo, him and I, we believe we are soulmates, not romantic, but we believe that we incarnated here and we chose that we were going to be like as close as we are as friends. We were going to do a lot of business together. We were going to do a lot of things together. We believe and we feel that now. Soulmates are something that doesn't have to be romantic, but it definitely can be. Now, when it comes to twin flame, the way that Bashar's talked about this before, 'cause when he doesn't give his generic answer where you guys are all, everyone's your twin flame in the moment, everyone's your soulmate in the moment, when he doesn't give that, when he does go a little bit more detailed, what he says is, this is the difference between a soulmate and a twin flame. A soulmate is somebody that normally you have a contract with, and that contract is you may live your whole entire lives and be happy. You may have incarnated many other times in the past and been happy and had great, great deep relationships. Sometimes people assume and they put twin flame on this higher pedestal than soulmate, and they both serve a very powerful purpose. They're reflections. Any relationship is a reflection because we're all connected at a certain level. You see now the difference between a soulmate and a twin flame. A twin flame is a counterpart. A twin flame comes from the same oversoul, or that you could even say the same higher self. So think of it like this. Maybe this is one person, person number one, and then this person has a contract with maybe this person over here. And they just, they fall in love and that's like a soulmate type connection, very deep. Maybe that's in their life that maybe they're meant to be in each other's lives their whole entire lives and many, many different lifetimes. Doesn't make it any less special at all. However, that's what they're meant to experience with each other. Now at the same time, there could be somebody that maybe things don't go that well with number 2 after a certain amount, like 3, 5 years. Well, that person, it may have not worked out with, and then you meet someone else. That person still may have been your soulmate. Doesn't mean you were meant to be with your soulmate for eternity. You're an infinite spiritual being living a temporary human experience, so don't discount it because of that. But also, there may have been also other people that are family. You may— your dad, your mom, your brother and sister— they may also be soulmates as well. And then your best friend. You don't— these are different dynamics that happen for a level of reflection. And sometimes what'll happen is you'll have enemies, people in past life who have been enemies, come together to be best friends, to be lovers. You never really know, but it balances out. It could be something that— reflections balance out the energy, could be very deep, very meaningful. Now, a twin flame, on the other hand, is somebody that comes from the same, has a connection to the same higher self. It's called a counterpart, which means you're very deeply connected. And normally what will happen, this is what they, they say normally will happen to a, how about that? Normally what will happen is one will carry the masculine and one will carry the feminine energy. Could mean that it's two males, but one's masculine, one's female. Could mean it's two females. It depends. You know, there's different dynamics, different things people may have signed up for. Does it mean that only heterosexuals can be that of the twin flame dynamic? However, what it means is that there's a counterpart of somebody that has a very similar vibration and has a very similar vibration. It's also connected to the higher self. I've seen one, um, I was listening to one a while ago and I really was digging into this cause I was really curious about it. And Bashar was talking about how you met what is called a counterpart, somebody that was asking a question. You met and you're connecting to what is called a counterpart, somebody that is connected. It's almost like a simultaneous incarnation, very deep, but not to be meant to be put on a much higher pedestal than that of a soulmate because soulmates can also be very deep, many different reincarnational lives. However, this is about understanding those different two dynamics. Now I'm going to tell with you in this video as well how you can meet your twin flame, how you can find your soulmates, the most powerful way. And if you didn't know yet, I have a whole twin flame episode that Leora and Alexandra and I did. That's our most— is the most popular episode on my podcast. I'm going to go and link it in the top description box below. It's 50 minutes long with us talking about some experiences and some things that we've never shared on YouTube. And you can click on it in the top description box below and subscribe to the podcast as well. Cause every Tuesday and Friday there are different types of, um, different, different podcast episodes. Now the other thing you could do is you could smash like on that. I tried to do it. I tried to do this whole cool thing I saw this other guy do. Can you smash that like button? Maybe, just maybe. That would be really cool. I'm just going to start doing that in the beginning of the videos now because it just sounds like fun. It sounds something different too because I always do the same generic thing at the end of the videos. We're not at the end of the video yet, but you smash that like button in the meantime, that would be pretty cool, you know. Now here's the thing as well. When it comes to this process, the most powerful way to know, to, to have a twin flame or a soulmate and to meet one, to find one, is to get to your passion, get to your core frequency of what you love doing. Reason being is when you are doing what you love, you are in your most powerful alignment. You are most likely then meet the other person that can reflect that back to you. But if you're not the core of who you are, you're not gonna meet them who they are looking for your core energy in a way. So there's certain appointments that you've made and there's a certain energy that they may subconsciously know that when they meet, this is the person, this is the one, this is the whatever. Now they're never gonna find you if you are not vibrating in the same frequency of who you really are, you doing what you're passionate about, you going forward in a powerful way. So the key to this is understanding that the most powerful way to find your twin flame or your soulmate is to do what you're passionate about and to be yourself in every moment. Now I know that's a very cliché thing, but nonetheless, that is the key. And the second step to this is completely letting go of it. There's— the more you go around going, are you my twin flame?
Are you my twin flame? Are you my twin flame? Are you my twin flame? Are you my twin flame? Are you my twin flame? Are you my twin flame? Are you my twin flame?
The more that you are putting out this resistance that then is causing it to where you're externalizing your own happiness. Many times a twin flame, the people that are really into that believe that they're only half a person, half a soul, and they're looking for their other half of their soul. And because of that meaning, they're desperately trying to find it. But when you realize you're already whole and complete, when you realize that you can be in what you love doing, that'll be your best bet to finding that other person or that level of connection because you are so at the core of who you are. But the key to this is not looking for it in that way. Are you my soulmate? Are you my soulmate?
Are you my soulmate? Are you my twin flame? Are you my—
like that book, there was a book I grew up reading. It was like, not grew up, I mean, it was like a Dr. Seuss book. It's called Are You My Mother? So a chicken or something goes around and goes, are you my mom? Are you my mother? Are you my mother? Are you my mother? Asking like a human and like a basketball or something. I don't know. It's been like a long time since I read that book, but that's the idea. But I feel like I see that happen a lot and I understand, I understand that people want a deep connection. People want to, to, to find that in other people, but understand that we can stop and drop these labels because at the deepest level we're all connected. What if we could have a soulmate connection with every single person that comes into our life? If we were to get to our core and to realize this understanding that we're all connected. You see, it's a very powerful understanding, but in general, the difference between a soulmate and a twin flame is that a soulmate is somebody that you have a contract with, somebody that you may have known in many different lives, somebody that you may meant to have a whole entire life connection with. This person doesn't mean anything less than a twin flame, whereas that of a counterpart twin flame is somebody that comes from the same higher self. Which means it's very deep and a lot of times there's a lot of work that needs to be done there because there's a lot of reflection that happens. A lot of times, well, from what I understand, twin flames come together for times of deep transformation and deep work, work even at a greater level. That's what we've been told. Um, and in that episode of Leo Alexander and I, we go deeper on this, but we were told that the idea or what a twin flame— twin flames come together to activate each other and twin flames come together. So that they can do some type of deeper work. So this is the power of understanding that. And many times there'll be things that get brought up. I talk about that once again in the podcast episode because a lot of things got brought up within me having this kind of realization, things I couldn't even understand. And I realize now they're past life things. There were things like that. And it's part of the process though. But these are all convenient terms that we use to label and understand different connections we may have. But the key is to know that the map is not where the power is. The power is within you, and you could start to realize that you're connected to everyone. You are connected to everyone, and then you're gonna start feeling more connection. But at the same time, if you're trying to find your soulmate, the best thing you can do is to not look and to just be in the frame of your own movie. Do what you love to do. Maybe set an intention for it, but then let it go. Say for a twin flame, you wanna meet your twin flame connection? Do it in meditation. Do it and tap into the own twin flame energy within yourself of you feeling whole and complete. And then do what you're passionate about because that is the best, quickest route to you finding these other aspects of you and these connections of you. So with that being said, you will see the podcast episode down below. Let me know what you thought of this episode. What do you think about twin flames and soulmates? Does this resonate? Did you smash the like button? I said it right that time. Did you smash the like button? If not, that'd be really cool. So with that being said, also hit the notification bell so you can see the daily videos on YouTube because that's the only way YouTube does that now for some reason. And then other than that, as always, I hope you enjoyed this video. Peace, much love, and namaste.
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