In this monologue, the speaker frames sexual energy as one of the most potent life‑force forces in the body, symbolized by a cup that can be either filled or spilled. He argues that common practices such as frequent masturbation or casual, mindless sex act as a wasteful "spilling" of this energy, leading to lethargy, reduced enthusiasm, and hormonal drops (testosterone for men, oxytocin fluctuations for women). The talk explains that sexual encounters involve an energetic exchange: when we share intimacy with partners who carry unresolved trauma or emotional baggage, we may absorb their “energy cords” and even affect our DNA epigenetically, especially for women. Consequently, indiscriminate sharing can deplete one’s own vibrational frequency. The speaker advocates protecting and consciously directing sexual energy—using it to boost vitality, creativity, and spiritual growth—drawing on ancient Kundalini concepts of channeling this force through the body. Practical advice includes a 30‑day abstinence challenge, setting clear boundaries about who to share sexual energy with, and employing the conserved energy toward personal goals. Personal anecdotes illustrate how the speaker experiences heightened energy when he limits masturbation and aligns sexual intimacy with deep, loving connections. The video concludes with typical YouTube calls to action and an invitation to explore further content on sexual energy.
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When it comes to vibration and how much energy you have, sexual energy symbolized by this cup right here is one of the most potent energy centers that we have in our body. Now, when we are going out and what we are doing is we are wasting it. Now, wasting it could be one, could be a form of masturbation. There's some people that masturbate every single night and think of it, you're just literally spilling it, spilling it everywhere. It's not going anywhere. It's not going towards any actual purpose. It's just being spilled, making a mess. Now, that's one way that a lot of people use their sexual energy. They waste it. They pour it out everywhere. They make a mess, and they're energetically literally depleting themselves. And what happens is then they feel lethargic. They don't know why they don't have that much energy. When they talk, they don't have a lot of enthusiasm or passion in their voice. Well, literally what they are doing is they are getting their life force energy energy and they are spilling it everywhere and wasting it. And then what happens is when we talk about the vibration of sharing sexual energy, it could be a very magical thing, can be a very sacred thing. But sometimes what happens is understanding the connection that we make to other people and how that vibration of the other person, we in a way mix with that. Imagine that you are going out and you are sleeping with many different people. So imagine that you are then mixing your energy with them. You are then, I mean, that's what happens when you are having sex. What happens is then the pure energy that you have, if you are doing it mindlessly, let's say you're doing it with people that maybe have a lot of trauma, maybe you're doing it with people that, you know, it's giving you an ego gratification, but there's a lot of stuff underneath the surface that you're absorbing. You may not even know it. And then what happens is you go out and you're literally giving your energy to other people, filling up their cups. But imagine that what happens is when you keep doing it and you're doing it from a place of maybe validation or your, your mind, you're not aware, uh, you know, when it's with somebody that you really love or it's somebody that you really connect to, it's a different type of energy. It could then be self-sustaining and actually fill up your cup, but realize you're energetically mingling with other people and if you hardly know them, you may be taking on energy that you're not even aware of. Could be an energy cord. You know, they talk about this in some esoteric traditions, but cords that we literally connect to when we connect to other people. But they've actually shown epigenetically that when two people have sex, especially for the woman, the energy is absorbed inside of her and then that changes the DNA and the genes, which is very interesting. And it's something to very much be aware of and it'd be, more protection of your own sacred sexual energy. Because what happens is when we continue to waste it by putting it on the counter, when we continue to mix it with other people and we're not aware of the things that they have under the surface, imagine they had gunk in the bottom and you're, you're moving that around and then you feel afterwards, you can feel kind of drained and depleted. Well, one of the reasons could be is because literally some of that energy now is something that you're dealing with. So when it comes to this, realize you can use your sexual energy for just about anything. You can use it towards certain goals. You can use it and you'll literally feel that you have more vitality. I know that when there is, when it's just being wasted, there is a drop in energy. For men, what happens is there is a drop in testosterone. There is a drop in actually oxytocin, ironically enough. For a woman, It's— there's normally, if especially if it's with somebody else, there's an increase in oxytocin. There's certain increases, but when it's being wasted, when we're mindlessly throwing out sexual energy, it is maybe the reason people feel fatigued. It is why maybe people feel like they're absorbing other people's energy. Maybe the best thing you could do is draw boundaries around your own sexual energy. I'm very mindful with who I share sexual energy with because I understand that it is an interplay of energy energy. It's literally a mixing of energy. And what happens is when you are especially doing it too often, you may be literally emptying out your cup so much that what happens is you are left with not much energy. So when it comes to sexual energy, realize that what you can instead do is that pure potential, that, that just the water that you saw in the beginning of this glass, you can use that. You can harness that. You can be more protective of it and you can use that towards your desires. You can water plants with it. You can create some type of purpose with it. And that's why in ancient traditions they talked about like Kundalini energy, which is where what they would do is they would bring that energy from this area up through the body, through the heart, and then they would use that in very specific ways, very powerful ways. But I'd say if there's one main message of this video, it's to stop wasting your sexual energy, stop spilling it over the counter, and to have more boundaries when it comes to who you are sharing your sexual energy with. Because if they have unprocessed trauma, if they have a lot of emotional baggage, if they, they may be hot, but guess what? There may be an emotional thing underneath that that dampens your vibration. Your energy doesn't need to mean you're afraid or you feel guilty anytime you are sharing sexual energy with somebody, but I would recommend you do it with someone that you actually know, and not just know, but you feel comfortable with their energy. You feel safe, even love. These are very powerful ways, but when you You know, for me personally, I'm not selective in a judgmental way, but I mean, in a way, yeah, I am very, I become selective with this because I understand the interplay of energy. And some people would look at that, it's like, oh, you're not enjoying life as much. You're not going around and just doing this or that. But the thing is, is when you start realizing, no, I use that sexual energy towards what I do for a living, towards my own creativity, towards even having the idea to get up early in the morning to make this video right now. I have an insane amount of energy and a lot of people ask me what I do. Is it some coffee? Is it espresso? Is it all this other, you know, whatever else people may do? Or is it kombucha or something? Um, the truth is, even though I have kombucha in the fridge, first off, I hardly drink it because I found out that when I drink kombucha, especially too late at night, if I drink it past like 3 or 4 in the afternoon, for some reason I don't sleep good at night. But in general, What I have found is that I don't, I have an insane amount of energy, I believe, because I harness that energy. I use that energy. So one thing I would recommend all you to do, try to go 30 days without masturbating or 30 days without, especially, you know, when you find out why you might be having sex with other people and sharing sexual energy, you might realize that there's a shadow there. Maybe it's you want significance, you're trying to, fill some type of hole. Maybe it's you're getting validation out of it. When you start becoming aware of and you start bringing it more about your relationship with self, a lot changes. Doesn't mean you can't share energy with other people, but do it with awareness. Do it not because you're trying to distract yourself from who you are and realize that if you are wasting the sexual energy, you can begin to use it in very powerful ways. I have a lot of energy because I believe that I harness that energy in very unique ways. And one of the ways I do that is I just, I do not masturbate very often. And one of the reasons is because I know that I'm wasting that energy. And same thing when it comes to sharing sexual energy. I just make sure I'm doing it with somebody that I really like, somebody that I really have a connection with, not somebody that is just, you know, it's something where there's a lot under the surface that might be there. If I, you can feel into it and find out what's true for you. I'm not trying to make you feel guilty about any this stuff, but I'm just trying to help you understand a new way of going about things, that the sexual energy that you have is a very sacred thing and it can be used for your purpose, spiritual growth. It can be used even just enjoying yourself, but not in a place of wasting it mindlessly like a lot of people do. There's a lot of people that do that before they go to bed every single night. That's a lot of energy that is being wasted. So if you want me to talk more about this, let me know. Uh, if you haven't already, subscribe below, hit the like button if you liked videos, even though this is more of an edgy video. If you like the metaphor videos, can you smash the like button? Other than that, I have another video on sexual energy that I will link below. You can check that out too, and I'll put it as the end card right here. And other than that, as always, I'll talk to you guys in the next video. Peace, much love, and namaste.
