The Vibration of Trusting the Universe (and NOT controlling it)

I used to feel like I had to do everything. Like if things weren't happening the way I wanted them to, I would try to control them. I would try to force them. I would feel a ton of resistance and then people would say things like, hey bro, just trust the universe. And I'd be like, what are you talking about, man? I gotta make this happen. I gotta do this. However, there's this one shift when I made with the way that I relate to this topic that changed everything. And in this video, what I want to do is share with you exactly what that is. It has to do with, first off, a little spoiler alert, has to do with understanding the universe is you. Literally, the universe, everything you experience in life is a reflection of you. We are one. We are one consciousness. We still have an individual process and experience, but when we stop delineating and we stop separating the universe from being something out there that's doing things to us, and instead we start to see the universe as a reflection, we can then learn to trust ourselves more. And as we trust ourselves more, we then find that we're able to then trust the universe. But I'm not talking about the ego self. I'm talking about this larger dimension to you. So in this video, we're going to go over the 101 of trusting the universe, how to do it, me simplifying the process in the easiest way I can and show you how I've made my life so much easier where I don't have to control things, hold it, hold the universe by its neck trying to demand that it gives me what I want. And now I'm able to have this easy flow through life where things don't have to be so resistant and where I focus more on myself, which then changes my outer reality. All right, welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. And on this video, we're going to be going deep on understanding, trusting the universe. And how to really trust and understanding what this really means. Because when we hear about this, it seems to be this like esoteric pie in the sky type thing where it's like, oh, trust. And then it also a lot of times is associated with being passive. And I think that the most important thing with understanding trust in the universe is understanding the separation between the ego and the universe, and then understanding that it's all actually connected as well. So let me explain to you exactly what I mean by this. Now, understand this about the ego. The ego, its job is survival. The ego just wants to survive. The ego doesn't necessarily want to thrive. The ego doesn't want you to step out of your comfort zone because that feels a little bit, or a lot, scary. The ego wants you to remain safe in your identity for who you are. And the thing about this is understanding that and then understanding that You can't create something new from the known. The known, think about it, it's how you think, act, and feel. Dr. Joe Dispenza talks a lot about this. If you always do what you think, thought, and feel, it's on autopilot. Normally 90 or 70,000 thoughts a day we think are on autopilot, 90% of them. We're creating the same things day in and day out. And what happens is we then become rigid. I know in my life I was becoming very rigid. With my own beliefs. Even now, for example, you may notice that I went from making 5 videos a week on YouTube down to 3, and before that it was 7 videos a week. And there's a part of me that's almost afraid to put my energy into other things because of the growth and the comfortability that I feel on YouTube. Yet I know that this next step for me of what I'm doing is building something bigger. I'm building a kind of like a spoiler, but I'm building a, uh, an app, a platform. That has to do with connecting us all over the world and then doing live meditations, having a meditation storehouse of a whole bunch of premium meditations. Also where I can create content that's not censored, stuff like that. And yeah, I'm creating that right now and it'll be ready soon, but because it requires my energy, I'm having to let go of how much energy I'm putting into YouTube, which is kind of scary, you know, because the ego wants to survive and I have a part of my ego that's tied to being a YouTuber. When people ask me what I do, or they think about, they associate me with being a YouTuber and I'm like, well, I'm now wanting to make a platform that's not all about my identity. It's about, you know, doing live meditations and all this other cool stuff that I'm actually really passionate about. But I can tell that there's a part of my mind, which is also the ego, that's afraid of letting go. And I even relate this back to when I used to, you know, sell women's shoes. And even though I knew that part of my passion, part of who I really came here to be was to be sharing these ideas, there was a part of me that was afraid to really jump into that. And really honestly, to even put in my 2 weeks was kind of a scary thing because like, what if it doesn't work out? What if I go all in on YouTube and then it doesn't work out and then I try to go back to my job and they don't accept me anymore? And that was like my fear. And then what I had to eventually do though is I had to trust a larger vision. I had to have more trust in myself because before that I didn't really trust myself. I didn't, the way I thought about myself is I had a belief that people aren't gonna wanna have to listen to what I have to say. I had a belief that said that maybe I don't know enough in order to help people. You know, I'm not like some rich guy that can help people and that was like holding me back from going daily on YouTube. But then eventually one day I just had this trust in myself and I said, you know what? I have to just go into this vision. I just have to be this version of myself. I felt like it was more of a connection to my higher self and I simply trusted that vision and I trusted that process. And within a couple months, videos went viral and I was able to put my 2 weeks in after about 6 months. And many of you know the story, but my last day was the Conor McGregor Mayweather fight. That was my last day of work 'cause it was a sales commission job. And I knew I was gonna make a lot of money that day and I put in my 2 weeks, watched the fight that night, and that was like the end of 9-to-5 job. And the trust though that I have to have in the universe was directly proportionate to the trust that I had to have in myself. So realize this is both. It's not to say don't trust your ego at all, but it's also saying realize the trust in the universe, knowing that the universe is a reflection and you're always getting a reflection. The more I trusted myself, the more I believed that what I had to say would give value to people or would help people, the more other people would feel that energy off of me. You see, that's the difference because people feel what you feel about you, but realize all there is in the universe is you at the deepest level. You're having an individual experience, but everything is bouncing off of you energetically and it's responding to you and how you treat you. So trust in the universe. Realize this about trust. The ego wants to keep you in a box, wants to keep things safe, and the ego has a lot of beliefs. The ego believes this, and a lot of times beliefs are borrowed. It believes that you're not worthy. That's a borrowed belief, maybe from your parents, maybe from a couple experiences growing up. But understand that when you start to realize that a lot of beliefs are conditioned, uh, they're like social conditioning, you start waking up from that. Then you can start to question them and realize that when we're trying to keep things in a box, we have to control things, we feel a lot of resistance. You know, there's a very powerful process that I use of just letting go that I think helps me trust too. I think that the degree to which we can let go of control is the degree to which we can also trust. So letting go is simply feeling the emotions as they come up, allowing them to be there, and then making the choice to let it go. But see, the choice to let this go is hard to make when you put so much power and emphasis on that of the box, the comfort zone. So the key to this is trusting that you can let go of that comfort, knowing that then you can step into something new. You see, so the reasoning, I always say this, but letting go isn't actually hard. It's making the choice to let go that is hard because there's all these kind of attachments that we have that letting go, if I let something go, I won't actually attract it. If I let go, of attracting love, then it won't come. But actually when you let go, you become vibrationally free of resistance. Then your energy is much more magnetic anyways. So realize that trust in this process is letting go of trying to control and it's letting go of negative beliefs about yourself. I had to let go of the belief that people didn't really care what I had to say. I had to let go of the belief that said that I have to stay in this comfortable 9 to 5 job. And then what I did is I started to step into the unknown. I started making the daily videos. I started even now on YouTube, I'm starting to like, you know, make this app and really put my energy into it. Even if that means, you know, I'm taking that back as much energy as I can put into, you know, making daily videos on YouTube. But the idea is that the unknown is where magic happens anyways, but in the unknown is where there's a freshness, there's an aliveness, there's also more beingness. You are allowing and accepting new things into your life to the degree to which you can let go of the comfort zone of the old. Let me say that one more time. The allowing and the accepting of new things is in direct proportion to how much you can let go of thinking the ego has it all figured out, of thinking the ego needs to force and trust and like, you know, like put its hands around the universe. So the The key to this that I have found, and one of the most powerful parts of this, is understanding being present and doing things for an end result— not for an end result, but doing things because you're passionate about it. Being more focused in the present moment. Even think about it when it comes to trusting. The thing I've been learning to do recently is how to be more present, and the way that I do this is I actually bring the energy more inside of my body. I do meditations where literally what I do is I put my hands like this, and what I do is I feel the energy go into my feet, into my hands, and I feel safe, and I trust that energy inside of my body. And as I'm becoming more present, there's more of this, this energy of being to where the new experiences come in. Most people are just in their heads though. They're in their mind. They're thinking of the past or thinking of the future, and they're projecting themselves. And because of that, their energy is then scattered. Then they can't really trust because they don't even trust that they're inside of their own body. But realize this, the more you trust, the more you will allow in and accept amazing new experiences. And one of the most powerful ways to do this is to also heal your inner child. Your inner child in the past may have had things that happened to where then the inner child didn't trust himself or herself, or maybe the child didn't trust the course of their life. But a lot of times this is rooted in childhood and many of you know, but I had a rougher childhood like many of you did too, because that led to the pressure that created your spiritual awakening. But what happens is when you start to heal that inner child, you will then start to trust the universe in a very strong way. So something that I have right now as well that I just created, we did this guided meditation where we went to actually, we do this visualization where we went to Kauai. They say that Kauai, which is in Hawaii, is like an energetic space where souls come in and leave. It's a very powerful portal energy. I know it sounds very esoteric and woo-woo, but of that on planet Earth. So what we do is we do a guided meditation where we go to that space and we heal our own inner child. It's one of the most powerful meditations I've ever made. If you want it, what you can do, by the way, is you can text me. This is the number. You can also ask me questions here as well, and I respond as much as I can to people. but you can text me or if you want that meditation, put the words and text me the words heal, H-E-A-L, to 424-304-0104. That's my number. And what I'll do is I will text you the meditation, the inner child meditation that I'm talking about here, or you could see a link below that you can click as well and that will be the meditation for you. But realize that trusting, you're always trusting in something. This is another important part of it. Trust, you never really, I got this from Bashar, but you never really doubt. You have 100% trust in something. You just might have 100% trust in a belief that says I'm not worthy. You may have a 100, you may have a trust in a belief that says I can't do that. I'm not worthy of doing that. I'm not capable of doing that. So you're always trusting in something. The key is just what are you trusting in? You may be overly trusting in your ego, in your mind to a place to where it's trying to control If you're trying to control, you're saying you don't trust the universe. You don't trust a larger part of yourself, the higher self, and it's trying to take on the burden on the back and do it, and then it's creating resistance versus allowing more so. So realize the universe is a reflection of you. The universe is the unknown. It is stepping into the unknown and focused on being, focused on being in the body, doing what you are passionate about, and then trusting the results. Remember, the key to this as well, to trusting, is having an intention for what you want to experience but not being attached to how things happen, allowing the universe to then give you a reflection more of what you want and allowing the new to come in. Step into the new. And it does, it does, uh, take a little bit of courage to really trust the universe, but the more you do it, the more you get this positive results where then you feel so loose, you don't feel like you have to do as much. And then you get this reference experience that then proves it to you. It says, I can trust more and more. And the more you trust, the more you find that things happen easier than ever. So if you didn't know as well, I'm going to be, uh, I'm actually putting more energy into this channel. So if you haven't already, you can subscribe by clicking the link below. I'm going to be doing more more videos similar to this. If you want that meditation, text the word heal to 424-304-0104. Other than that, hope you guys enjoyed this video. Peace, much love, and namaste.