The Vibration of Unconditional Love REVEALED 3 Secrets that will change your life

This video, I'm going to share with you the vibration of unconditional love and show you 3 secrets that will change your life if you begin to apply them today. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be sharing with you the 3 secrets that can change your life forever when it comes to unconditional love. This is very different from the way that we normally think about love. But as you know, on that scale of consciousness that I share in many different videos, love is one of the higher vibrational emotions. And it's actually the core of who we really are. But we grow up thinking we are these separate little egos, and then we put conditions on what it takes to be happy. Think about how funny that is too. We put conditions as to what it takes for us to be happy. We put rules in our mind that says, if this person does this, then I will feel love. If I do this, then I can feel love. If I accomplish this, then I can feel love. Instead of knowing it can be unconditional. And by letting go of those rules, we feel love more than ever. So think, it's just like, why not get rid of the rules? Why not get rid of the conditions and just feel love? But it's because the ego likes to attach itself to things. So what I thought I would do as well is I'm at this really cool Airbnb right now with my buddy Victor, and we are, um, here for like 3 days. Uh, this is where I'm filming videos. I kind of just show you. Just figured I'd show you a little behind the scenes type stuff. This is about, this is one of the balconies right over here. I'll kinda show you, this is, so it's got like, a lot of these houses in California have like these stairs that come up if it's like an upstairs unit. Real open floor plan, I love that. And then over here, I'll show you. There's like this really nice balcony thing. This is like the room that I'm in and then we go up. Right over here. Like this. What's up, dude? Hi. Hi. Okay, look. Upstairs? Yeah. I'm gonna show him upstairs real quick. So yeah, so I was like, okay, I'm gonna film a video. He came out here, he's doing his brainstorming. This is it up here. This is really cool. I was up here last night, but it was kinda rainy. It was kinda hard to sit. But it's really cool, the stars were out. So, I'm gonna go back downstairs because it's too bright up there. Okay, bro, I'll see you in a little bit. Bye. Okay, cool. So when it comes to this process— turn this around real quick as I just hit my knee and it really, really hurt. Okay, so when it comes to conditional love— whoa, looks like I ascended into an avatar or something. When it comes to unconditional love, it's who we naturally are, and we just have these rules in our mind as to what it takes for us to be happy and what it takes for us to love other other people. Now the, the key to this also has a certain level to do with presence, not like gift presents, presence like being present to the moment, just being, because when you're just being, you're not projecting yourself to the past or the future, the past of what should have happened but didn't, or the future of what you want to happen, and you're able to just be present to the moment. So there's also a correlation between just being and accepting the present moment and feeling unconditional love. Now let me share with you how this has shown up in my own life. Well, recently I realized that I have certain expectations and rules as to what certain people in my life need to do and how they need to communicate with me in order for me to feel love for them. So I became aware of this actually a couple of days ago. That's kind of what inspired me to make this video, but I realized that I had expectations for someone to process emotions in a similar way that I did and like to communicate that with me. But what I realized is that I was putting conditions on this person and I was in my mind saying that if you do this the way that I expect you to do it, then I can love you. And I realized that I was also in a way making this person feel guilty for not, for not adhering to my expectation. So the power of this though that I'm sharing with you is that that's not actually love. Many of us think that we are feeling love for other people. We think that the old school way of, of relationships, that is, that is love, but that's not really love. That's conditional love that's dependent on whether we're getting and receiving what we think we need. You see, the key to this is unconditional love. So what I realized, it's kind of hard for my ego to, to, to do this, but what I realized, I had to let go of those conditions. I had to love this person regardless of how they interpret emotion and how they express it back to me. And the moment I did this is the moment I began to let go of this negativity from my energy field. And when I started to let go of that negativity from my energy, I started to feel better. Now here's the thing. The ego has this insidious thing where the ego always wants to be right. So my ego was telling myself, this person needs to communicate with me in this way because if they're not, then they're wrong. And my ego wants to be right, but the payoff— the ego wants to be right— the payoff to that many times is negative. We get this rush of adrenaline that we are right, but then the payoff, the negative side of that, is that then we feel miserable while we're beating ourselves up about stuff. And I remember that after this situation happened, I went out, I was at the gym and stuff, and it was just on my mind, it was on my mind, and I was feeling— I'm like, why am I— why am I doing this to myself? Why do I have this expectation? This person needs to be like that. And then what I did is I just let it go and I accepted the situation for what it is. And I realized that this person processes emotion in a certain way and that my job is to accept this person 100%. Have you ever had that happen in your life where you wanted someone to do something and you realize that at a certain level that may be conditional love, that You know, of course there's a balance of this. Doesn't mean you accept, like if someone's abusing you, you're, I just accept this because if I don't, then I'm resisting you. You still have boundaries, but at the same time you focus more on you and your unconditional lovingness, your natural vibration. So something else I'm going to share with you in a minute is, uh, And if you haven't seen it yet, people have been giving, like, reaching out to me saying it completely changes people's lives. This is what I'm about to share with you. There's a process. So think of it like your energy field right here. There's a process called Ho'oponopono, and what this is, is it's a process for simple statements. It's I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you. And by saying these 4 things over and over again, what you begin to do and you begin to feeling in them, and I have a video that explains it and has a 15-minute meditation that you can listen to while you're in the car. You can listen to it when you're traveling. The more you listen to this meditation, the more that it clears out your energy field. It's called cleaning. You're cleaning out your energy field. So the one thing I did as well when I had that situation where I realized I had conditional love is I immediately started doing Ho'oponopono, and I would— I was doing it on myself, on the person. And understand, there is no other you. Everyone is a reflection of you. So what you're cleaning is you're cleaning your perception of them not being whole and complete already. Me saying that this this person wasn't doing the way things they were supposed to do, was thinking of them in a way to where they weren't whole and complete. So I'm sorry for viewing them that way. Please forgive me for seeing you less than the divine spark that you are, the divine essence you are. Thank you for forgiving me. Thank you for being yourself. I love you the way you are. Those 4 statements right there can change your life. And Ho'oponopono with the meditation I have is a complete game changer. Listen to that for 21 days. It will transform your life because you will transform your energy field. I want to write like an article one day or a book or some shit called Transform Your Energy, Transform Your Life, Transform Your Energy Field, Transform Your Life. So I'll put that in the top of the description box below that, um, that meditation. Let's do for 21 days. Now the second step to this is, is I want to talk about being without conditions in the sense of acceptance. Acceptance is the doorway to unconditional love. Accepting things for the way they are. See, this is a transformation right here. What I'm about to share with you could completely transform your life in the present moment right now. You think that you're not good enough already. If you're doing self-help, if you're looking at different things, you may believe that you're not good enough already, which means that you're emphasizing you not being whole and complete. And because you're emphasizing you're not whole and complete, it then is is what is emphasizing more and more of you needing to fix yourself. Instead, you could just accept yourself 100%. You could accept yourself, and by accepting yourself, you can then transform. The first, the doorway to this, to moving up the scale, is acceptance, accepting yourself. What if instead of saying, oh, there's a problem here, I need to do this differently, I need to do this one, you just started to accept yourself more? You would raise your vibration, you would feel more confident about yourself. So much would begin to change, but acceptance is the doorway first. I had to accept the other person that I was viewing as less than perfect and having conditions to accept them the way they are. Acceptance was the doorway to that unconditional love. And I realized that at the deepest level, there is no other. I know this is a very deep idea, but there really is no other. So me believing that somebody else isn't whole and complete, me not accepting them for the way they are is keeping that in my energetic field. And they are doing everything they can to remain consistent to that view that in my own head of them. Do you see the difference here? So, so because there is no other, that is why unconditional love is the vibration of our reality. It's just that we have been led to believe that we are all separate beings having different ego perceptions. Imagine this. Imagine that you are you are viewed in a scope so fine pointed, but imagine that you can just see one little thing, one person, but then imagine you were to expand that scope back more and more, like expand your awareness, like I say in all my videos, and instead of seeing just one person, you then saw a whole planet and instead of seeing every single person on the planet as separate people, you saw every single thing on the planet as one unit. You would then say, why would you hurt someone else? Why would you go to war against someone else? It's all relative based on our level of identity. Imagine that you are— okay, so it's funny because we will go at war with each other on this planet. Okay, but imagine you went to a planet to where there was no other people that were in the same— that looked like you, and then you saw someone else that was of a different race but from Earth. You would feel an immediate connection to that person because of how relevant it is. Because you may be in some land that's like jellyfish swimming around and stuff, swimming in the air, and then you see a person, no matter what race they are, they could be the most furthest away culture that you can imagine, maybe even a culture that you don't really like, but you would feel connected to that person because they have more in common with you than the jellyfish thing that's swimming around. You see? It's all based on relevance, but if you were to scope, okay, even if you were to expand your scope beyond that, you would then see that even the jellyfish are in the same, are in the same space as you and you may see yourself connected to them as well. So this is all relevant. How much are you going to emphasize the ego? How much are you going to emphasize the separateness? Because this is a dream of separateness. This reality is a dream that we're currently living in to have the experience of being separate individual units. And in this lifetime we've come here to wake up to remembering that we're all connected. That's what the material called the Law of One talks about. That's what a lot of other— that's the work of Dolores Cannon with the hypnotherapy. That's what a lot of people say. They came here right now to go through this shift in consciousness. The shift in consciousness is the awareness that everyone is connected. What you do to someone else, you do to another aspect of yourself. That's why we have karma. What you put out is what you get back. Why is that? Because those other people are other versions of you. So the idea is to be aware of this and then to see that there really is no other. So that's when you can start to tap into love. And you ever heard that, that, that quote from, um, was it like Mother Teresa? It's like, I'll never go to a protest or something like that, but if you have like a walk of love or something, I'll go to that. Well, that's a similar thing as to what I'm talking about. If you see yourself as connected, you're more in the vibration of that integration. But trying to change everything makes more of that— it butchers up that vibration in general. Now the last thing I want to talk about is a perspective of enlightenment. I've shared this story before with Sadhguru, but this will just kind of give you an idea for what I mean by unconditional love here. Sadhguru, who is like one of the most famous enlightened people on the planet right now, 3 million YouTube subscribers I believe. Um, his information is really good though and very high vibrational being. And what he talks about is his enlightenment experience. He went to this hill called Chandni Hill or something. I don't even know if I'm saying that right. And what happened was is he goes to this hill and he was working on the light, he was doing yoga and stuff, and he goes to that hill and he's looking out and that's when his enlightenment hit him. He had this realization and changed his life forever. His body posture, everything about him changed. But what that realization was is he was standing at the top of Chandni Hill looking out at this amazing view and all of a sudden he could not find where he began and where he ended. Everything he saw was him. He realized that everything he perceived of was more of him. He could not find out. So what he did is he expanded his identity out of the individual unit of consciousness and into the larger consciousness system. And because of that, he didn't feel unconditional love for everyone. He said before enlightenment, he would, he would emphasize it, said before enlightenment, he'd be like, well, I am me and you are you. There's nothing, I have no problem with you, but I am me and you are you. After enlightenment, there was no separation. He is everything. He is everyone. You see this cosmic dream that we live in. The more we expand our consciousness, the more we realize that identification with the little ego is what causes all the problems. The ego doesn't want to accept things. The ego always wants to be better. The ego always wants to change other people. The ego always wants things to go according to its plan and its own mind. But when you start to observe the ego, you start to gain your power back. And even beyond that observation of the ego, when you start to understand that the ego is doing its job, but that you are everything you come into contact with, everyone is a reflection of you. There is no outer reality other than it being a reflection. So if you want to change anything on the outside, as you know, you must first off change the inside. How do you change the inside? You first become aware of what's inside. You become aware of how you feel, become aware of your ego and how you identify with other things. Become aware of the, the need you have to be right. The ego loves to be right, even if it causes negative emotion. The ego gets an adrenaline rush of being right. You shouldn't be this way. You should be this way. Let me prove to you you shouldn't be this way, and if I prove it, then I get this rush of adrenaline. Yes, I would I was miserable for 10 minutes while I was coming to this realization, but nonetheless, it's about being aware of that necessity to be right and choosing to just be in the moment. Accept the moment for what it is. The acceptance is the doorway. There is no other you. You live in a reality right now where it's just you dreaming you are this separate unit of consciousness. The key though is realizing that everything is you. Everything is love. Everything is something that you can connect to. The reason unconditional love is the fabric of the universe— how do I know this? I asked Bashar, okay? I asked Bashar and he said something about that. But also study any— I mean, find out for yourself. Get to your core. Start to become more aware of your ego. Start to see yourself as connected to other people and see how that makes you feel. Go through experience. So much of our life is based on what people tell us. If we just instead go straight to experience, like, yes, somebody said that this is how this is, but instead I'm just gonna experience it for myself. Watch, because you may— you treat everything as if you just chose it. If you treat everything as if you're experiencing it for the first time, you'll live in a magical reality. Let go of the past. Be here now. Be unconditional love because that's who you are. Don't have expectations for other people. Realize that in your energy field, these rules you have are keeping you from feeling happiness, keeping you from feeling love. Get rid of the rules and you will be in unconditional love. So with that being said, I— if you want that meditation, by the way, the Ho'oponopono meditation, it's one of the most powerful. It's just something you can say in the background. Let's do it for 21 days. Watch how it changes your life. It'll be in the top of the description box below. Also hit the notification bell to see the daily vids. 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