The Vibration of Wanting Love and Relationships VS Having (the missing key to attracting love)

This video, I'm going to be showing you the vibrational difference between wanting love or relationship into your life to actually having love or relationship in your life. In this video, I'll show you exactly what to do so that you create it in your life easier than ever. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be sharing with you that vibrational difference between wanting love and a relationship, and then actually having love or a relationship in your life as a reflection. Now, the first thing to understand is that we have an energetic field around our body that other people can feel, and how we feel about ourselves is being projected out into the world. So for example, if we feel insecure about something and we go out into public, Many times what'll happen is someone may notice that insecurity or they may pick up on it, or you may feel like they're judging you. However, if you were to not even focus on that insecurity, then they wouldn't even be able to pay it. They wouldn't even pay attention to it. But in a way, the more we feel insecure about something or the more we focus on it and resist it, the more we are emphasizing it, the more that we are activating it within our energetic fields. Now, this is a big common thing when we talk about the law of attraction and we talk about manifestation or understanding how our thoughts create our reality. It's thinking that desire is the key to everything. But you see, if desire turns you into taking action, then that can be powerful. But normally what people do is they remain in the vibration of wanting. And anytime we say I want, we are also saying I don't have. Like, would I want to be making a video right now? I wanna make a video. I wanna make a video. I wanna make a video. Well, I'm making a video, so I'm not in the vibration of wanting. I'm making a video right now, so I'm in the vibration of having or being. You see, but that's the key is understanding the difference because if we want something, we are saying we don't have it. I wouldn't drink water and go, I want water. You might say, I wanted water, but now I have water. You see, but a lot of people will remain in the want vibration and say, I want a relationship. They'll look at another couple and they'll go, I want that. They'll look somewhere else and go, I want that. But you see, there's an infinite number of parallel realities that exist. Okay? I know it sounds a little esoteric, but this helps you to also understand The version of you that wants love and relationship in your life or some type of relationship and the vibration of actually having it. They're two totally separate realities. One is lacking that love, one has that love. One doesn't even have the love, one realizes the love. And in our own life, the things that we perceive of on the outer reality in a relationship with someone else would be the outer reality. Is a reflection of the inner reality. I made a couple of videos on this idea of the wanting versus having paradigm, and I talk about money. When people want money, they're saying they don't have it, and they're going out looking for something that's actually within themselves. Because money is energy, and the more energy you put out into the world, the more value you provide for other people, people are gonna wanna give you energy in exchange, which may be the money, which is a form of energy that we exchange on the planet, you see. But it's funny to think of somebody looking for something outside of themselves going, where's the money? Where that money at? Where the money at? Where the money at? But in actuality, it's all in here. And the more you tap into the well of your own energy, the well of your own passion, the more you then have an expression of it and the more that adds value into the world 'cause everyone has a purpose. Now, in the same way, the reason I say that is because when we're looking at the vibration of wanting versus the vibration of having, the love that you would feel in a relationship is already within you. You see, this comes— the relationship, the love will come as a reflection of the self-love you have for yourself. And then when that comes out of your vibrational field of the wanting, you can then actually move into having. The thing is, is sometimes action will help people start to feel in the vibration of having. So for example, you know, sometimes I want a relationship, want a relationship, want love, want love. Well, if you were to maybe start going and doing and taking action towards loving yourself, which is kind of the purpose of where this video is going, but the idea is sometimes people will start dating around and when they're dating then they start to feel what it's like to be in a relationship and then they're in that vibration. I'm not saying that's the answer because really what I'm showing you is that this is about shifting your consciousness into understanding that everything on the outside is a reflection of the inside. The more you love yourself, the more people will feel that love off of you and think to themselves, that person's pretty dope. Maybe I want to be in a relationship with that person. Maybe I want to, maybe I want to try this out and see what it's like. But if you feel about yourself that you're not cool, you're not worthy, you're you're not lovable, then they're gonna feel that off of you and you're gonna play out those patterns. And that's why the key to this process is the awareness, the awareness of where your energy is, the awareness of what you feel on the inside about yourself. What is your self-image? How do you view yourself? Do you view yourself as worthy? And anything that is not conducive to you feeling the love that is already within yourself, to be aware of it and to let it go, to be aware of it and to let it go. A lot of times in the awareness itself is the letting go of it. If you become aware that you feel unworthy to be in a relationship because an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend treated you a certain way, you can, you can look at that, you can notice that, you can notice that emotion inside of you. You can be aware that it was a meaning you gave to something else in the past and it doesn't have to equal your present. And as you start to realize that you learn something from it, you learn how to go within, you learn how to love yourself more, you can then observe it and then let it go. And out your energy field it goes. It leaves like a beautiful bird off into the distance. And then you start to feel more and more of this love inside of yourself for you. And as you feel more love for you, you go out into the world and you emit off that energy and other people are like, damn, Who's that person? You see? So it's all about energy, but realize the more we say, I want, I want, I want, it means I don't have, I don't have, I don't have. There's this disturbance in our energy field. And the key is realizing you good either way, whether you manifest love, relationship, money, whatever the focus is, realize it's about cultivating your own energy from within. If you love yourself, you will emit out an energy that other people will feel, and other people will feel more inclined to love you. The more you tap into your own energy, your own passion, your own love, you see how you can add value to other people, the more money will come back as a reflection. Reality really is an inner game. If you master the inner game of reality, the outer game will just start to work itself out. And all reality really is is a game anyways. It's a game that we forgot we were playing. And you forgot that part of the game is if you want it, you don't got it. You want it, you don't got it. I've shared this analogy before, but it's like that Ariana Grande song where she goes, I want it, I got it, I want it, I got it. You probably saw in another video that I did this, but it's repetitive.

But guess what? I want it, I want it, I want it, I want it.

I desperately really want it. You can feel how desperate I am. Do you want to be in a relationship with me? Would you like to be in a relationship with me? I really like you. I really want you to be in a relationship with me. It would make me feel so good.

I want it. I want it. I want you.

I want you.

I want you.

Do you want to be in a relationship with me?

Probably not.

So the thing is, is energetically, that's what people do is they walk around and they go, I want it. I want you. Oh my God, you look so cool.

Oh.

Instead of the other part of it, which is having it, which is, I got it.

You see, love within myself is already there. I got it, I got it. I'm in the vibration of God because love is within me. I do not need to go out and look for it outside. And the more I love myself, the more other people love me. So I love it, I got it, I got it, I got it.

So I got me, I got a relationship with me. That's the key. The first relationship that is the most important relationship is your relationship with someone, no, yourself, yourself. It's not about a relationship with other people because your relationship with yourself, you love yourself, if you focus on that, people feel that off of you and then other people say, this person's pretty dope, I feel positive energy around them because whatever you feel about yourself, other people will begin to feel about you. So if you wanna change the way people perceive of you, Change the way you perceive yourself and don't be tied to what people think of you. It sounds easy to say, I know that. It's like, of course, don't care what people think. But when you realize that there really is no other, you wanna go deeper down this rabbit hole, there really is no other people. Everyone you see outside of you is a reflection of you anyway. So when you get embarrassed of something, you're getting embarrassed, you're judging yourself and you're embarrassed when you're in front of other versions of you. It's a shift in paradigm, but it's also the awareness that everything, everything, everything is just a reflection. That's all reality is, it's a reflection. And the more you love yourself, the more other people love you. So wanna know the best way that you can possibly attract love or relationship in your life? Is don't try, don't try, just be. Be and realize the relationship with yourself. The more you love yourself, the more you emit this badass energy that says, I love myself, feel this love that I have for myself, and other people feel it and they go, whoa, that person has this really cool energy. I really feel something when I'm around them. And they have such a good relationship with yourself. Then when you go out into the world, you find someone else that has an amazing relationship with themself. And guess what? It's two wholes meeting each other versus the Disneyland type or the Disney type perspective of the unfulfilled person looking for their other half and then finding some prince that saves them from the dragon, that idea, that ideology is an old school way of looking at it. You are already whole and complete. You already have the ability to feel love, joy, and peace just by your own making. You don't need to give yourself the rule in your mind that says when somebody finally comes into my life, then I give the neurons in my brain and the hormones in my body body permission to secrete dopamine and feel positive emotion. I have this rule in my mind and that's when I will feel happy. Instead, what you can do is you can realize you can give yourself permission right now, right now to feel that love inside of you, right now to give yourself permission to release the dopamine and the serotonin in your body. And by doing so, guess what? You will feel that love now. And as you feel that love, you will be in the vibration of having it. And actually, this is about going beyond having and into being. Be, be, not believe, because belief is a lie. The word lie is in belief, because all beliefs you use for a certain period of time. You may believe right now you can make $50,000 a year, that's not necessarily your limit. That's not your full potential. One day you may build it up and go, well, I'm gonna make $100,000 this year, and then you have that belief. But guess what? The year after that, you goal yourself at more. You keep letting go of these beliefs which are lies. You may think that it's about getting a better belief. It's about just letting go of the beliefs that don't serve because they're illusions anyways. Belief that says you're not worthy of being in a relationship, the belief that says you're not whole and complete. Let those go. Let those go and be. Experience reality and be who you really are, which you are an infinite spiritual being that has access to emotions like love, joy, peace, and enlightenment within you right now. And the only thing that keeps you back is your belief that you're not good enough, The belief that you have to be different levels of identity from your past, thinking you are this old version of yourself. But remember, you're not some bean worker outside. I really, really want. I really, really want.

You don't want it. You just have to go and say, I got it. I got it.

The love within me is there now, and I got it. It already existed inside me.

I got it. I got the ability to give myself and take away the rule that says I can't feel love. Now I got it, I got it.

Okay, that's the difference in this video, and it's an absolute game changer. It's what I encourage you to focus on. And if you want, by the way, I have this awesome MP3 meditation that will show you exactly how to decrease importance so that when you're manifesting love or relationship, what you are able to do is you're able to focus on being in that relationship with yourself and also even visualizing someone else, but you're able to make it natural for your self-image. You see, one of the biggest things is when you put someone on a pedestal, you vibrationally separate yourself from them. But if you see it as natural for you to experience that, you're naturally unconditional love and bliss. Therefore, naturally people love you because you're naturally amazing. So it's natural for your self-image, not on a pedestal, it's not up here, it's down here.

And you look at it and you go, wow, I just love myself, I'm just awesome.

And then you're like, I'm so awesome. And then everyone else is like, oh my God, that's awesome. And then everyone's like, I just want to have an awesome party and everyone's awesome. Okay, but no, this importance thing, no putting people on a pedestal. You put them on a pedestal like Like you put a little child on a pedestal or something.

Don't fall off, don't fall off.

You're trying to put people on a pedestal, but if you want a pedestal, I hope you really like me, just please like me. No, everything is normal. Everything is you anyways. Everything is a reflection. I'm just here to remind you of that and to wake you up from the dream of separation so that you can finally love yourself even more and understand that everything is an inner game that once you figure out changes Everything. One more thing, if you haven't already realized, can you smash that like button? Can you smash if you like this video? I know this video topic, this video stuff that I was talking about today was very different than normal. It's a very different type of energy. I have fun though. This video went by very fast. If you like this video, could you smash that like button and then maybe in a comment say, hey Aaron, I smashed that like button. And then I'll be like, oh cool, you smashed that like button. That's really awesome. I really, really wanted you to. I really, really, really would like it if you would smash that like button. It would make me feel so good. Or I can move into the vibration of saying, I got it.

If you want it, you got it. You can smash it if you want. I'm not attached, but it'd be cool because it helps the YouTube algorithm and it helps this video get out there so that people know it's not about the desperate energy.

So like I said, hope you enjoyed this video. I'm gonna go now and do Power Rangers stuff I felt like doing that. I'm gonna do Power Rangers stuff. I'm gonna go jump around my house. I only have like a week or two more in this house. I'm gonna start packing stuff and I'm gonna then move into the vibration of having this travel lifestyle. Okay, so with that being said, if you like this video, if you like how weird it was, smash that like button. Okay, other than that, guess what I'm gonna go do? I'm gonna go write an email or something because that's the next thing I do every day. Alright, I love you all. Peace, much love, and namaste.

Okay, bye.