Aaron Doughty explains how your nervous system regulation determines who you attract. People mirror the version of yourself you're embodying. As you evolve through inner work, you either find people who match your depth or naturally outgrow existing relationships.
The level of which you regulate your nervous system is the level to which you will meet people that are resonant with that version of you. So it only gets deeper. Sometimes the fear is that from a certain perspective, it's like, I'm gonna lose the depth that I've created. Well, the depth that you've created is from a certain level of consciousness and awareness. And now that you've gone deeper, you give yourself the potential to either meet people and to have them raise or go that deep as well, or new people can come into your life that can reflect back that new level of depth. Some relationships that we get into, they are reflective of the person we are at the time. But as we evolve or as we do inner work, we may outgrow certain patterns. We may outgrow certain people.
