thinking in reverse changed my life (the backwards law)

Have you ever noticed that the more you chase anything, the more you affirm that it is not here now? The more you chase a relationship, the more you repel that relationship away. The more that you intend and try to accomplish your goals, the more resistance you create and blockages you create in the process. The more opportunities and synchronicities that you try to see, that you're looking for, the more you end up blocking your awareness from it. One of the phenomenons of our reality comes from a 2,000-year-old Chinese text that has to do with what is called the backwards law. That's what it's more modernly called, the backwards law, which has been familiarized by Alan Watts. It has to do with this understanding that the more we chase anything, the more it runs away. The more we try, the less we are. And what if there is a way of going about reality that will allow you to actually accomplish what you want more effortlessly than ever? I know that the more my YouTube channel has grown, and when I look at the last 6, 7 years that I've been on YouTube, in the very beginning, when I started to get results, my YouTube channel started to grow, I was so excited. But then I would become so focused on wanting to compare to older videos that I made. I became, instead of me making videos that I was passionate about, there was this pressure. You need to get views. You need to like always compare to the other views the videos that have gone viral. And there'd be this butchering of energy that would happen the more I would focus on the outcome. And when I would let it go and I wasn't focused on outcome and I wasn't even really focused on trying really hard to grow my channel, that's when the biggest growths would come. It's when I was the least attached. It's when I was most in my own frame of doing it because it's who I choose to be not because of the end result of what I was trying to get out of it. Now there's another Rumi quote that says that what you seek is seeking you. Now what if what you seek is seeking you, but you literally cannot even perceive of it because you're looking so hard for it that you literally are making it invisible to you because you're affirming it's not here now. It's not here now. And what if non-attachment is the key to you really revealing all of this energy? Now let's look at this real quick. This simple analogy may help you understand how reality works in a deeper way and can completely change how you go about attracting love, how you go about attracting money in abundance and anything you want, whether it's even higher states of consciousness. I've seen this as well with people that are so, they wanna be enlightened. I've gotta seek enlightenment. I must become enlightened. This next state, this next level. And I'm not happy. You are happy with this low level of consciousness stuff, the 3D, when it's like, I gotta get there, I gotta get there, I gotta get there. And it becomes so obvious that the more you think you're not there, the more you block the beauty of the enlightenment that's all around you, the presence that's all around you. So the backwards law, really for me, understanding it has completely changed my life from the inside out. It has allowed me to have things be easier in my life. It has allowed me to be more in alignment with my higher self, the highest vibrational version of me, you could say. And it allows me to understand that what I think I'll find in the outside, I know it's not really there. It's just a symbol of an energy that's already inside of myself. So instead of trying so hard, I can then focus on being. The energy of trying also is reaffirming, I wanna escape, I wanna escape, I wanna escape. This moment's not good enough. This moment's not good enough, over there will be better. And then there becomes an addiction or a familiarized energy around never actually arriving anywhere. So first off, let me show this before I get into some things I wanna share. So first off, look at this energy field right here. When you are seeking something, you're lacking. In the same way, when you are wanting something, you are lacking. I want because it's not here now. I seek because I cannot perceive of it. And what you could say is that part of the process of manifestation is making the invisible visible through vibrational resonance. Because ultimately what quantum law shows us is that everything exists here and now. It's simply vibrating at a different frequency. Now think of it, even what you perceive through your senses, the limited amount of light you can see, all of us, we can only see a certain color code, a color scale between red and ultraviolet. It is less than 0.001% of what is actually reality. 99.9% of everything is empty space, which means most of who you are is nothing. And the most of who I am is nothing more than something. Because 99.9% of everything is empty space, what we perceive of is that which is in alignment with the energy that we are embodying. So when we're all in a room together and we're looking around at all this reality, What we are seeing is such a small sliver of what reality actually is, and a lot, most of it is based on our perception. Some people will see something different than what someone else sees. They've proven this. I remember back in the day, I was watching this show called "Brain Games," which was this show about like the mind and these different scenarios of understanding the science of the brain. And one thing that happened is they mocked up like an accident or something like that. And there were like 10 bystanders and literally every single person had a completely different story about what happened when this car hit this other car. It was like, literally it was bananas how different the perspectives were and they were all there perceiving of the same reality. Now, the thing is, is our perception clouds what we experience on the outside. There's an infinite number of data around us. Information is what reality really is, but the information that we tune to is based on the information that is within our energetic field. And if we've been familiarized since kids to be in a lack vibration, if we've been familiarized since kids to always be seeking, to always be looking, to escaping the present moment right now, it may feel more familiar to be in lack It's more familiar to be in an attachment of wanting but not having than it is to actually have and be. So a huge part of the process of transformation is becoming aware of this dynamic of the energy. So everything exists here and now. Now the version of you that wants is seeking the love and the money. And by seeking it, it is infusing that there's emptiness inside the field. It's over there. It's over there. It's over there. When it's funny, because if you think about it like a radio station or a radio dial, and if I'm over here and over there, if I have a radio over here and it's tuned to the station called 97.5 LAC FM, it's the name of it. And then I go all the way over there and then I tune to 97.5 LAC FM, I'll get the same station. Wait, I went over there. Isn't, I'm supposed to get a different station? It doesn't work like that. You're in the same, you're in a different location, but you're tuned to the same frequency. This is why people that may have familiarized feeling not chosen, feeling not good enough, they may get into a relationship and then still feel alone, may still feel like, oh, I'm gonna sabotage this, or may feel that lack. Because it's been familiarized. The energy around us, you may have the reflection around you of a loving relationship or people you could be in a loving relationship with, but you may literally be blocking it because you want it, because you're seeking it. So understand that there's a version of you where it is natural for you to have the love and have the money. And money and love is a reflection in a sense a symbol of energy. It is a symbol of the love and the abundance that already exists inside of you. So when you begin to embody the energy and you're not, like think about love, can you be attached to what someone thinks of you or feels about you and it work out? Normally, you will repel the person. Literally, you will energetically butcher it up because you're trying to control. You're trying to control a relationship. You can't control relationships. Now, isn't it more attractive if you let someone be how they are and you accept them unconditionally and they feel that freedom from you? They will be more attracted to you. Even think about it right now. If you had two people, that were attracted to you. And one is like, oh my God, I just think you're the best thing ever. I just can't wait. I just wanna be with you forever. Here's this for you. Here's this. I'd give you everything, blah, blah, blah, blah. You might feel like this. And then there's this expectation. Oh, you gotta do this. Like there's this expectation you could feel. You would feel so repelled. But if there is somebody that's in their own frame of reality that looks to you, that is attracted to you, that appreciates you, that can still choose you, but there's not that energy of wanting something from you, you will feel more attracted to the other person. There's a magnetic energy quality there because it says, my cup is full, I know who I am, I also am attracted to you. However, it's not, there's nothing that's needed. So also think about it, when you need something from someone else or from the universe, You are trying to manipulate the universe and you're trying to take from it, trying to take to get your needs met, which has a repelling effect. It's seeking, it's wanting, it's lacking. When instead you realize, I'm not gonna buy into the illusion that the money and the love is outside of me. I know that these are symbolic reflections of an internal energy state. That I can first off open up my heart more, understand and appreciate the abundance and follow my purpose and passion. These are symbols for different energies. And also something that we, something that I like focusing on recently is a lot of times our relationship, the mother, father, child dynamic, a lot of times your relationship to love can be reflective in the energy that was modeled by your mom between you and seeing how feminine energy responds to the masculine in your life, whether it was your father. And a lot of times father energy can represent our connection to money or represent our connection to purpose, boundaries. So what's interesting is you watch this video, we talk about surface level things at the beginning, right? Kind of surface, not really, right? It's like, What you seek, you lack. What you seek is seeking you but can't find you because of your energy. What you want, you must detach and let go from. But now we go a little bit deeper. What is the relationship with your parents? Is your relationship to authority. It's your relationship to everything when you're a kid. Your parents are like these gigantic beings that are 3 times your size. What they say, you do. May fear, you may wonder, am I good enough? You may tune your own energy to wanting their validation and approval, but the energy of mom and dad have a very powerful effect on you. So if you find yourself blocking and trying to control love in your life, there may be unresolved energy between you and mom or you and feminine energy. And mom represents relational energy. And a way to heal that, a way to really look at that is to look at the inner child part of you that literally feels their needs weren't met. There may be an inner child part of you that feels there wasn't enough. Maybe there's scarcity around dad's approval, dad's love. Maybe you never saw this modeled, this relationship modeled between mom and dad in a healthy dynamic. And maybe there's a part of your inner child that grieves that connection And what happens is there's literally an inner child part of you that is not being acknowledged. And it thinks it must do everything it can in its reality to get its needs met because its needs weren't met as a kid. So now we go a step further. How can you meet the needs of your own inner child that feels like maybe there wasn't enough love or they weren't loved in the way that they wanted to be? Or the approval and validation wasn't there, or they weren't taught boundaries. As kids, we internalize things that happen to us. You don't need to find the exact moment that your mom said this to you and it infused a subconscious belief in you, but understand from 0 to 7 years old, we are replaying the same dynamics over and over and over again because 0 to 7, we are in a theta brainwave state. But if your needs weren't met as a kid, you may find yourself attached. You may find yourself seeking. And really it's an inner child part of you that is seeking love and approval. It's an inner child part of you that is seeking resolve, trying to close the loop from childhood. So if you also want and haven't been through my free $1,000 course for free called High Vibe 101, It's a complete course that comes with breathwork, whole entire transformative process. I show you how to meditate, how to let go, all of this. It's completely free. It's in my High Vibe Tribe community. That's free. You can hit the link in the description box below or comment it. I'll pin it to the top. But basically, you can go through a process of healing this inner child energy, heals your life in a very powerful way. So understand that non-attachment is also different than detachment. Non-attachment, Detachment is like, okay, I'm gonna detach from love. I don't want, I don't need love, I don't need it. But it infuses this attachment, detachment like still has attachment to it. It's just like, I don't need it. I'm gonna repel it away. And sometimes also detachment can end up being avoidance of intimacy. I don't care. But you do care because the inner child part of you doesn't have their needs met. And how do you meet the inner child needs? You acknowledge them. Your inner child did not feel seen, heard, soothed, or nurtured growing up, maybe. I'm not projecting that onto you. I'm just saying maybe that's the case. And what happens is if we don't, the inner child wants us to meet it, to connect to it. And if we don't, it will look for getting its needs met in shadow ways. Through other people, through the external, through validation or approval. But when you begin doing this type of work, I promise you it can completely transform your life. Your nervous system will relax. You will feel differently about yourself. So understand that the key to this entire process that I'm sharing right now is that there's an energy of being where you realize it's already here and now, and the work is on looking at the energy field, taking responsibility for what's inside your energy field and looking at the connection between mom and dad and child. Because those connection, that connection affects your connection to others, your connection to yourself, and your connection to God and the universe. And when you begin to forgive and you begin to heal and you begin to meet your inner child in a very deep way, you will find that your whole entire reality begins to shift. And that that attachment that you had was just the inner child part of you that was trying to control to get its needs met. And what you'll find is you then begin to feel more free. You begin to feel like a completely new version of you because you are. And then you can perceive of new things in your field because you are embodying the energy and you are being it. You're no longer seeking it. So seeking implies lacking. What you seek is seeking you. And when you let go of looking for it, it will naturally appear in front of you. And if you wanna go deeper on this, I have a video on how mastering detachment will change your life. I show with you my method that I've used that's changed everything. And I'll go ahead and put that video right here. People that are not attached have a more magnetic energy.