True magnetism comes from within, not from trying to attract others. Stop seeking approval and abandoning yourself to please people. Instead, live your purpose, validate yourself, and set boundaries. That's what actually makes you magnetic.
Instead of being magnetic to attract other people, be magnetic for yourself. Because the thing is, is people feel what you feel about you. So if you're being magnetic for other people, that's also a form of manipulation, trying to get people's validation and approval. And instead of going for their validation or approval, the key is being magnetic for yourself so that you can feel good about yourself, realizing that they don't have what you think they have. You think they have your validation or approval when in fact it's already within you. That a lot of times also comes from childhood, believing mom or dad has the approval or validation, looking for it from them, changing your sense of self in order to gain their validation or approval, which then has you abandoning yourself to make other people happy. So the cure to all of this is to bring the energy back to yourself, to be magnetic by focusing on, are you living your purpose? Are you in your own frame of reality? Are you saying yes to yourself and saying no to things you don't wanna do? Those are all ways of increasing your own magnetic energy and doing it for you. When you do it for you, it's way more magnetic. It's an end of itself and it's not a means to an end.
