this video will find you when LOVE is about to come into your life...

Aaron Doughty argues that attracting love requires releasing control and aligning your mind and heart, not forcing it through willpower. He shares testimonials from people who found relationships after his 21-Day Magnetic Love Challenge, and explains how vulnerability and letting go dissolve the blocks that keep love away.
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You can only see that which you are the energy of. And imagine in 6 months from now, your entire life transformed simply because you watched this video. Now, let me show you some things real quick that why you're in the belief that this could be the case for you. I'll go ahead and put some of these screenshots right here, and this is just from one video. On YouTube. And if you look at it, you see, "I met my wife 3 months later. This works." Another one, "I never believed things like this, but I have listened to this for a whole month of January 2021, and I met the love of my life on February 20th, 1 month after. In 2 months, we have our 4-year anniversary." It's crazy. Let's go to another one. "I did this meditation consistently, and like it says, after 21 days, I met my new boyfriend. He's been everything I've ever wanted in a partner, so helpful, caring, and loving. We support each other through the good and the bad, and I couldn't be happier." You can read more. "I met my boyfriend now after I listened to meditation for 3 months. He loves me and treats me well. If you're reading this, you'll meet your soulmate soon." There are more. I'm gonna just put them right here. And these are all comments that are reflections of someone deciding that that was gonna be the case for them and then choosing to put themselves in mind and heart coherence. Now, even look at this comment right here. I'm gonna show you something else real quick. This is from somebody that I mentioned on my Instagram that I was going to do something called a 21 Day Magnetic Love Challenge, which is a 21-day process where I bring people through a process of removing love blocks so that they can attract love. We do live meditations, hot seat coaching, et cetera. And I posted that I was doing it again. And then after I posted this, this is what it said. Someone said, her name is Shay, "I attended one in October 2022 and met my husband in December 2022," and then sent a photo of them. It's a beautiful photo of that energy. And this person's boyfriend then reached out to me, or husband now, his name is Greg, and he said, "Hey Aaron, I wanted to reach out and say thank you. My new wife Shay went through, I think, a 30-day workshop and had to, close to 2 years ago now, and we wouldn't have met if we both weren't at the same spot emotionally. Appreciate it." So basically the reason I'm sharing all of this is to help you increase the belief that it can work for you too. That in 6 months from now, your whole entire life could be shifted and completely different if you do and integrate what I'm about to share with you in this video. Now, the first thing I want you to understand about this is that when it comes to timing of these things happening, it's something that you have to be aware of inside of your body. You could even be aware that's 'cause you're watching this video, there are things shifting inside of you that open up the belief that it can happen for you too. And the energy that I recommend is understanding that there's a certain level of ego that wants to manifest love. And this is one of the biggest blocks for so many people. This is what shifted in my life that allowed me to allow that connection to come into my life, which ironically enough was already in my life, by the way, just in a different way. I'll talk more about that in a minute. But what attracting love really has to do with is this one insight that will shift everything for you. That insight comes around this idea that I've shared recently under this analogy. Can you make a plant grow? Think about it. Can you make a plant grow? This sounds simple, but this is where the shift is. You might say, "Yeah, Aaron, I can make a plant grow. I can put it in the sun, I can water it, and it grows." And what happens is when we confuse us for growing the plant, that's where we then confuse and think, "I must manifest love." And manifesting love is not something that comes from trying to manifest and create love. It comes when you let go and you allow God to bring love to you. The divine, the universe, whatever name you wanna give it. It comes from a letting go. It comes from an inner shift that you make that has to do with opening up your heart. And I remember when I first had a YouTube video go viral, it's one of my most popular meditations. It's my most popular video on YouTube at all. It's got almost 8 or 9 million views. And all those comments that you just saw from people that said they attracted love. One thing that's very interesting about it is that you read the comments and you see all these crazy experiences from people. It increases the belief inside of you that if they can do it, maybe I can too. And I remember wondering like, what is the magic of this meditation? Why are so many people attracting love with this meditation? And one thing that I recognize is that there's probably a group energy to it. Millions of people that have focused on this meditation, many people that believe and have seen things in their life shift, and I believe it increases the belief that it can also work for people that listen to that meditation. Now, the other side of this is understanding that can you make a plant grow is similar to, Can I manifest love? And what happens is a lot of people are trying to manifest love and that comes from the ego. The ego wants to control. The ego's like, love is not in my life now. I want love to come in my life. So what do I have to do for that? Maybe I have to go to a specific place like a Bikram yoga studio and I'm gonna sit next to my crush and I'm gonna meet them. Or maybe it has to do with me putting myself out there more or me going and doing more healing work on myself. And what happens is the ego, which is only in survival, and for many people it's in fight or flight, believes it's its job. So it creates pressure and that pressure ends up creating resistance. So there's a certain component of letting go that is also in the equation. I remember when I was in a relationship back in 2011, 2010, and I remember when I got into this relationship, at the time I was working at my job selling women's shoes at Nordstrom's, and I met someone that I worked with there, and we started to move into a relationship. And I remember that I lived on one side of Vegas and then she lived on a completely different side of Vegas. And it was about literally a 35, 40-minute drive. And I remember that when I was starting to see this person, I was actually texting this person when then I was on Las Vegas Boulevard, 'cause I was from Las Vegas, and I rear-ended someone in front of me, which then rear-ended the person in front of them. And in that moment, I knew there was a synchronicity here in the sense that yes, it's more so than just being on my phone, which caused the accident. It was also like I knew that because I was texting her, it was kind of like a sign to not be in that relationship. I knew that even though I wasn't even that spiritual at the moment, I just knew there was some synchronicity to that, but I ignored it. And then what happened is my car was being fixed for like a month and it was extremely difficult for me to drive 35 minutes or find ways, this is before Uber, 35 minutes to go all the way to the other side of town just to see her. It was very challenging. And I knew that even when we were in that relationship for like a year, I knew there were these synchronicities that were like pulling us apart, but like the ego was trying to keep it together. And all the way until the end of the relationship where there was a seed that was planted where it was undeniable that I knew like this was the beginning of the end. And that was that at the time we were moving out of a place that we were renting. And because she had different, she had 2 pit bulls and a Rottweiler, it was like very challenging to live in houses where owners would approve it because there's a lot of challenges with like pit bulls and stuff like that with renting houses. And what happened is I, when there was a walkthrough that's happening, a walkthrough of the house where after a year someone was like walking through the house and I had to hide the dogs 'cause we had to lie about the breed of the dogs. Or whatever, we went to this park. I went to this park and I was watching the dogs. And what happened is the dogs got caught up in this leash thing, these leads, and one of the dogs got away and ended up attacking. They were actually nice dogs. It was, I think partially, honestly, partially it was probably my fear energy around not knowing if I could control them because there was one of them that was like harder to control and really only listened to her. But what happened is the dogs got away One of the dogs ended up attacking this little cute Cuckapoo. It's called a Cuckapoo. Can you imagine? Out of all dog names, the one dog that attacked was a Cuckapoo. And this Cuckapoo dog was getting torn apart. And here I am trying to like, I put my hand in the dog's mouth trying to pry it open and then I cut my finger. I still have a scar on my finger from it. There's all this blood and then I got transported via an ambulance and went to like this like adrenaline shock thing. And it was this crazy experience that was kind of the beginning of the end where I knew that the seeds were planted to where it was like there was this resentfulness between her and I because she was worried about her dogs. The dogs actually got taken away to a shelter where they were gonna get put down. And ironically enough, this is a crazy story that has light at the end of the tunnel. What happened was for like a month or two, we had to go to court to try to get the dogs to be allowed to live and explain this is just one situation, all of this stuff. And what ended up happening is the court said that the dogs, sorry, the dogs had to go to court and testify against this old guy that was like, this is my cuckoo poo. It was this whole dramatic thing. What ended up happening is they said, nope, the dogs have to get put down. It was very sad, but I knew it was like the end of our relationship. And what happened is we then broke up and within a couple days of breaking up, somehow, my mom pulled some strings with some people she knew and she got my ex's dogs out. And honestly, they weren't dangerous. It was just this one situation and it was unfortunate. Somehow my mom got the dogs free, gave them back to her, but it happened once I broke up with, we broke up. It was like the dogs were the saving grace that allowed us to break up because there was this like almost divine intervention that like her and I weren't supposed to be together. And ironically enough, her and I broke up. There was another guy she was talking to when her and I started dating, and then she started talking to that guy. They've been married now for like years. So it was kind of like it just wasn't meant to happen for either of us. There was this kind of like divine intervention that was happening, but the ego was trying to create it and trying to keep it together, which created resistance. Now on the other side of this, even up until recently. When it comes to the shift for me to attracting love and that deep connection, you wanna know what it was? It was completely letting go. And it was also a mix of vulnerability. It was a mix of sharing different things that were coming up, sharing this with a very close friend of mine that's actually been one of my best friends for 5 years. And ironically enough, after a couple experiences, there was this awareness that there was this energy under the surface between us that we always just thought was a deep connection, a deep friendship, and we didn't wanna mess that up. But basically through a vulnerable conversation, it evoked this like new way of being together. And there's a longer story that maybe I'll share one day about it. I'm sure I will. But it came when it was like there was no expectation We were both just living our life. And that, what I'm saying with this though is like sometimes the energy may be already around you because with this person, the crazy thing was that her and I both like traveled to the same two cities. We like lived back and forth between Austin and Venice. It was very interesting. I sold her my car like 4, 3 years ago. One of my cars I sold her. I've been storing my stuff at her house for the last year as I've been traveling and stuff, and then letting her use my car when I'm not here. All these weird things were already happening, but it just wasn't the right time for things to come into alignment. But once I made this, there's the inner shifts that I'm talking about in this video of letting go and understanding that mind and heart coherence That's where things really begin to shift. So if you're seeing this video right now and you're asking yourself, when is it gonna happen? Or you're thinking like, what do I need to do? It might not be something you need to do. It might be that it's already around you. It's simply that you're not perceiving of it due to the energy that you're in because there's not that, maybe that mind-heart coherence. It's not just the mind. It's also the heart. And the thing that I believe these meditations do, and even that 21-day challenge that I mentioned, which by the way, if you could see this right now, today is the last chance to join the 21-Day Magnetic Love Challenge that's starting. And it's a 21-day process for removing the love blocks to allowing yourself to open up your heart, to removing the self-sabotage, the masculine or feminine shield that's blocking love, to allow yourself to be in your own frame of reality so that you have this energy you carry with you that's magnetic. And if you wanna join, I'll go ahead and link it below and you can join that 21-day challenge. You also get the London live event that I'm doing. I'm doing a London live event and you get a livestream and the replay. I'm doing that at the end of the month on September 26th, 27th, 28th. And you get that of a QHHT past life hypnosis meditation from one of my live events. Plus a cord-cutting meditation from one of the live events. You get lifetime access to the whole 21-day challenge, all the live videos, everything, and you can go through it whenever you want, plus you get access to a group, et cetera. So it's a very powerful process. The woman Shay that I showed you earlier with this right here, she went through the 21-day Magnetic Love Challenge and then met her husband 2, 3 months later. And I've had many messages from other people that say something similar along those lines. So now's the last chance to join if you do wanna join at the early bird and you go and see the link below if that resonates with you. So understand that for this process of attracting love, the missing key, the thing that maybe has been out of the equation for many people is God. It's allowing God to bring it to you. It's like I wasn't listening to God or the divine when I was getting into that relationship back in 2011. And I was forcing it from the ego and just kept not seeing the signs. And that resulted in more and more pain. And then the dog situation, those dogs, by the way, got to live a long life thanks to my mom as well. And it was just a very clear sign that I was always aware of that spiritual connection. And in the same way, for the last 5 years of having, it's interesting being in a relationship with somebody where you already have 5 years of being best friends with. Like we have shared with each other, and it's funny, we've shared with each other every relationship we've been in, we've talked about with each other. I've helped her process different things with different past relationships, same thing from her to me. We know all of our patterns, like all the things you don't tell your actual boyfriend or girlfriend 'cause it's like TMI, we know about each other. Which is nice because there's like, that vulnerability is there, that understanding, we understand each other so deeply because for 5 years we were literally like best friends. And now through one vulnerable conversation of like realizing there was energy underneath the surface has evoked a whole entire relationship that has allowed it to feel very deep, very quickly because there's already 5 years of depth with there. It's been a very interesting, awesome experience. And moving forward, it's like I can look back and see very clearly that there were so many things that were kind of clear, but I just wasn't in the, it wasn't the right time. I didn't have the insights that I'm sharing with you in this video. And part of those insights is that for me, vulnerability has always been a thing that when you express, it allows connection to happen? Especially when you're afraid of rejection. Like imagine being best friends with someone for 5 years and then questioning, 'cause what happened is we went out a couple times as friends. They weren't dates, but like we'd go out to dinner sometimes just as friends. But then we're like, there's something else, feels like there's something. I guess we were both feeling it. What's funny is we were both feeling it, but neither of us mentioned it. And even we would go out like, we went out to dinner and then we went shopping and there were people when we were shopping, people were like, "Oh, you guys are a great couple." Like people would make these comments, we're like, "We're not a couple." We'd both be like, friends would be like, "What about you guys together?" We're like, "No, we're just friends." And there was like this awareness that was like there, but we were both in denial because we didn't wanna mess up the friendship. So looking back though, there was also this like denial, but also this lack of having a conversation. And I think a lot of times people block love because they're afraid of getting rejected or they're afraid of like changing the energy. Whether it's someone you haven't met before or just somebody you're attracted to, vulnerability is a huge part of attracting love. Being vulnerable, showing the real you, expressing how you really feel. These are things that will attract to you deep connections and they will repel away superficial connections. but you have to have the courage to express it. And when we were in Costa Rica on this trip as friends, something shifted about halfway through when there was a vulnerable conversation that happened. And that vulnerability opened up a whole new curiosity. It's like, what if there is something more? What if we try it out and it's weird? That's a potential, there's a risk here. What if we try this out and then it gets to where we can never be friends again. But we also realize what if we don't try it out and we meet different people and they're not okay with us being friends because everyone can have plans of, oh, we're gonna be friends in the future. But then when you get into a deep relationship, not everyone is always cool with that, especially if there's felt that there could be something else deeper under the surface. So we realize in the moment that there's a risk either way here. Because I felt that I was gonna meet somebody in the next year or so. I just knew, I knew it was coming. I didn't know that it was already here. Think about that for a moment. What if love is already around you? You just literally aren't perceiving it because that mind and heart coherence isn't there and there's attachment to the ego thinking it needs to do it. And what if when you let go, You then allowed God to actually bring it to you. What if then when you got in mind and heart coherence, that's when the whole entire energy shifted? So for many people, they block love because they think it's their ego's job to attract it. And then they put pressure on themselves. I see this happen a lot, especially with women that are maybe in their like mid-30s, even early 30s, mid-30s, late 30s. They're like, "I need to have kids. I need to meet my person. Where's my person? I need kids." They create pressure. And then that pressure literally blocks love because people can feel that as pressure and it feels heavy. But it's also like there's this fear energy and the ego then is trying to control it. "Where's my husband? Where's the person that's gonna..." And that creates pressure. And that's the ego's desire to like control because the ego doesn't feel comfortable Letting go. So if you were to, one, let go of the outcome by realizing it's not your ego's job to manage, your ego's job to control, and then two, choose to get in mind and heart coherence. And a big part of that 21-day challenge is that meditation is something that we do throughout the 21 days and we connect to the group energy and that creates a momentum for many people to attract love. So if you wanna join that 21-day challenge, that's what we do, plus live hot seat coaching to help you remove your love blocks, plus breathwork to remove the blocks inside that are blocking your nervous system from love, understanding your attachment style and how to fix securing your attachment style. All this stuff is stuff that we're gonna be doing very soon. You can go ahead and grab your spot below. Today's the last day to get that with the early bird and all those bonuses I mentioned. And then other than that, realize that It's something that can happen as a result of you being in your heart, letting go of outcome and trusting the timing. What if love is already all around you, but you simply aren't perceiving of it because that energy is not being felt and embodied on the inside? And what if you could do that through a 21-day meditation? What if you could do that through a 21-day challenge? And what I'll do is I'll go ahead and link that meditation here. You can read the comments to see what's possible. Do it for 21 days. And then comment what happens as a result. Go ahead and check it out right here. This meditation will change your life.










