Use The MAGIC of Detachment to Attract Love & Relationships

What I'm about to share with you is counterintuitive to almost everything you've been told about manifestation, about creating your own reality. However, I would say it's the one major difference that will completely transform your life if you begin to apply it. This will make you more attractive. This will make you have more magnetic energy, and this will have love chase you instead of it being the other way around. Around. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm gonna be sharing with you the magic of detachment and letting go, and how when you trust this and you do this, it then gravitates things towards you. And I'm gonna share this not only from my own personal experience, just in general. You can use this, by the way, for anything. You can use this for love, you can use this for abundance, you You can use this to get a new job or attract something, anything that you want. You can use this to attract. Now, the thing to understand about this is that you have the ability to generate the emotion inside and the feeling inside without needing any external thing to feel a certain way. Now, the reason this is important to understand is because anytime we want something else, we chase something else, we are saying that I don't have that within myself. Yourself. And one of the biggest desires there is within humans in general is to feel connected. And the moment we say, I want that, we are actually emphasizing our separateness. You see, the more we raise our vibration and our level of consciousness, the more we realize we are everything. We are it all. So why would I want that over there when I realize I am that over there? Do you see? It has to do with understanding a larger scope of consciousness. So that's what I'll be sharing with you in this video. This is why it makes such a big difference. Now, first off, let's understand that we think in the form of mental pictures. We think in the form of mental pictures. Some of these mental pictures— not everyone's completely visual, but we think in the term of mental pictures. And when we think of things, and we want something, maybe we want a goal or something that it is, maybe it's money, maybe it's love, we infuse all these other mental pictures that we have about why we can't have it, why we can have it, the kind of person that we attract, all of these different mental pictures go in place and then that creates resistance. So this is about becoming aware of those mental pictures. This is about understanding that anything we are attached to, we are creating resistance around. There's been times in my life where I realized that if I really want something or just want it in general, I resist it. But if I move into that of not caring, it's almost in a way you could say as well, the more you're able to not care which way it goes— doesn't mean you're apathetic— but the more you're able to not care one way or the other, the more power you have. That's why letting go of the outcome signals abundance. Think about that too. Letting go of the outcome actually signals abundance. If you are around someone else that you're attracted to and you're like thinking of every little thing you're gonna do, and you're like, oh, am I doing this the right way? Am I gonna say this the right way? You're gonna feel stifled, you're gonna feel resistant, you're gonna think too much and overthink things. And subconsciously, the other person is gonna be able to feel that energy off of you. However, if you were to let go and not care, you'd give yourself a lot more permission to just be yourself. And when you are just being yourself and you are unapologetic about what people think about you, that is attractive. And the reason that's attractive is because it shows that you're not trying to approve. You're not trying to get approval from someone else. And sometimes people want to attract love because they want to feel that love from someone else. They want to— they want that approval from someone else. And And because here's the tricky insidious thing. If somebody wants approval or love, if they want it, it means they are saying they are separate from approval and love. It's saying lack. Remember, if you desire it, you lack it. If I want to do this over there, then it means I'm not over there. But I wouldn't want to make a video right now because I am making a video right now. I'm in the vibration of having, of doing, of being that. But see, this is the biggest change. If you want to completely allow love into your life like a floodgate that just opens up and then you have so many opportunities, let go of wanting love. Let it go. Now, this doesn't mean being apathetic, but what this means is when you feel this desire, you just literally think to yourself, Can I let this desire go? Because the moment you move and you let go of that desire is the moment you will move into the having, into the being love. And the more you're aware as well that that love is already inside of you, then the more you will embody that love. The more you realize, oh, I kind of want approval, you could say, no, can I stop desiring approval? If you stop desiring approval, you will have approval. If you stop desiring love, you will have love. Think about this. We work really, really hard to become successful. We work really, really hard to do this, to do that, and then we finally get it. And once we get it, we feel at peace for a while. And then what happens? The mind jumps in, says, what about more? But for the while that you feel peace, you want to know what has happened? Desire has subsided. The desire has been met. You stopped desiring and then felt satisfaction. Do you see the change here? Do you see what that is? So what if you could instead let go of the desire now and know that when you let go of the desire now, that's when you're in a contagious energy. That's when you're unapologetic. When you're not trying to control things, there's no resistance. There is somebody I know that was recently divorced. And what happened is she did not want to be in a relationship anymore because she got divorced and she had, there was a lot of emotional stuff going on there and she was like, okay, I'm just going to completely be single. She like wanted to be single and she's like, okay, I'm just going to be single. I do not want, I do not want to date. I do not want a relationship. I just want to be single. Because she was in the state of just being single, of not, of not wanting love, not wanting a relationship, guess what happened? It just flooded into her life. It's just like Pete, she would get asked out like every couple days to a week. She'd get, she'd be asked out by people and it was because she had this contagious energy where she was just not attached. She wasn't in wanting, she was just in being that love within herself. Of realizing, hey, there's no more drama in my life from this divorce, so I'm just gonna be happy and like, look at all this freedom, I feel so great. And then that attracted that to her. Now the funny thing is that what can happen sometimes is then somebody may want, they might decide, okay, now I want love. And then once they want love, they find resistance coming in. I see it sometimes with people that I may have grown up with especially sometimes women that may be a certain age, like getting towards their 30s or 32, like this age to where then there's this like societal pressure. It's like, I got to get married and have a kid. Now's my time. And I've seen that just with, with many people. This is a very common thing. Now the problem with this sometimes is what happens is that evokes up a desire and a wanting, which is also a lacking, which also creates resistance, which then sometimes also is where then people will care what other what other people think because they're wanting that approval or they're wanting to be accepted because they want a relationship to go somewhere, which creates resistance, which actually blocks it. So the key to this is being carefree. The key to this is letting go of that desire altogether and trusting the course of your life, of realizing this as well. The vibration of wanting love, I want love. The vibration of wanting love is different than the vibration of having love. And if you already have love because you are love, because all this stuff already exists inside of you anyways, then what you begin to do is you begin to see it and attract it. It's naturally in your reality. Remember, you don't always get in life that which you want because what you want you lack, but you always get in life that which you are. And if you move from wanting to being or having, you will then perceive of those things in your life. But the key is making that switch. And the way you make that switch is you just let go of the desire. The desire comes up and what happens is you let go, that it comes up, you're aware of it, and you just say, can I let this go? Can I let go of wanting approval and just have approval? Can I let go of wanting love and just have love? Can I let go and just have? And then when you let go of the desire, you will just have. And then when you just have, you are more loose, you're more fun, you're not attached to the outcome. You are the star of your own movie. 'Cause when you want it, you're looking for that in someone else. You're looking for someone to give you that approval, for someone to give that love. But when you are the star of your own movie, then what happens is you have a very contagious energy. People can literally feel it off of you. But as well, become aware as well, use the magic of letting go to attract love into your life because you're also letting go of the stories and the mental pictures you have of what it means to get some type of results. So if when you think of some type of outcome of you being and having love in your life, and then you think of it and you desire it, like, I do want that. And you're like, wait, Aaron said to just let go of the desire. It comes up, you let it go. You might also have different stories come up, stories about like, oh, love doesn't come that easily. The way my parents were together, they divorced and all of these things. And it does, it's all these, this resistance comes up. And as the resistance comes up, embrace it and let it go. And this is why I talked before about that of the scale of consciousness where you have Daniel, Daniel's gonna put up the chart of consciousness right now. The chart of consciousness, you'll see shame, fear, guilt, anger, neutrality, reasoning, love, joy, peace, enlightenment. When the, there's a book called Autobiography of a Yogi by Paramahansa Yogananda and the enlightened masters, he talks about his process of going through enlightenment Night Masters could manifest like this. Do you want to know one of the reasons they could do that? Because they come at it from a higher point of consciousness where they realize they are everything else, and reality is like a dream. It's more flexible because they know that. It's like things just happen so easily, but also it's because they don't desire it. They're— they're neutral about it. It just simply is. And as they let go of that and they're coming at it from a higher level of vibration, it's like things just happen easy for them. But they're also exuding so much love that people just want to be in their presence. But what this has to do with is clearing your mind, letting go. The other reason that is, is because they have very clear thoughts— or not thoughts, they have very clear minds. So when they think thoughts, there's so much potency there. But you see, a lot of times when we're thinking of having love, we're thinking of all these little resistances and stories and pictures that come up and we want it, that we desire it, which means we lack it. The key to this is simply letting go, letting go of the labels, letting go of the label of, oh, I've always been single. Oh, I can't attract this. Letting go of the labels of believing I'm not worthy. Become aware of those and then let them go. This is the magic of letting go. I will tell you that even not just with love, But that as well, but also just with my life in general. A couple weeks ago, I was making YouTube videos, and as I was, I like wanted there to be a certain response from the videos I was making. That was stifling my energy, and I was like wanting to grow more, and I wanted more. But then eventually I decided, what, this is ridiculous. I'm gonna let go of that desire altogether and just be, just enjoy this process, be here while I make the videos. There's been times in the past where I was like wanting to get to the next level. I let go of that desire and also I let go of what people thought or what people think of me. And as I let go of that and just started being myself, being the way I preferred to be, talking about what I wanted to passionately talk about, it would explode every, every area of my life. And then my energy is more carefree. Like imagine if I'm right now like, please, like I really hope you like this video. And it's like, then my energy would be different. I wouldn't be as loose and carefree. But instead, if I'm like, this is just— I don't desire it, I just am it. I'm just sharing unfiltered. It's more attractive. It's more attractive even from a level of, oh, this is a cool video. I like the energy of this video or something like that. So you can easily allow yourself to let go of these things by being aware of what you you want and use the magic of letting go to let go of desire. When you let go of desire, you will naturally just have it. This is also why people that maybe you've seen it before, we're like two people in a relationship, they break up. One person may be really distraught about it. The other one, uh, maybe like whatever, might be like ready to move on. And then what happens is that one person like sulks about it for a while. They go hang out with their friends. Then eventually maybe they go out with their friends and they start to forget about that other person. When they start to forget about that other person because he's just in his own world, he's becoming the star of his own movie again, or she's becoming the star of her own movie again, or whatever it is. This person can feel that and then gravitates back because of that detachment of desire. There's many people that when they let go, it brings a flood of abundance because there was so much resistance for so long, thought about something, that then it just floods in. But this requires letting go of that. And then when this person was letting go of that because Maybe then that person starts to also see, oh yeah, maybe that wasn't actually meant to be. Maybe it was actually bringing up a lot of negative things or whatever. Then the desire changes and then they don't desire it anymore. And then there's almost a desire on this side because of that polarization and how it works, the push-pull of polarity. But you see, this is why this is so magical. Let it go. Let go of the desire and just have it. Let go and just be it. And when you use the magic of letting go, you'll see how it changes every area of your life. So if you want to learn more about this as well, I have something that's called Mind Shift. It includes that of a step-by-step process as how to apply this, how to let go, how this transforms and allows in abundance and love. It's very powerful. Plus there's meditations and there's some really cool bonuses that you get if you join right now. So click the link in the top of the description box and I'll show you how to stop wanting and desiring and attaching to things and how to manifest using detachment from a higher level paradigm so that money, love, success chases you because of your energy. So like I said, that's called MindShift, where you go to mindshiftmeditations.com, but you can click on the top description box below, check it out. It's a higher level paradigm. I believe it's very powerful. I've seen people get amazing results from it. The meditations alone will help you to make that inner shift where within you so that it changes the way you go about this. Imagine being more carefree. Imagine having more fun in the process of manifestation. And imagine knowing step by step what to do, not just the theory, but like, what do I actually do? And then getting the kind of result that you want so that you feel clear, you feel like you have that clarity, and you feel confident about the process. So that'll be the top description box below. Other than that, I hope you enjoyed this video. And as always, peace, much love, and namaste.