What The Vibration of Having More Love and Success Feels Like (and how to have it now)
In this self‑help video Aaron Doughty explains that the feeling of already having money, love, and success is a vibrational state that can be accessed instantly, rather than a future goal to be chased. He contrasts the "vibration of wanting"—a lack‑based energy that keeps money, love and success outside of you—with the "vibration of having," an inner state of abundance that reflects outwardly when you align your thoughts, feelings and actions. Money is described as pure energy exchanged for value you provide; love is framed as self‑love that radiates outward; success follows the same pattern. Aaron stresses that outer reality mirrors inner reality, so by giving yourself permission to feel worthy, whole and complete now, you shift your inner vibration and the outer world follows. He illustrates this with personal stories: his transition from a 9‑to‑5 job to daily YouTube videos, and his father's persistence in becoming a firefighter by first volunteering and immersing himself in that frequency. He differentiates "being as if" (embodying the desired state continuously) from merely "acting as if" (temporary role‑play). Imagination is highlighted as a powerful tool to rehearse the desired vibration. Finally, he invites viewers to take a free vibration‑calibration quiz and use provided meditations to accelerate the shift.
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This video, I'm going to show you what the vibration of having money, love, and success feels like, and I'm going to show you how to tap into it now. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now on this video, I'm going to be showing you the vibration of having money, love, success. Versus that of wanting money, love, and success, which is coming from an energy of lack that we don't currently have it. And what I'm gonna share with you is how to tap into the vibrational feeling of what that is now, of having money, love, and success when you may look around and be like, yo, bro, it's not around me right now. How can I tap into that when I look around and I don't see it? Well, here is a huge shift that I've had in my own life. It's understanding that our reality, what we experience on the outside, is just a reflection of our inner reality. That's what it is. When we talk about the vibration of having money, money is energy. The thing that people get tripped up about is they go chasing money. Can I get more money? Can I get more money? Can I get more money? And when you want more money, you're saying that that money is outside of you and therefore you can't vibrationally have it because you're in the vibration of wanting and the vibration of lacking. Want is a lack. Sometimes the wanting will get people to then take action, which then has them slowly but surely move into having. But if you recognize the truth, the truth is the vibration of money is energy. Money is energy. Think about it. What happens is the way money works is the more value you put out. So say somebody puts out value, they help other people, or say somebody has a product that adds value to someone's life. What happens is, is other people with their own energy are willing to give away some of their energy in the form of money that we use to exchange energy because it adds value to them. So they're willing to give in exchange for it. What you put out is what you get back. So when you are tapped into your passion, when you're doing doing what you love, that adds value to other people. It will always have some form of adding value, whether it's just your energy state or whether it's actually like my, my passion is actually making these videos. But when you understand the philosophy of money, knowing that money is simply energy, you can then see what can I put out into the world? What energy can I put out into the world that other people will also find value in that then they were willing to give energy back in exchange, which is in the form normally of money. So the vibration of wanting money is saying the money's over there, the money's over there, the money's over there, and it's saying I lack money, I lack money, I lack money, when in actuality the money is just an outer reflection of your inner tapping into your inner well. You see, there's an infinite amount of energy inside of you, but the key is you tapping into that energy. I tap into my energy of what I love doing, and that happens to be adding value to people, so I continue to do that, and then my outer reality is a reflection of that. But you see, people get caught up in the external reality. Same thing with love. The symbol is you being in a relationship, but if you love yourself, you will then emit an energy of love and then other people will feel that and more people are likely to then fall in love with you because you love yourself. Just like money, you are tapped into your own well of abundance, which is energy. You see? So the vibration of having versus the vibration of wanting, they're two totally separate realities. One negates what you actually want to experience and one affirms that which you want to experience. But you see, this shift right here changes everything because then you realize that you are powerful and you can change your inner reality. When you change your inner reality, your outer reality will begin to reflect that. Change your inner reality with the recognition and the awareness that you contain everything within yourself right now. To feel 100% worthy, whole, and complete. You can give yourself permission to feel those emotions now. And that's a kind of an ironic thing because— not ironic, I like using that word ironic sometimes— ironic paradox, metaphor, hyperbole, simile. When it comes to this process, what we could do is realize that normally what we do is we say, when this on the outside changes, then I can feel positive emotion. It's then in our brain we give ourselves ourselves permission to release the serotonin, the dopamine, because we simply allow it to happen. We allow ourselves to then say, that's a symbol. It's just a symbol. For example, you could say, when I get that job promotion at my job, then I can feel happy, then I'll be whole and complete. You get that job promotion, then you give yourself permission to feel those emotions of worthiness and accomplishment. But it's your inner permission you're giving yourself that allows you to feel that way. You can give yourself that permission now to feel 100% worthy, whole, and complete, to tap into your own energy. Well, you tapping into your passion and you tapping into the love inside of yourself, and as you do that on your inner reality, your outer reality will begin to change. That's all the outside is. It's a reflection of your inner reality. It's just most people are not aware of what their inner reality is. Because they're so caught up and fixed in that this is the way reality is. This is the way reality is. This is the way reality is. And therefore they stay within that perpetual loop of how they think, feel, and act because that's the way reality is. That's the way reality is. But if you let go and you start to become free, you will notice that your life begins to change in a very, very powerful way. You see, this is the key to this whole process, is the awareness that there is no outer reality other than what we believe to be. You change your inner reality, you change your inner beliefs, you then transform your life. So the vibration of having is totally different from the vibration of wanting, and you can bridge that gap. What is, what is your current self-image? What is your current stories you tell yourself? How are you currently thinking, feeling, and acting? That's what determined your current reality. All right? Now, if you want to experience the reality of what you want, then you can identify what that ideal reality is, the vibration of you having that. And by focusing on that vibration, you can then focus on doing things that gets you in that vibration now. That's what I did. You may know the story. I talked about it a lot. YouTubes. I make daily videos on YouTubes, not YouTube, YouTubes. And what I did is the old version of me was not making daily videos. The old version of me was working a 9 to 5 job I hated. So I said, okay, this is my present reality. This is what I dreamed to be. This is the current story I tell myself. And from this reality to this reality, this was on a pedestal. Oh my goodness, how cool would it be to make videos on YouTube? How could a beta gamma work for myself? That'd be so cool. And it was on this pedestal. But what I had to eventually do was see it as natural and just simply start to be a YouTuber, which means I was making daily videos even while I had a 9-to-5 job and I was working 40 hours a week and I was making videos pretty much 30 hours a week. I was a very busy bee, but I was busy. I was a busy bee being me, you feel me? The real me, not the me that was the old habitualized me that was thinking, feeling, and doing according to the old story that I told myself over and over and over and over and over again. You see, the key to this is stopping that story. I am only capable of having a 9-to-5 job. I can only do this. I really, really want that. That's on a pedestal. Look at that, really over there. That would be amazing. Bridge that gap by being. Get into the frequency. Maybe even doing. Doing helps as well. Do things that puts you into that vibrational frequency. You see, this think and feel and do is very different than this think, feel, and do. All right, so when you are in the vibrational frequency of this think, feel, and do, you eventually begin to wire in a new way of being, a new frequency, and then you can have. You can have when you are. You have when you are. You don't have when you are not. You do not have when you are saying, I'm not good enough. I know you are not when you're looking at the lack in your life. So give yourself permission to be this. Now, I was at dinner last night with my father, my dad. Okay, so I'm at the dinner. It's like, yo, dad, let's go eat over here. We go, we eat, and then I sit there with my dad and we were talking. He was talking about how when he was a, uh, he was going from being a— he worked at Circus Circus as a general manager. No, not as a general manager, as like a front desk manager at Circus Circus. And then what he did is he tested to be on the fire department. He's a fire investigator now. He tested to be on the fire department, took him 6 times to get on the fire department because even though you, um, he, he, he ranked at the top percentage every time, what happens is when you go for it, they don't pick numbers 1 through 10. They picked like number 1, number 84, number 362. And, and it took him 6 times to get on. So he kept at it. He was persistent. He didn't give up after once or twice. But then this is what he did. He don't know this. You probably don't know that this is what he did. And this is part of the science, the metaphysics of this. But what he did is he took on a volunteer firefighter position in Boulder City here in like Las Vegas. Boulder City is like a 45-minute drive. He, for free, worked as a firefighter in Boulder City. When there was a fire over there, he'd get a call. He would have to, he'd have to speed down to, to rush down to go straight to Boulder City to help fight a fire. So then he was immersing himself in the vibration of being a firefighter, plus he was around other firefighters. And by doing that for however long, he eventually got into the fire department. He tested and then he eventually got on. Maybe they saw his name enough, like, this dude's freaking serious about it. But also he was in the vibrational frequency of the reality of him being a firefighter before he was even there. Just like I was making daily videos on YouTube before anyone was really watching and before I even knew it was going to pan out, I was living in that reality. I was tasting what is that like? What is that like for me to get up every single day and make a video? And since 2017, I— February 2017, I have been making daily videos on YouTube ever since. First part of my day, I woke up a little bit ago. Here I am making a video. This is a part of who I am and because I'm in this vibration, I'm in the vibration of having a reality that is equal to how I think, how I feel, and what I do. So you can begin to bridge these two realities by being aware of your current story that you tell yourself, being aware of the current, uh, things you think, feel, and do. And then identifying the version of you that's doing what you love and focus on the vibration of having, of being. I'd say go even beyond having to go into being. That's why I say something called being as if, being as if, because in the state of being, in the level of being, magical things begin to happen. There's a fly over here. It's been in my house for like 3 days now. 3 or 4 days. Anytime I'm cooking, fly comes out to say what up. So the vibration of having, and it's about knowing that what that feels like is when it comes to money, love, and success, what that feels like. And it's a nice fly. Hi buddy. What it feels like is you going within yourself and giving yourself permission to feel those emotions now. There's just a rule in our mind that says when the outer reality changes, then I can feel happy. But instead, when you start to just live in that reality now energetically, then you can experience it on the outside. And the most powerful way to feel it now is imagination. Imagination. I don't talk about it enough on this channel, but imagination is so powerful. Imagination. Imagine the version of you doing that, which you want to be doing. Imagine it. Imagine how you think. Imagine how you feel. Imagine what you do. And then what you could do is you can wire that in because eventually you think about it enough, you'll start to feel it. You start to realize that is who you are. You see, this process of becoming this new version of you is more about becoming who you really are at your soul level. I would say that me making videos is more who I am than me working a job I'm not passionate about. Come on, bro. So it's about being aware of these two, that dichotomy between the story you tell yourself, the current way you're being, being aware of where you are and how you think, feel, and do, and then choosing to be this version of you. But remember, it's not acting as if, it is being as if. If you are acting, you're eventually going to give away that role and you're going to go home for the day and chill with your family that's separate from the role that you were playing. You see, that's the difference. You might see someone like, uh, this has been shown. I mean, you've heard actors talk about this. When Heath Ledger was playing the Joker, he said he was having horrible dreams at night because he's playing such an evil character. Well, he was embodying that character 100%. You see, he was acting and he was in it. And then at the end of the day though, you could go home and stopped being that role, which ended up actually affecting him in a negative way to where what happened happened. But actors will continuously tell you that they begin to feel and embody the character that they're playing, and it kind of in a way becomes a little bit a part of them, especially while they're doing the movie. Now, the reason that I say don't act as if is because acting as if implies that it's only for a temporary period of time. Just like you might say, I'm going to act, I'm going to do a diet for 3 weeks. Well, guess what? You're going to get results for 3 weeks and then when you go back to your normal diet, you're going to get the results of that normal diet of who you are. But that's not who you are. It's just a way that you've priorly been conditioned. So you see, this is the key. This is the secret. It's understanding that the more you understand that you just are going to be from the being level, of your frequency, of the way you prefer to be, and you knowing it's completely an inner reality. Tap into the inner reality first. Yes, eventually the outer reality will change. You will take action and do things, but it stems from the inner reality. You don't take action until you first have the thought to do so or the intention to do so. You see, this is the— this is— I love it. So anyways, the vibration of having is about understanding that the money, the love, the success is an energy within you that you cultivate by you giving yourself permission and you bridging the vibrational gap between where you are and where you want to be. Seeing that as a natural part of who you are, for you to be doing what you love. I would encourage you to get into situations that put you in the vibrational frequency of those you want to be like. Like my dad going to the fire, becoming a volunteer firefighter around other firefighters. In the energy field, and then him doing that thing and being in the frequency of it and seeing that as a part of who he is. And then in the same way, me doing daily videos, me seeing myself as a full-time YouTuber and just giving myself permission to be a full-time YouTuber. You see, that's the, that's the difference. And not needing the external to change. You see, there will be a temporary time where the mirror of life is reflecting back to you an old way of being because you've had so long of the gears running on this old way of thinking, feeling, and doing that that old reality is continuing to play itself out. But when you decide that this is who I am now, you don't need the external to change, then eventually the external will change. That's the paradox. The external will change and it's you holding that frame, holding that frame, holding that role that then becomes who you are. You see, this is where transformation really begins to happen because you see that this old way of being, how you think, feel, and act is an illusion. It's something that you've tied onto in the past and something that's just been on autopilot. You become aware of it and then you start to see yourself as the person of you that you really prefer to be. So understand that the vibration of having money, love, and success is in direct reflection to how much permission you give yourself to feel that you're already in that reality and how much you are linking your inner and outer reality, actions, thoughts, and feelings to that. And the way you bridge that is through imagination and through choice, choosing that that is who you are now. So with that being said, something else that I have is a quiz that will show you where your current vibration is. It will calibrate your vibration and give you meditations to show you how to get to the next level of consciousness. It's a free quiz where I give you 2 meditations that I think will help you to transform your life. You can take that quiz in the link below or going by whatsmyvibration.com, whatsmyvibration.com. You can take that quiz, see where your vibration calibrates at. There's different archetypes that show you where your vibration is and then how to get to the next level, and I will help you to do that. So if you're interested in that, whatsmyvibration.com. and I will see you there and I'll help you transform to the next level. Other than that, I hope you enjoyed this video. If you could do me a favor and smash that like button if you liked this video and let me know, comment below, let me know if you want me to do more on vibrational frequency hacking. If so, I shall do. Other than that, as always, I will see you on the next video. Peace, much love, and namaste.
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