Aaron Doughty explains why most people abandon inner work: they start with unsustainable routines. Short, repeatable practices like meditation or journaling work better than ambitious schedules that cause burnout. Consistency beats intensity.
Do you have any tips for integrating, like, meeting my inner child's emotional needs?
Yeah. And then closing off everything else. Yeah. Like, do you feel like that balance will come organically?
Well, first off, having some form of daily practice— meditation, guided meditation, whatever works for you— is a very important part of that integration. The other side of this is being honest with what you can consistently apply. It's like going to the gym. If you go to the gym and you get super into going to the gym and you go to the gym and you do like a full body workout, you're there for 6 hours, you're then gonna be sore for a week and you're not gonna wanna ever go back. But if you go to the gym and you do the workouts you like and you enjoy it and you get a little sore but you know it's for your better, it's like every day, whatever you do most consistently is the best. It's applying the most powerful elements of it in a way that is digestible to you and being honest with yourself. 'Cause sometimes what'll happen is people are like, I'm gonna go, I'm gonna journal every day for an hour. I'm gonna meditate for 2 hours a day. I'm gonna do this and be in nature. And they do all of these things, but it falls off after a week because it's just so damn much.