Why Desire is BLOCKING the Law of Attraction (Do This Instead)

This video will show you how desire is blocking the law of attraction from working. I'm going to share with you ways to solve that so that you really are able to get what you want. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be speaking to you about the power of understanding intention, how desire is overrated, how desire many times block people from having the kind of experiences that they want and a completely new perspective that I'm beginning to develop about the law of attraction. Now this video and the idea of what I'm going to share with you is something I'm starting to develop. It's a new perspective that's really shaping the way that I see the whole process. I think it can be even more powerful than the old, like socially conditioned way that we kind of look at the law of attraction or the desire in general. And it comes from understanding quantum physics. And quantum mechanics in the sense of what we call parallel realities. Now, the reason I am bringing this and I'm talking about this is because it's something I'm currently learning. It's something I'm currently really digesting and learning more about, and it's something I'm applying and I'm beginning to see great results with because it's more of a balanced perspective. Now, in the old way of understanding desire, we think of desire as something that really fuels us towards having the kind of experiences that we want. It's something that kind of creates like the fuel for the direction of what we want. Now, under this new perspective, it has a couple variables that I have to kind of set the tone with for you to understand it at a deeper level. Understand that anything we give importance to, we create a balancing type energy. So if we put something on a pedestal, we end up distancing ourselves from it. Now, you may have experienced this if you've seen somebody or maybe even in a relationship before and you end up really becoming attached to the other person. The idea is that what you do is you put so much importance on that person, you put that person on a pedestal, and what happens when that happens? Well, normally what does happen is you end up distancing yourself from that and then there's some type of something that comes up and it just doesn't work out. You know, anytime someone's chasing someone else, that means that the other person's in a way type of like running. Right? That comes from that gap of feeling, of having such intense desire that the polarity is created. Distance is created because what we are initially doing is we're saying that that thing is not here right now. So in a way, desire can block the kind of experiences that we want because we are not then resonating with that experience. We are kind of putting excessive importance onto it, and because we are putting excessive importance onto it, we are going to get the kind kind of lesson that shows us that we have to balance it out. Now I've noticed this, especially if maybe there's like a girl that I'm talking to and I start to like put her on a pedestal. The moment that happens is the moment the distance starts to happen and the moment I have to snap myself into it and I have to like remind myself that this isn't something that's that important. I have to just kind of focus on my own thing. And it's funny though, because now that I'm so focused on my purpose and now that I don't give that excessive importance, it's like everything comes to me. It's like I don't really have to try for it. Because I'm more of just resonating with how I prefer to be and I don't give it all this excessive potential, all this excessive type importance. So this perspective is going to have to do more with the understanding of balancing the perspective and balancing the level of importance in order for you to get what we want. Now, in order to do this, let's understand more of the idea of parallel realities when it comes to quantum physics. Because this is something that's been proven when it comes to quantum mechanics and what they're beginning to learn more and more about. Now, the idea is that every possible experience you can imagine exists right now at some level. Now, the idea is that what we think of as time is us shifting through different frames that appear to be linear, but they're only linear because we have the idea of memory. So in essence, you can imagine any possible parallel reality, anything you can imagine exists right now in the present moment. So normally we think that we are creating our own reality, but in essence what we are doing is we are choosing it from a field of possibility because it already exists now. So you don't actually ever change the reality you're in. You just shift to a completely new one based upon the level of vibration and the pace based on what you are resonating with. So this has to do with the level of resonation or the what you are resonating with, your perspectives that you have, the feelings that you have are going to choose which ones you shift to. Now think about this in the form of desire. If we have a certain desire, what we are doing is we are putting out a quote unquote frequency that is saying that what we want and desire to have right now isn't here. So therefore we keep shifting ourselves to life tracks or we keep shifting ourselves to different parallel realities where that is not there yet because they are— there is a gap of that emotion. We are creating the self-fulfilling prophecy that that just simply doesn't exist with where we are right now. This is why I'm kind of introducing this new type of perspective because under this new type of perspective, it's a more neutral type of perspective. Standpoint, and it's where we can really create from a more powerful point of view because we realize that the only thing that really matters is our own state of being. We don't always have control over the external forces in our life, but we always can choose how we respond to those external forces. Now, this is why desire many times can block that kind of experience because we're putting so much importance onto that and we're emphasizing that what we want isn't here right now. Think about this in more of the form of what resonates and think about this in the form of frequency. Now, in order to balance this out, one of the most powerful things we can do is to just simply decrease the level of importance we are giving something. This means that if you're like, oh, I really want this, I really need this, realize first off, your state of being is the most important thing that you have and you can choose your own state of being. And as you feel better about who you are, as you change your focus, you are then resonating with different frames that already exist, different frames of reality, what we could call parallel realities that already exist. We are beginning to actually resonate with the ones that we want because our desire is not blocking the kind of experience. Our feelings are not negating the actual experience. Now I know this is a completely new perspective. I'm trying to give it in little pieces because I really Wanted to kind of sink in so that on future videos I can explain it in kind of, you know, a deeper way so that we really are able to resonate with it. But for me in general, this is something that's just so powerful because I'm realizing that the power of desire is that desire many times can get people to intend or get people to choose or get people to act. That's where desire can be powerful. But the thing is, is people keep desiring, they keep desiring, they maybe don't take action, they don't choose. They don't intend, they just desire, and that desire is what creates the block. Use desire just to get yourself to make a decision, a decision based on awareness, a decision based on choice, and transmute that desire into intention. Intention is the most powerful ability you have because when you intend, you are choosing. You can do this from a point of awareness of understanding that what choice does is choice brings you closer and closer to the reality that you experience. Now understand that every reality you can possibly imagine exists right now in the present moment, and that your choices are what is shifting you through the different ones to the ideal reality that you want. Your emotion is also linking those together, and having an emotion or a desire is negating the actual experience. Anytime we excessively want something, balanced forces come into play that make it so that it balances it out. Maybe you, you know, have a certain person that you are obsessing about. The idea is that by doing that, it's almost like it's showing you that that excessive importance you're giving it isn't something that is balanced, isn't something that is good, and therefore you have to come to a more neutral place. This is why many times many people that may have negative momentum in their life, once they get to the actual, like the absolute zero where they just can't lose anything else, you know, maybe a negative spiral. That's when they start to go up because they have nothing else to lose and they drop that desire. Then it's like they surrender to the moment. So this is why surrender is such a powerful idea. This is why it's something that can really be experienced, but understand that from where you are right now, you are already whole and complete. When you allow the moment to be, you are upping your own state of being. You are allowing yourself to then resonate with what you want to experience and that as you use choice and as you use intentions, that is shifting you to the reality that you prefer and that everything you can possibly imagine exists right now. The version of you that is having the ideal experience where you are who you prefer to be, where are you doing your passion for a living, you're with the right person. All of these things exist. It's a matter of resonance, but if you desire it, you're distancing yourself from it. If you desire it, simply intend desire, throw it out, use desire to get yourself to an intention. but then loosen the level of importance. As you loosen the level of importance, you then increase the resonance you have with that experience and you're more likely to then have it. So understand that also with this process, our subconscious mind is what controls the kind of experiences that we have. Most of us is habitualized into repetitively thinking, and that one of the most powerful ways for us to redo that is to focus on the 20 minutes before we go to bed every night. That's why I've created a free meditation that is specifically focused on reprogramming the subconscious mind. It'll help you change how you think, how you feel, how you act. All you have to do is— it's absolutely free. You can download it below in the description box. It's something I think is so powerful. That's why I created it and just giving it away to you guys. Listen to it before you go to bed at night and you'll find that as you do that repetitively, you start to change the way you view yourself and then you don't feel like you have to have so much desire because it's just a part of who you are being. So go ahead and download that below. It's the free MP3. It's at the top of the description box. Other than that, I hope you guys enjoyed this video. Feel free to like this video if you liked it. Subscribe if you haven't already. Also hit that little notification button so that you can see the daily videos that I do and I'll see you guys on the next vid. Peace, much love. Namaste.