Why It's SO HARD For High Vibrational People To ATTRACT LOVE...

Aaron Doughty explains why spiritually awakened people struggle with romance. Spiritual awakening can create a "lone wolf" identity and judgment of others as "asleep," blocking connection. Unresolved wounds and flipped masculine/feminine polarity also sabotage attraction, but letting go of spiritual labels and practicing a 21-day meditation can reset your love energy.
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Spiritual people will find it hard to attract love unless they shift the energy that I'm gonna share with you in this video. Now, there are reasons people feel stuck. There are reasons people find that maybe they haven't found their soul tribe, they haven't found their soulmates, they feel like they keep attracting old patterns over and over again, and that's because there's certain energies in play that keep them in a metaphorical box. Now, first off, for this process, a thing that happens that may not sound so cool to hear, but it's the fundamental like pattern that I see happen in so many people, and this also happened in me, is when I went through my spiritual awakening in 2012, what happened is I felt very alone. I felt like people didn't get me, people didn't understand me. I started like reading books at first, and then I started doing mantras, my energy very much changed. I went from like one way of being to like a completely new way of being where friends and family were like, what's going on with Aaron? And then I was so excited about ascension and spirituality and the law of attraction and like very common spiritual concepts that people may learn. So then I was sharing it with my friends, with my family, with everyone thinking they're just gonna love it, their lives are gonna change so much and they're gonna be so accepting and open to it. To find out that a lot of them thought it was weird, thought it was like something out of a, like they thought I was either on drugs or like they just didn't understand it. And that was a big letdown for me because then I felt very alone. And what would happen then is I went out into the world and I developed this belief. And this belief was that people just don't get me. This belief was there's not people out there that are similar to me. And there is this belief that I'm alone. Now, one of the first things that will block you from attracting love as a high vibrational person, or, and here's another shadow aspect to this too I'm gonna share. Then attracting someone into our life would go against and negate the lone wolf identity. And remember, we will always do everything we can to remain consistent to the way that we define ourselves. So if we define ourselves as a lone wolf, how are we gonna attract friends or even love? Because it's like, well, I'm a lone wolf, that's who I am. And the shadow side of this too is the thing that happened to me is I felt like people didn't get me and there was a level of self-judgment and spiritual significance, I call this. That's when people don't get you, in order to justify it, you say, well, you know, these people, they're just asleep. They're just unaware. They're asleep in the matrix. And when we have that mentality that people just sleep in the matrix and unaware, it's a judgment. And that will stop you and block you from attracting people into your life. So one thing that I had to do is I had to let go of the spiritual significance. And maybe even if you click on this video, you're like, well, yes, I'm a high vibrational person, but that also implies that there's a lot of low vibrational people around because it's like we're a hierarchy raising, like seeing ourselves out on this like pedestal. And one thing that I had to do is I had to let go of that spiritual significance. I had to let go of thinking I'm better than anybody or justifying like they're just asleep and I'm awake and they don't get me. I literally could not attract friends into my life or love into my life until I shifted that. And I had to start accepting other people and I had to start also accepting myself. So realize if you're having trouble attracting love, it could be because there's a belief that people don't get you. There's a level of the lone wolf mentality So the second thing for this, okay, this is one I'm excited to talk about actually. I haven't really shared this on my channel before. So one thing that happens when people go through a spiritual awakening a lot of times is something called the anima and the animus. The anima and the animus is this, animus is this idea from Carl Jung Carl Jungian psychology. And basically what it states is that when we go through a spiritual awakening and we evolve to, in spiral dynamics, what is called the green level of consciousness, it's a whole, I have whole videos on spiral dynamics, but what happens is, is if based on our energy, we revert to the other polarity. So for example, you'll see many men that may have very feminine energy that have been through a spiritual awakening, and you might find some women with masculine energy. And one of the reason that is is because when we go through a spiritual awakening, we flip our natural pole. Now, poles of polarity. And one of the reasons we're doing this is so that we can go through a process of healing that other side. So this is why sometimes you might have women that are in the empowerment age, they've gone through their spiritual awakening, they feel empowered, but maybe they feel like they're activating too much masculine energy and then they end up attracting feminine men because also the feminine men are gone through their— and this is a common like thread people go down, but their polarity gets flipped for a period of time. When your polarity gets flipped, you're going into it, heal it, but then you end up attracting sometimes kind of the opposite of what you want. You may be like, well, I want a masculine man, but what ends up happening is you end up attracting someone that's feminine, but it's because there's that masculine energy activated to go through and heal. Now also, just a general basis for this, when it comes to, say, male and female, understand that polarity and energy whatever one your natural is, there's feminine and masculine energy in everybody, but whatever one it is, when you go through an awakening, you may flip to the other side and it can still work where maybe then you're attracting more feminine or masculine females or guys, you know what I mean? So just being more part of the process, but you're going into that energy to heal it, to ground it within yourself. So just trust the timing as well and know that it's just a part of the process. There's nothing wrong. It's just something that you're going through to really heal. I had to go through and in a way heal the mother wound stuff so that I could then actually come even more powerfully and help others. If you have, let me know, comment below if you've noticed that. There's a big shift in energy, and that was one of them, the Aaron Doughty. And my theory about this, or what I've noticed, is that a lot of times this is a coping mechanism, a coping mechanism, but then what happens is they end up attracting people into their life that has a strong frame, is taking that lead role, not in a narcissistic way, but more so realize the word hero on a pedestal. You don't know this yet, but you are the other half It's gonna be okay. But then that makes them run away because it's a heavy-ass energy. So one thing I'd highly recommend you do is to let go of the labels and start treating everyone in your life in a way as a twin flame. In the moment, who's in your life, friends, family, they are your soulmate. Start to create a deeper degree of trust and love. And what'll end up happening is powerful meditation for attracting love. It is right here. It has over 4 million views and hundreds and hundreds of people, thousands of people if you read the comments, have attracted love from it. Because it activates the energy within. So if you haven't checked that video out yet, it is right here. Listen to it for 21 days and watch what happens. Make yourself comfortable. We are about to go deep into your subconscious mind.










