Aaron Doughty explains why you keep dating the same person over and over. Until you process the emotional patterns from past relationships, you'll attract partners who replay that same energy. Many people mistake survival-based emotions and dopamine highs for love, so stable partners feel boring.
Until you forgive the other people, you'll continue to attract different faces that replay the same energy. There's a certain person in your life, that person leaves, and then what happens is you attract somebody else that replays back that same dynamic. That person is in your life to reflect back a specific pattern. Until you have processed the pattern, you will continue to attract people that reflect that energy back. That's what that person represents. People are in the survival emotions. And they think it's connection. Many times it's survival, not actual love or connection. But when you're used to dopamine, high highs and low lows, you will literally think that people that are more regulated are boring. But really what you're doing is you are detoxing chaos. Why do we keep attracting these people in our life? Well, there's a story there, there's energy there. Subconsciously, they're asking you to do something.
