Someone keeps dating people with unresolved trauma who need emotional support but don't give it back. A friend identifies the pattern: they're attracted to people who need fixing, which is why the relationships feel one-sided.
Why do I keep attracting the same type of lovers? They have like trauma. You have to be there for them like emotionally. Yeah. And then they don't reciprocate the energy back. I don't feel loved. I feel used.
There's an energy where you're attracting people that need fixing. Is that correct?
Yes.
The thought is if I fix them, they love me. So if you fix them, they will love you. This is a very interesting thing to look at because what happens is many times if we felt like mom or dad didn't see us as a as a kid, or we felt like there's this desire sometimes for a younger aspect of us that wants to fix mom or dad. Because if we can fix mom or dad, we can get them to love us in the way that they weren't able to. So what happens is if there's unresolved energy there, we will attract that unresolved energy because we subconsciously want to resolve it. The next live event that I have coming up is in Los Angeles, California, January 31st to February 1st. If you want to join, go ahead and click the link in my bio or comment the word event and I'll send you the ticket.
If you can see this, you're about to become so magnetic you are unrecognizable
