Why You MUST Let Go to Attract What you Want (Law of Attraction Secret)

Aaron Doughty explains why strong desire blocks what you want to attract. He argues that letting go of emotional attachment and shifting to a calm, neutral state allows the universe to deliver results. His YouTube channel grew fastest when he stopped obsessing over subscriber counts.
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Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now, on this video I'm going to be sharing a little bit about letting go with you. How would we really learn how to let go? That changes just about everything and how it's really necessary in order for you to really attract what you want. Now, just to give you a little context, I'm here in LA right now. I'll kind of turn this around for you guys so you guys can see. Where I'm at. I am in some hotel and off one of the streets. I think I'm off Vine Street and close to Melrose or something like that. But I'm here just for a day, just a quick little trip. And I was listening to an audiobook my whole way coming here. And first off, I'll say that if you guys don't listen to audiobooks when you're driving, you're missing out. You know, I did like a whole— I get a lot of education actually just from driving around and listening to audiobooks. There's a lot of time that you can actually be doing that anyways. Uh, what I learned though is all about understanding how we must really learn to let go of the emotions that we have and how when we do let go of those emotions, we actually allow things to come into our life much more easily. So think of it like this. When we have a strong desire for something, a lot of times when we insist on how we think it should happen, what happens is, is insistence also causes resistance on the other side of it. So I recently did a video that was all about understanding how we can use the power of the word whatever in order to get what we want, because what we do is we kind of make it more neutral. It's not so much charged. And a lot of on this channel has been focused around like the emotions, how powerful our emotions are with creating our reality. But I'm starting to understand a completely new paradigm for how this could be. And I'm starting to understand the power of observation and how we can use observation to completely revolutionize the way we see the process. You see, Because if we put the barrier and think that, for example, if you have a desire to make, let's say, $100,000 a year, and the idea is maybe right now you make like half that, the idea is when you think about the $100,000 a year, it might bring a lot of excitement within you, or it might bring a big feeling inside of you. But the thing is, is by the time you are making that $100,000 a year, it's most likely that it won't feel that crazy to you. Now I experienced this when it came to YouTube, right? Like I had this intention of growing YouTube. My intention was to add value to as many people as possible to grow the YouTube channel. And in a couple months it went from only like 4,000 subscribers all the way up to over 100,000. And I thought that when I hit, or we hit 100,000 subscribers, that it was gonna be this feeling like this absolute ecstasy, just like I've made it. Like I walk around and everyone's just like, You know, like saying things or something like that. You know, I didn't really think that, but I must've thought it at some level when it comes to thinking it just felt totally different. And then what happens is you start, you know, my intention has always been to add value before anything else, before it's just about the growth of subscribers or anything like that. It's always adding value first. But when I got there, even as I was getting close, I realized there was really no difference in feeling. And I feel like even if once I hit 100, If it was like I was really putting more and more emotion energy into it, I could have also caused resistance because it's like, what if that went away or what if something happened right now? Of course the channel continues to grow and it's funny because when momentum continues to happen, it's like you're less focused on it and it doesn't faze you as much because it's just a part of who you are now. It's a part of just like the kind of results that you get. Now you may have realized this also when it comes to people with relationships. A lot of people will intend to get into a relationship and they'll put themselves out there, but the thing is, is if they desire it so much, many times what happens is that desire, even though they're very strongly intending it and they really have that feeling, that will keep them from experiencing it because by the time it comes here, it's not gonna feel the same way of what you imagine it would be. It'll be a little bit different. So the power of letting go is realizing that we are already whole and complete, that we must become more of a neutralized, peaceful state of being than anything else. Now this is a game changer. I know that I normally talk about how emotions is the most powerful thing, but I think there's a level above emotions and it's a peaceful type observation mode. It's when you're able to neutralize things and observe it more so than anything else. Now the reason I say this is because any times we, we really build on a strong desire of emotion or a strong just desire in general, what happens is, is we distance it from ourselves because the desire is telling us that that gap isn't here already. And that's why I think letting go is just the most powerful thing to do, is to really let go of the control. Now, this is a paradox. When we let go of control of what our ego mind thinks should happen, we actually gain more control. So when we surrender, we expand it out to a greater level of consciousness. We could call this observation, we could call this a multitude of different things, but when we do that, we are actually saying that we trust the process. We're giving the burden over, the luggage that we're carrying around, we're giving that over to a larger aspect of ourselves, to the universe, or whatever we call it. And the idea is that by doing that, we then increase the chances for it and we make it something that's much more natural. So The idea is to trust the process. Let go of the outcome. Understand that as you do that, better things will begin to happen, but also be very aware of what it will feel like for you to do certain things because I think that desire many times can block the things we want from actually happening. Now, I'm gonna elaborate more on this on a future vid. This type of understanding is really starting to influence my perspective in a powerful way, and I'm starting to see things happen that are just amazing, and I really believe in this observation-type mode this neutral type standpoint, being able to have the emotion, but more on just intending rather than having that desire more. And you'll notice this too, when people are very reactive to their environment, they're kind of like running around reactive, or, you know, they really value the amount of money they have, then they kind of open themselves up to being vulnerable because they've given something a significance of value. When in general, it's important to be aware of what certain things mean to us and to be aware of that. But if we give it too much value, then that opens it, opens us up to be vulnerable to lose it. So this is something, like I said, I'll go deeper on, but just for now, understand that having a more neutralized point of view, understanding how you would be acting in the preferred experience that you prefer to have, but also the kind of emotion you'd have, convert it more to peace than anything else. Like follow your excitement. I still think excitement is an amazing thing, but have the awareness that by the time that thing gets there, it's a settled type excitement. It's not going to be necessarily some jolting excitement 24/7 because that's not sustainable. It's gonna be more of a peaceful type mentality. And that as you have that awareness, you realize that you aren't that far from where you wanna be. You know, we put ourselves on this pedestal. We put so much significance onto what we think we need to achieve. And because we give it so much importance and value, it makes it almost impossible because there's so much of a gap there. So this is more about knowing that you're already whole and complete, that what you can do is really start to tap into that by having a more neutral type of perspective letting go of the outcome, knowing that as you surrender, you're actually allowing better things to happen, and that the more you do this, the more things really begin to change. Now, as I've said in a couple videos, I've created a very powerful subconscious mind MP3 that's absolutely free. You can download it below, it's in the description box. It will help you reprogram your subconscious mind so that you start to see yourself in a completely new way. When you change your self-image, you then change what you project out, and then you change the reflection that you get. So this is something that's very powerful for that. I'm gonna go ahead and link it below. And other than that, just remember, letting go is so powerful. The more you do it, the more you'll feel free, the more surrender, the more you feel like you actually have control from a deeper point of view. And then that's when everything begins to change. So with that being said, I hope you guys enjoyed this video. Feel free to like this video if you liked it, subscribe if you haven't already, hit that little notification here so that you can see daily videos that I do. And other than that, I will see you guys on the next video. Peace, much love, namaste.
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