Why Your Twin Flame is Running and How to Have Them Chase YOU

If you want to have your twin flame chase you, then there's certain energy dynamics that have to change to make that actually happen, because our energy influences whoever we're around. And if you want to develop gravity, that's what you must do that will have them chase you. And in this video, I'm going to show you exactly what to do to make that happen. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be sharing with you what to do if you feel like your twin flame is running and how to think about this in a different way that allows you to have more gravity so that then you attract that coming back to you. Now, first thing I want to talk about is What are we implying here when we say twin flame is running? When we say a twin flame is running, now our twin flame is in the twin flame in general is this idea that every one of us has a twin flame, a connection that we have, a soul type connection that in a way is what we could call a divine mirror. Someone that reflects back things to us. Many times you'll find in twin flame relationships that people tend to, tends to bring up a lot of stuff within the other person. And in a way when one has done a certain amount of work, it could also cause it to where then the other one in a way gets brought up to speed to the other person, which sometimes can be scary because imagine that maybe you haven't done as much, somebody hasn't done as much inner work and then all of a sudden all of these things are getting brought up and then they look at you, which is the person they're around. That's sometimes what causes them to run is that what is being reflected back is a certain type of inner work that needs to be done and that energy can then be somewhat frightening. So when we're talking about a twin flame running, let's understand that our twin flame, this connection we have, this story we tell ourselves about this process, has a direct correlation and influence on it. So if we are telling ourselves a story that says my twin flame is running, then what is happening is we are implying that there's our little twin flame right there, is running and we are trying to catch our twin flame. So anytime we say that, you know, I'm chasing someone, chasing love, what we are implying is that someone else is running. Now, our beliefs about reality have a strong influence on reality. And if we keep telling ourselves this story, our twin flame is running, my twin flame is running, my twin flame is running, then that continues to be the energy that we are putting out. And many times if we put something on a pedestal like a twin flame, the twin flame idea, many times we will put it on a big pedestal, make it very heavy. Guess what happens? That heaviness then is something they feel. And when they feel like they're being controlled, when they feel like there's some agenda there, when we sometimes people feel like they don't know they're my twin flame and because they don't know that we're twin flames, they may just break it off too easily. But here's the thing, and here's the truth that sometimes it's hard to hear. The idea and the belief in the twin flame ideology can get so heavy that I see people resist the process. So if we're putting this idea on a pedestal and we're putting this person on a pedestal, then we end up creating resistance around this idea. Now, something else that helps us understand and not put our twin flame on a pedestal is understanding more about how this might work. Now, first off, understand that you and I we're all connected. We're all connected. That makes it easier to understand because we're all connected that we don't necessarily have to put one person or one idea on a pedestal over anyone else. Now let's look at what a twin flame idea or the twin flame relationship may be. Now at the top we might have our higher self, our higher self. Let's say this is our oversoul, and then we have our higher self, which we're all connected to our higher self, and then we have different incarnations based on our higher self. So this is us, and let's say our higher self is here. When we go into meditation, we connect to our higher self, and then above that's oversoul. Now here's the thing about reality. Every single person, if you go up high enough, we're all connected. Every single one of us. Now what we call a twin flame relationship may be, or our twin flame in general, may be that connected to the higher self, it's just a little bit further up there. Maybe it's the two the two souls have the same higher self. So rather than being in a relationship with someone over here, which could be just as deep of a relationship, by the way, sometimes if we put the twin flame relationship on a pedestal, then assume, oh, this is the other half to my soul, this is the other half to my soul, and if it doesn't work out, then I'm doomed from love, then we feel like we're missing out on something. Here's what I've learned though. Not necessarily do every twin flame relationship— not necessarily does every twin flame relationship meant to be a romantic partnership through all of life. We're eternal spiritual beings. Now, I do believe because there's an awakening happening on the planet that there's more twin flame type connections happening than ever before because this is the time of transformation on the planet. However, in general, the best thing you can do to have your twin flame chase you is to switch around the energy dynamic and to know that you're good either way. All of these other beings at a deep level are you at the deepest core. And because of that, you can have just as a deep connection with your twin flame as you can with anyone else. Now, this doesn't mean that I'm saying that you just— it's never going to work out. What I'm saying is that by knowing you have options, it is then not putting that twin flame on a pedestal. Because I'll tell you right now, learning from experience, I remember when I first met what you call my twin flame And, you know, many of you know that's Lior. And her and I were in a relationship for, let's see, like a year, a whole year. And I remember when I first met her, there was— I've never felt such a deep connection to someone, especially even just a spiritual connection like that. And I really put her on a pedestal in a way in the beginning. And we both did. We both put each other on a pedestal in a way. And we started to— we really felt a certain way. And, and, and we both lived in different cities. So there were times we'd go travel, we'd go do something else separately, and we could both really feel that tug. And I remember I wasn't even somebody that, by the way, was really into this whole idea of the twin flame relationship idea. I wasn't even really about that. I used to think it was annoying because I felt like people put such a weight on it and put it on such a pedestal that they resisted it and they ended up like would give up a lot of their happiness for that. So I was almost in a way resistant towards it, but from meeting her and getting all this stuff brought up between both of us and, and, and her, between her and I, there's all this, this stuff. It could have been past life stuff, we're not even sure, but her and I are still best friends and we have redefined our relationship to where we're no longer romantically together. However, we will know each other for life and it's a very deep connection. But I'll tell you from experience that our expectations of each other, of understanding this whole twin flame thing, and from kind of being told that also by clairvoyant people and stuff, because we were both kind of resistant to the idea. But I'll tell you that the more expectation we put on each other, the more we put each other on a pedestal, the more resistant it was. And in the beginning, especially because we started to connect when we went to that place in Costa Rica, we were just friends, you know, as YouTubers going, and then we started to connect more at a deeper level. And I've always felt, we've always felt a connection with each other, even just as friends, but then it developed into something more. And that's when it brought up a whole bunch of amazing growth opportunities, a whole bunch of amazing experiences. But I will say that in the beginning of the relationship, The energy dynamic changed when I would think about it on a pedestal and be like, wow, this is like so different than anything else. And the more I would do that is the more resistance I would create. And then the more resistance would then have things happen to where we could feel that and we would almost repel each other from each other, from each other, from connecting at a very deep level. So I'll tell you what really helped me is learning to just let go. And allow the things to happen the way they're meant to. And I know that's kind of hard to hear, by the way, 'cause I remember even going through it and it was kind of challenging. A lot of it was very challenging because I'm like, I know this, I know I should let go, but part of me was like, it was like I was still trying to control the outcome. And I'll tell you right now that if I would've detached from this whole ideology of believing that I'm only meant to be with this one person, that I wouldn't have gone into scarcity and I wouldn't have then— and then in a way, in a way, for a while I gave up my star role. I would say that as well. In order to have your twin flame chase you, what you must do is you must become the star of your own movie. You must be the star of your own movie. I kind of stopped doing that for a while. What happened was is Lior started to go through some deep processes. She was going through a Kundalini activation. All of these things happened once we started dating. Even for me too, my own personal growth. But she started going through that, and then what happened is I was so focused on intending to help her and tending to, in a way, help her move through it, that in a way I lost my own, my own vision and going in a certain direction because I was so focused outside of myself. I was so focused on being a fixer. In a way, I've, I've kind of developed this archetype of being a fixer, maybe from— part of it could be from my dad and and just kind of like growing up with the, you know, my whole ex-stepmom situation, but always trying to fix and help people. And what happened was is all of that got brought up when Leora and I were dating, and especially in the beginning, and I then became, instead of the star of my own movie, I kind of surrendered that role and it would kind of go back and forth. And that's when the resistance would come up. That's when there would be issues between us or something would come up and we would feel like, there was a communication issue. And then I'll tell you what though, things started to align when I started to take my star role back, my star role back. Then things would, would go back. You know, I'm the star of my own movie. You're the star of your own movie, but you're also more attractive when you are the star of your own movie. It's funny because once we let go of the labels of us being and focusing, you know, we still believe that we are twin flames even though we're not together. And I know that might seem weird to sound, you know, sound weird because people are like, oh well, it has to work out this one individual way. But I think that twin flames come to activate. They come to activate each other. So because we are activating each other, what that activates in each individual person can in a way repel the other person. Or if you are activating them, they may then look at you and be kind of afraid and push you away. Twin flames come to activate. I remember when I first was talking to, like, my spiritual advisor in a way, and she intuitively was like, yes, this is a— this is your twin flame connection. And I was like, huh? I was like, I don't even believe or understand that whole twin flame thing. And she said twin flames come to activate each other. And it makes total sense because back in, you know, back in a year ago when her and I first started dating and met, they brought up and activated all this personal stuff within me. And it was something that then I had to look at. And there was a month, I remember it was December in 2018, it was a very deep month of going within in the personal journey. But in a way I felt a lot of resistance. And then because I felt resistance, she felt resistance on the other, on the other side, even though for a while she was traveling, she was in Europe and she could feel that resistance from me from that far away. But that kind of connection, that's kind of how it works. Now understand as well that one of the most important things you could do to have your twin flame chase you is to first off be the star of your own movie. And the next thing is to completely let go of the outcome. This twin flame connection is a divine thing. And when we try to control it using the human vessel and the human mind, we end up butchering up the vibration. That's what really changed for me too, is the more I learned to let go is the more it would come to me. And maybe you've had this experience even just beyond twin flames. Have you ever had it to where, or you see it, I've used this analogy before, but two people are dating, maybe, maybe they're in a relationship or maybe they start dating and then they split up and one is very sad and one really wants the other one. Then what happens is the other one that's sad about it for like two weeks finally goes out with friends or starts to forget about it or works on themselves, whatever it is. And then what happens is because they're not focused on the person they want to be with anymore, It's like that person can then feel it and it's like, why? It's like almost they feel that energetic tug. And then what they do is they may text the other person, like, so what are you up to? Even though they were resisting it for so long and they wanted them to text them back, but now the energy dynamic has changed. What has changed? When you let go of the outcome, that communicates energetically abundance, that energetically communicates, oh look, there's also all these other souls that are other aspects of the, the one which I am— we're all connected to. And maybe a soulmate relationship is something that actually may be more fulfilling in your life, and your twin flame connection was here to just activate you. Maybe then eventually it comes back around, and maybe it doesn't. But if you trust that process, you're going to allow the divine to work for you rather than you working and trying to do everything. It's like the ego's trying to put it on its back. It's trying to, uh, trying to get somewhere else and trying to get into control someone else. The key to this is allowing and letting go and also getting to the core of your own love, doing your own inner work, becoming aware of, of your definition about it, and really learning how to be unconditionally loving. I would say that from Lior and mine's relationship, because we really are best friends. We just got off the phone like yesterday. We haven't seen each other in a couple months, but we still talk all the time. We're still great friends. What Lior and I have learned from our twin flame relationship is unconditional love. Unconditional love, even with the conditions that we're not together, that's actually real love. Love is not some dependent love that I love you as long as you give something to me, as long as you make me feel a certain emotion. As long as you make me feel approval and appreciation and love. No, unconditional love is when you truly want the best for someone else and when you recognize that it's also that you want them to be happy. You want them to be loved. You want them to fulfill their utmost potential. That's actually real love. That is unconditional love. And if you want your twin flame to chase you, you must first be unconditionally loving to yourself and to them, even with the condition that they're not, they're not trying to be in a relationship with you right now. Have unconditional love for their growth process. Let them go through their own growth processes. Your— you guys meeting may have activated a lot within each other, so be compassionate about that. And by being compassionate about that, I promise you, on the other side of that, the universe will reward you, but have faith in the process itself and let it be. Understand that your definition and the story of abundance or the story of twin flame, my other half of my soul that's on a pedestal, that's what creates resistance. And then that's what blocks out all this other love that could be there because it's just about this one person. But maybe the purpose of that relationship is to reflect back something. Maybe it comes around in the future. And maybe it doesn't, but that, that energy of understanding, being detached from it, is where the power is. Let go of the outcome and understand that if you really want to get to this as well, then what I recommend you do is you really follow your passion and you really do what your, your mission is. Because if it starts to take you— if a relationship starts to take you off your mission, then a lot of times spirit may smack you on the hand and and let you figure it out. And in a way it takes it away from you because it's being counterproductive to why you actually came here. So there's a larger view here. There's the higher self view that's always directing you. And I promise you, you let go and realize the abundance that is all around. You realize that this comes to activate you, but doesn't mean that you need to be together forever. Maybe it does. I'm not saying that. I'm not saying that it can't, but what I'm saying is the definition of saying it has to work out creates resistance that then causes the chase. It's like, don't you realize you're my twin? Don't you realize you're my twin flame? Don't you realize you're meant to be with me forever? Don't you realize that I have you on this metaphorical pedestal and that you're all the way up here and that it would be really amazing if you'd be in a relationship with me? Don't you realize that? And then they feel that energy and guess what? Off they go because that is an energy of control. That is an energy of resistance. That is an energy that repels. So to recap, how do you have them chase you is you change around the energy dynamic with the realization that this whole definition of twin flame can cause things to get on a pedestal in and of itself. Realize you're an eternal spiritual being. You don't need another half. The other half would be here to activate you, to reflect back something, to be like a mirror, but you're already whole and complete. You have all these other connections so that then you could be in abundance and realize that maybe you're meant to be in a soulmate relationship instead of a twin flame relationship. And that because then you're in that abundance, you're more likely to have gravity. The most important thing though is to become the star of your own movie. When you become the star of your own movie, then you have people gravitate towards you. Are you on your mission? Are you doing what you're passionate about? And the more you also feel that self-love within, the more that then you will find that love comes to you. And if you haven't seen already, there is a meditation I have on attracting love. I'll go ahead and go ahead and put a card right here for it. It's on attracting love and it's, uh, it's the most power, the most popular meditation I have on my channel. So many people in the comments say that they have attracted love from listening to that video for 21 days. So if you want, check it out right here, the attract love meditation. Read the comments that increases your belief is what's possible. Possible, generate that love from within, and watch how your twin flame then chases you. So that video will be right here at the end card. Check it out. And as always, peace, much love, and namaste.