You'll see this video when LOVE is around the corner...

Love isn't coming later, it's here now but you can't perceive it because of nervous system dysregulation and subconscious blocks. Breathwork, vulnerability, and shadow work can shift your nervous system to access the 11-15 million bits of information you're missing, making you magnetic to love.
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You could see this video, love is right around the corner. You can only perceive that which you are the vibration of, and love is around the corner. And the reason you are not able to perceive of it is because there isn't the awareness that love is here now. Love is around the corner, remember? And if the only moment that exists is now, love's not here, it's around the corner. Now the key is understanding that you will perceive of that love that is around the corner when you begin to embody and see that love inside of yourself. For a long time, I felt blocked with love because I felt like I wasn't worthy of it. I had beliefs about it that caused me to block love from coming into my life. I would even be afraid of being vulnerable and having emotionally available love there because that felt like something that was scary. So it was safer to keep it at arm's length. It was safer to keep it around the corner, out of sight, but kind of like hoping one day, one day it'll come from around the corner and be here now. Maybe the biggest block to you experiencing love in your life is an attachment to the past. Could even be the fear, the fear of love, the fear of somebody that could really see you and connect to you because maybe what you've known growing up wasn't love, it was validation and approval. It was a belief that I must prove myself to be worthy. I must tiptoe around and please other people and then I'll be good enough. So part of the reason that you may not have attracted love yet is because you're not playing the game of realizing love. You might be of settling for validation and approval. These are different games to play, I guess you could say. Like one is not a game, one is just, Being love, not being attached to outcome, being in the present moment, this is a certain energy. The game of approval and wanting validation and believing that love is conditional, which is what most of us learned growing up, is a game that many people play because it's what they know. And then they ask, why do I attract certain people in my life? Think about it like a dance move. This is something I shared at a live event recently. It's like, imagine you're doing a certain dance and every time you make a certain dance move, you attract other people to do that dance move with you. And you're like, why do I keep attracting controlling people or emotionally unavailable people? Well, you keep doing the dance move and the dance move attracts them. But as long as we believe it's just them, why do I keep attracting them? We're not taking responsibility for what's been normalized inside our nervous system. So one of the biggest insights for you to attract love may be to begin regulating your nervous system. Love is around the corner because the nervous system isn't been regulated, and therefore it just keeps passing by you. Now realize, if you want to attract deep level of love and deep connections, that's going to come from having a regulated nervous system. And to regulate your nervous system, really, it involves becoming aware of how you feel, breathing into your body, and learning and being aware of when you're around certain people, you may be dysregulated. When you're doing certain activities, it may dysregulate yourself. Start to ask yourself the question, how can I get into a regulated nervous system. What regulates me? For me, it's when I walk barefoot on the beach. It's when I'm in nature. It's when I'm around people I'm having deep conversations with. It's when I read, take a shower. That'll regulate my nervous system. Imagine all you gotta do is go take a shower and then is it around the corner still? Maybe it moves a little bit closer. Now, of course, this around the corner love thing is an illusion. But if you think about it, think about this, what quantum physics shows us is that there's 11 to 15 million bits of information around us at any given moment. What does that even mean? I hear that sometimes and I'm like, 11, it's hard for the mind to even comprehend that there's that much data around us at any given moment. But we can only perceive of 100 bits per second of information. 100 bits per second is what we can perceive of, but there's 11 to 15 million bits of information around us. That means that it's not about making love around the corner come towards you. It's about letting it be visible to you. And part of this is taking responsibility for the patterns, taking responsibility for the stories, Taking responsibility for the nervous system. And for a long time, I kept the responsibility out of me because it allowed me to justify my childhood. You see, they're controlling. You see, they're not coming around. You see, I must fix them. I was playing that game. The 100 bits per second in my field were that because that's what I knew. That was the dance move I was used to making. So really what this is about is this is about embodying the energy of the love you wanna receive on the outside and trusting that it will happen when it's meant to happen. There's a timing to everything. Recently in my life, things have shifted a lot and it didn't come from control. Like a lot of times when people try to manifest love, you wanna know what they do? They try to create it. And they try to put the, I'm gonna go to the yoga classes, I'm gonna put myself at the right place at the right time. What do people think about me? They go on dates and they're like, does this person like me? How does this person feel? They're asking themselves these questions instead of asking themselves like, do I have anything in common with this person? Do we have shared values? So what ends up happening is we end up putting the power outside of ourselves. And when you begin to instead let go and allow the divine to do its thing, and you focus on getting in alignment, you focus on letting go of the subconscious beliefs and patterns, et cetera, what you end up doing is you end up bringing that energy more back to you. And that's really a huge part of this process because attracting love is not something that you have to try to do. It's something that won't help itself to find you once you've let go and once you've started putting that energy back in you. Control is a resistant energy. A lot of times it happens when you're not looking. So many times I have seen people, they're trying to attract love, they're trying to go to the yoga class so they can meet the person, they're trying to do all the things they're supposed to do, they're on dating apps and doing all that stuff. But then eventually at a certain point, you wanna know what a lot of times will happen? They just let go. You could say they let go, they let God. They just focus and they start pouring that extra energy in their own life. They start having fun with friends instead of making it the serious thing they have to do. They put that energy back into themselves and they see, they still see where there's opportunities for opening up more. You wanna talk about a dance move that will open you up to deeper love and connection? One of those dance moves is vulnerability. Vulnerability will scare away the emotionally unavailable people that don't resonate with you, but it will attract to you the people that really resonate with that authentic part of you. And it's the thing a lot of people are afraid to do because in childhood, vulnerability wasn't encouraged for some of us. For some of us, we may have had to walk on eggshells around people. Or we didn't think that we had value or were worthy of like having, being a burden to other people. That's a dance move that's very powerful. The dance move of vulnerability. And the fear is if I'm vulnerable, I'll be rejected. But if you're vulnerable, you're also living in integrity and you respect you because it's a value you choose to live by. And what that then has a result in is attracting people into your life that reflect back that energy. That's more depth. That's more of that powerful energy. You know, something that's always blown me away is I have this one meditation on YouTube that has literally 6 million plus views. It's my most popular video on YouTube. It's a, or maybe more than that, maybe 8 million views, I forget. Sounds cool with millions of views. Is it 6 million or 8 million? I don't even know. It's so many millions. But underneath this video are thousands of comments from people. Many people say that they started listening to this meditation for 21 days, which think about it, you're doing a meditation, you're priming your field for 21 days. The 100 bits per second of information around you become that love and feeling it as if it's here now, which is basically what the meditation does. And then there are comments from people that are like, I want you to know, "I did this meditation for a month and I met my husband and we've been together for 5 years now." There's like a comment that says something like that on there. And I'm like, what? That's so cool because that video's been around for like 8 years. You imagine that? That's cool, they came back to comment that. And there's a lot of other comments from people, I met this person, this happened, it opened up this because you change the energy. Even something I do that I've done before that I'm getting ready to do is something called the 21 Day Magnetic Love Challenge. It's 21 days to a more magnetic you that has attracting love easier than ever. Removing the subconscious blocks, the masculine or feminine shield that you may have put up in childhood. Understanding polarity and how to embody your natural polarity. Understanding how to let go of outcome, to be good either way, to be in your own frame of reality. There's a 21-day challenge we're doing. We did this originally in 2022 and it was so powerful. We had 4,000 people join it. The 1,200 people showed up every day for 21 days. It was crazy. And people afterwards, I started getting DMs from people. I attracted love, this happened. And really what we did is the whole point is to focus on feeling the love now. So one thing that we are doing, by the way, is we're doing another 21-day magnetic love challenge that is starting very soon on September 15th. And it's gonna come with that, an exact process for removing the subconscious blocks and to feel love so you're not chasing you create a magnet effect where love comes towards you because of the energy you're embodying. Comes with breathwork, comes with a process, and we start very soon. So if you do wanna join and you want your ticket, go ahead and link it below and you can join, grab your ticket, and we'll see you then, starts September 15th. But nonetheless, realize that love is a reflection of your inner energy. And most people do get an energetic payoff from believing Love isn't here. It's around the corner. It's not here, but it is around the corner. You watch this video, the synchronicity of you watching this video is that in this moment right now, love is around the corner, but it's not here. And the joke of this is that love is here now. The 100 bits per second of information that you can perceive of, it's literally just invisible to you because you're not embodying the emotion or the energy. When you begin to embody that energy, that's when your life will begin to change. When you begin to embrace what you're afraid of embracing. For some of you, that may mean that you are afraid of your own masculine energy or you are afraid of your own feminine energy because you may have some type of unprocessed energy towards mom and dad or what it means to be masculine or feminine. And for a long time, I felt blocked because I felt like I didn't learn certain things growing up. I was in this like conditional love dynamic where I was trying to prove and feel validated and prove myself to mom and dad, which had me be in a different energy than my natural masculine core. But what happened is as I began to look at this energy and I began to lean into the thing I was avoiding, which for me was tension, that's when my energy shifted. That's when I became more confident. That's when I embraced being the bad guy, which really meant being vulnerable and authentic and real and to the point. But as I did that, guess what? New reflections in my life came. So realize that your next breakthrough, the thing that you wanna create in your life, the love that you wanna attract that's around the corner, it's around the corner because there's something you're avoiding. There's something you're afraid of. You might be afraid of vulnerability. You might be afraid of showing your true emotions, and that's why it's not there. Maybe a vulnerable conversation that you can have. It might be you expressing how you really feel to someone. It might be you putting yourself out there more, the thing you're afraid to do, because if you put out yourself more, you could get rejected. Your block, isn't the love that's around the block. It's the block to being that energy now, to embracing a rejected part of you. And when you begin to embrace that part of you, your whole entire life will begin to shift. For me, I had to embrace tension. I had to embrace disappointing people and realizing it's not my job to fix them. It's not my job to, get their approval. And the funny thing is, is when you're really good either way, you're free. For me, things have come into my life when I was good either way. Good whether something happens or doesn't happen, and then I'm free to be me. A lot's shifted in my life just because of simple things like vulnerability, sharing how I really feel. Having the courage to look at certain things within myself. And for many people that attract, that find themselves blocking love, that might be your thing. That might be the thing that shifts everything for you is learning to be more vulnerable, learning to share your heart more, learning to express how you feel. Maybe it's even just becoming aware of the story that you might be projecting onto everyone else. All men are this way, all women are this way. That's, by the way, something we look at in the Magnetic Love Challenge. What are your beliefs around men? What are your beliefs around dad? What are your beliefs about women and how you relate to mom? And the way we relate to women or mom energy is a lot of times the way we relate to love and feminine energy. And there are ways of looking at this energy, completing the past and processing it so that you start to allow more of that love in, even if you haven't experienced it before. So the shadow side of this too is that the more you might be blocking it because you're not in your feminine energy or you're not in your masculine energy or you resist these two different things. It's just something to become aware of. And when you begin to embody it, that's where magic really begins to happen. When you begin to try on that energy, when you begin to see what are you really afraid of? Is it the vulnerability that comes up? Is it the control that you try to place in? Whatever it is, when you begin to become aware of this energy, you will begin to become more free. And that's what you want out of this process. The more you let go of trying to control, the more in control you will feel. Think about that paradox. The more you let go of control, the more in control you'll feel because you aren't trying to control it. Maybe God is, something greater than your ego. Maybe the reason you block love is because you believe your ego has to do it. You're trying to control, which creates resistance. Maybe your next breakthrough is around letting go. Letting go, having fun, being good either way, looking at what are you avoiding? Do you need to embrace a part of yourself you've been rejecting? Do you resent masculine or feminine energy? Are you afraid that if you embody it, you'll get rejected or something bad will happen? What are you afraid of? What have you been hiding from? These are all things you become aware of. You become aware of your shadow side of it. That's where the gold is. That's where things shift. So realize that love is only around the corner because you don't believe it's here now because there's something you're afraid of. And the more you believe it's around the corner, the more around the corner it'll be and the more it won't be here now. 11 to 15 million bits of information around you. You can only perceive of 100 bits per second. It's literally here now, right meow, but you can't perceive of it. Why? Because you believe it's around the corner. So if you are ready to let love come from around the corner to in plain sight and eventually be magnetized to you, that is exactly what we're gonna be doing in the 21 Day Magnetic Love Challenge. And you can exactly join by exactly clicking the exact link in the description box below. You just have to push the button, grab your spot. Let's start September 15th. It's gonna be magical. It's gonna be epic. And that's kind of it for today. If you want that meditation I was talking about that has like 6 million views, 8 million views, who knows? So many millions of views, ego, whatever. It'll be at the end of this video too. You can read the comments and see what's possible, okay? With that being said, my intention for you is to attract love, but you to do it from the inside out, not from the outside in. To realize the more you let go of control, the more in control you'll feel because you allow the divine to bring it to you. So maybe the next step is to join the 21 Day Magnetic Love Challenge or to listen to this meditation right here. Regardless, talk to you soon. Peace, much love, and namaste.










